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Which Way To Go? This Is Confusing!

Please i would so much appreciate your opinion on this matter that has been bordering my mind for a while now. On the 1st day of resumption for studies in my present school, i saw this girl coming so i approached her and introduced myself, i asked her what program she's taking and fortunately for me she is also a new student from Ghana who just arrived on scholarship to take the program. She is nice looking girl, intelligent, charming and communicates well. Since the 1st day she told how she feels so lonely in the accomodation she was allocated to, since the housemates students seems not to be around most times. From that day i took out around town to the shops where she bought stuffs for herself, we went to the grocery together where she bought foodstuffs for herself, visited fast food joints together while taking her alot of pictures, cus she seems to be interested in it!!! after a week i spoke to her while we were in a fast food joint how i wish i could go out with her as in starting a relationship, cus i know many guys are willing to approach her but she seemed to be worried about the topic and clearly told me that she has a boyfriend which is far away from where we are schooling together now. Ever since then things had changed, she often comes to me to inform me that she is going out to buy stuffs just 4 me to follow her about but after many more attempts to convince her of starting a relationship without any thing coming out i decided not to go again most times.Even though i showed her alot of affection and told her my feelings as a man, she still tells me that she doesnt love me and doesnt av any feeling 4 me. I decided to give her the cold shoulder unexpectedly for like 2 weeks, then i realised that whenever i ignore her and talk smoothly with other girls in d class she seems to feel bad and curious to know what is going on. But really i am not doing this to make her jealous but i realised that this girls just like me as a person. When i ignored her she started talking more with other innocent guys in the class, talking loud in my presence on how they intend to the shops to buy stuffs 4 herself and visit new places, even though i feel a lil bit hurt but i still act as if it doesnt bother me so she kept wondering!!! After a while i realised that she removed the pixs of she and her boyfriends from facebook and wrote this " i dont know why what i hear over and over seems to me more interesting than what i hear" , i talked to her again but still its thesame story. After ignoring her 4 a while she sent me a tagged me on a note on facebook saying that she knows she is not perfect but understanding is what makes a relationship work. The following day i spoke to her she in class she seemed gentle and cool that day, i even went home with her and she made me something 2 eat. I dont understand after a while she seems 2 start doing same thing again spending time with other guys in my class so i just got tired. When we settled again i decided 2 go with her to place and when i was about to leave i kissed her on the arm to know feeling so she became so annoyed and told me not to talk 2 her in class gain. i tried to call her and say sorry but she ignored, then i decided 2 ignore and later realised that she started displaying just 4 me to come to her but i still stand my ground up till now. we see in class everyday but i dont relate with her and i know she really feels bad about it, many people evn wonder what is happening cus they thought we are going out, but i am just speechless i dont know what to say i dont know what to do anymore, i know she wants my attention again, pls help me out on this matter cus i am confused and i dont know what to do.

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Any gal you approach will always say she has a guy even if she doesnt, but you Bleep up.why must you follow her about like that, the familarity is the problem here, try make yourself scarce a little bit sometime.

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Follow this path: friendz with benefits.

Thats what she wants.

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This one na tales by noon light.

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For a girl who knows that u re interested in her 2 tell u dt she has a boyfriend,only means that she just want ur company(friendship) and nt ur love(r/ship).I think u should let her be since u re nt comfortable with it. Concentrate on others girls and look 4 the one who wants ur love.

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She says she has a guy ,doesnt have feelings for you and doesnt love you.That ,in my own opinon is a sucker punch.What else do you want to do?My advice-Drop her like hot potato.Except if you just want her Bottom anyway.

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^^^

simple did that before~ but didnt yield results till date~

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My advice is don ask her out anymore and stop following her about as you used to. Appear friendly to her and withdraw 70% attention you are giving her. With time, if she is truly your, she will come to love you 4 who u are.

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My advice is don ask her out anymore and stop following her about as you used to. Appear friendly to her and withdraw 70% attention you are giving her. With time, if she is truly your, she will come to love you 4 who u are.

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@ medacares thanks, this girl is really playing hard 2 get, but she actually showed me the pictures she took with the boyfriend.

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I think i wil advise u nt 2give up if u think she likes ask her out 4 d last time if she stil says no den forget her nd get anoda girl since u said dere r oda girls dat like u 4 who u r.

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