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Which One Is It?complex? Shame/shy?nonsense?

Its quite surprising when I figure out that some people still feel ashamed/shy doing some specific things, example in specifics , Like ur in an eatery with ur new date, and you feel like using the toilet, but you refuse to go to tha toilet coz ur shy/ashamed?, or the food ur both eating, the girl dnt wana eat well just cos she is shy/ashamed?, do yall think this is a matter of complex or plain nonsense?

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As for me (EYO) During a first date, I can actually form not fart in fronna my date, but when the going gets going, I do always fart in the presence of my date, but s for going to the toilet or eating the normal I do at home, that is not just a problem, its all about being you. But I find it very disgusting when guys/girls form on such ocassions.

It makes it even worse for some people when they are with a group of girls and guys, even when the shiiiitt don hold body, them no go gree go, I have heard a gist of a guy that scattered the whole event place when him poo for body, it was a total disaster.

Another one is, you go to a wedding or a party like with friends, and you guys are sitting on a long row of table, and there are people you dont know sitting in from of you, after being served, they'll wait for someone to pick up the spoon and start eating, then after lyk 3 minutes, they'll start too, as for me, once the plate dey land, i dey eat sharp sharp, some people where dey form reach, spoon go fall from them hand, or make juice or drink mistakenly splash for table due to lack of confidence/shy/inferiority complex.

I was with my new date yesterday, took her out for TFC, she did not eat more than 5 spoons of the rice, and the chicken was like how it was served, I knew I had to work on she getting used to me, cos me don finish my food before time be time.

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As for me (EYO) During a first date, I can actually form not fart in fronna my date, but when the going gets going, I do always fart in the presence of my date, but s for going to the toilet or eating the normal I do at home, that is not just a problem, its all about being you. But I find it very disgusting when guys/girls form on such ocassions.

It makes it even worse for some people when they are with a group of girls and guys, even when the shiiiitt don hold body, them no go gree go, I have heard a gist of a guy that scattered the whole event place when him poo for body, it was a total disaster.

Another one is, you go to a wedding or a party like with friends, and you guys are sitting on a long row of table, and there are people you dont know sitting in from of you, after being served, they'll wait for someone to pick up the spoon and start eating, then after lyk 3 minutes, they'll start too, as for me, once the plate dey land, i dey eat sharp sharp, some people where dey form reach, spoon go fall from them hand, or make juice or drink mistakenly splash for table due to lack of confidence/shy/inferiority complex.

I was with my new date yesterday, took her out for TFC, she did not eat more than 5 spoons of the rice, and the chicken was like how it was served, I knew I had to work on she getting used to me, cos me don finish my food before time be time.

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And this:

http://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-244513.160.html#msg3565420

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Toyosi, iro ni won npa mo mi .

I no get anyone oh. You wan make I open thread for Toyosi ni?

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Kini mo se fun e now?

My dear kini mo se fun e o?

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Its a combination of all and more.

On a first date, you have to understand that both parties are nervous, trying to impress, trying not to appear weird in anyway. I have been there and have done that.

I say its nervousness than any other thing.

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As long as your hands/fingers are properly washed (and sanitized) i don't see why you shoudn't continue with your food  though . . .

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bacteria might enter the nails (pretty risky if you're eating solid food such as eba, iyan, amala etc)

Prevents sickness. . . .the most shared "item" universally.

Sure, it's just from your plate. . . .but I think it's disgusting.

I'm not a neat freak o, but there are just some things that make me go crazy. I can't go out without a bottle of hand sanitizer.

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I was brought up like this:

1. Go to the restroom and wash your hands

2. Come to the tableand eat

3. Go to the restroom and wash your hands.

If anytime you want to use the restroom during number 2, you have 2 options

1. Finish eating quickly (with some manners), then you can head to the restroom

2. Go to the restroom, but don't bother coming back to the table. It's considered unsanitary.

And it worked. . . .helped me learn to eat faster and keeps half of the bacteria I'd have consumed -if I didn't follow the rules- out of my system

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I mean i can understand it if two people are sharing the same dish/es. But if you are eating from your own dish, i don't see any reason why you shouldn't be allowed to finish your meal . . . .

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i think it's plain nonsense because THIS IS YOU. if you want to eat a full meal but won't, just because you are on a first date, that is showing to that person an image of you that is false. you want this person to be used to somebody YOU ARE NOT and with time, you will show her the real you. that is a waste of time for you/the person in front of you. a big juicy lie. who want to start a relationship by lying/faking/pretending? be comfortable with who you are and hopefully she will be too.

ps. nobody goes to the toilet DURING a meal, that's just wrong. you either go before or after. cleaning your hands before having a meal is a normal thing to do so you should go to the toilets.

it's all about having confidence with yourself.

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And he goes to the toilet while eating and comes back to finish the food?

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