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Where Did I Go Wrong: ?

Actually, finding someone u can spend ur entire life time with is rare to find in this part of the world, I tot i've found the best among the best but it turns-out to be the other way round. After 2 year of been together with much love and fun from both sides; I got a terrible sms from her saying" I knw dis will come to you as a suprise but u ve to take heart, I tink we should take a pause in the whole thing, i'm sorry". I got this sms in April and i'm yet to recover from the shock. We neva had a fight or quarrel over anything, I tired as much as possible to always keep in-touch wit her on daily basis for 2 years due to the distance (she resides in Abuja while I stay in lagos) and I've neva tot of cheating on her for once. Till date, she's yet to call, I'm so confused!! where did go wrong, plsss!

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This was over a yr ago. I doubt he is still in pain

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@poster so sorry is so painful i can feel yur pain but nevertheless life goes on is even better at dis earlier stage nt after marriage just pick yurself together nd continue yur life yur choice wil locate yu ijsn.

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@Poster,

so sad but you just have to learn to 4get her and move on.

So much love out there.

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Move on man. I hate it when brothers cry over a woman dumping them when there is so many beautiful other ladies out there.

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she must be a fool to ask for a second chance!!

its too late, there is no way i would go back to my past, she is now a PAST!!! Imagine this fool calling to apologise (apology accepted) and needs a second.

I don't see anyway anybody would convince me to accept her offer. I'm much more better been alone,

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Go for her best friend. You will feel much better.

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@ poster,

So sad but u have to move on, keep urself busy at work and with time u will get over her and even get someone better and don't be surprised that's when she would want to have u back.

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forget about her nd move on! u wuld definitely find someone better.

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You are on a long thing,she's long gone with the wind.

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sorry dude. . . girl is gone with anoda dude in Abj

so you need to move on. . . . if she is not bck since April den she ain't coming bck

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As far as you are not married, this one of the things in the process.

Is never a new thing, she got someone who is better than you there.

So look for one who is better than her where you are too.

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Definitely you guys are not meant to be, you have to move on with your life cos am sure she has done that, although its not easy but you have to accept it as you own fate. she sms you because she does not want to waste your time and because she wants you to move on.so try to start something new elsewhere and who knows you might be lucky this time.[tr][/tr]

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I can feel your pains, but did u try calling her ,if you did and no positive respones then move on with your life, take heart and try to love again.

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