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Woke up early this morning to do my laundry and read an email from a NL member, hence the questions.

Why some people find pleasure when they hurt others?  I am not talking about me but life in general.

When you intentionally set out to hurt someone, do you feel better inside? do you derive pleasure from it?  When you talk to God, do you ask for forgiveness knowing what you did was intentionally?

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i said read Genesis and prove it,

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I go with the phrase: Perception is everything. Some people within the theory that exists in their state of mind, some may not know that they are hurting another person, especially if that hurting person never voices their opinion or gets the opportunity to do so.

Because perception is everything, which may not necessarily represent reality <as reality thru the lenses of the viewer is relative> , Im not certain if I believe in Karma.

Some people say let A continue to be evil; Karma is a Btich, however A may not know that he or she is being evil,

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u cant give wat u dont av

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God neva created a woman to love a man, read GENESIS again,

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I hurt a few girls, intentionally. I think there was an initial feeling of hurt, and then a desire for revenge, the desire started as a hunger, and then there was an ability when girls i didnt give a flying f*** about started bugging me - i knew i could deliver. When it wont work, u just know from the beginning, but i guess getting laid is not a one sided thing, its a give and take affair, so when there's nothing to lose - what do u do?

I make their daydreams come true but i exit when i feel enough is enough with all their committment talk. I've twice met girls that meant something to me, and both times i meant little to them, so i guess what goes around comes around too.

At the end of the day, of course i realise how they must've felt, and when i go to bed at night i ask for forgiveness. Sometimes i actually try to make peace with them, some of them accept my hand of friendship after i explain things to them, others dont wanna see or hear from me so i let them be.

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Why do you cry when u're hurt? To relief de PAIN Likewise hurtin another

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Wickedness has existed since God created the world. How can you explain the murder of Abel by Cain? Can that ever be justified? The world is getting advanced every minute, so is its wickedness. Like or lump it.

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Wat has dis gat 2 do wit politics.

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wat will u do nt us.

So u ar here

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@ poster . . . u seem to be a very touchy person.

U can take things/life too seriously.

Pple can say or do whateva they want. Such is the human nature.

It is up to u to guide and guard urself.

Life in all ain't fair . . . we all gotta learn to tug it out one way or another.

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Love is dead to our politician they are just content embezzling money that was mean't for the masses, emassing public funds and going scot free as been the order of the day in Nigeria, Really I don't like talking about politics and Politicians cuz you'll talk from now till next year and nothing would change, they say "E GO BETTER " but things are getting worst, it's never gonna get better until we work towards it lets not be blindfolded, The truth is bitter, we have to say it no matter who it hurts I don't care, cuz they also don't care about the masses

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Seem like you don't understand what love is. What has the bedroom got to do wiff what the poster is saying?

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Love only happens in bedroom only, immediately you remove your from the pusssy, love will dissapear

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its outright wickedness to hurt ppl deliberately,

but then there are decisions u take sometimes that wud seem hurting at present,

but is for he later good of the parties involved.

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It flows in their blood. Especially, our politicians.

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