Which one will you find easier to forgive: Your woman flutes another man without bleeping, OR, she bleeps another man without fluting.
I've experienced some situations where a gurl, after much seduction/persuasion, yields only to fore-play and then fluting. . .but refuses to yield to full-blown, penetrative intimacy. One said it makes her feel somewhat like she didn't quite 'cheat' on her (lucky?) boyfriend since her oil-rig remains 'intact' and unpenetrated by unfamilar objects (my words). . . and in my mind I'm like WTF?
So, just wondering, if as a boyfriend/husband you are compelled to choose one of these two evils, which would it be?