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Hi friends, what's your opinion about this, if a man meets a lady for the first time and they both exchange phone numbers, is it right for the lady to call first?

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Why should a guy ask for my number and i xpect me to call first?

I can only initiate the first call if i was the one that asked first, for his number otherwise, no wayyyyyyyyy

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Guys, i think u should accept the idea of u calling first because that's the right thing to be done. not ladies first ok.

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it doesnt matter who calls first, it depends on the intention behind the calling, if you already see the guy as a friend then you can call him, if not you may forget him.

i personally choose my friends, if i see him as a potential friend, someone i would want to learn from and be seen with then i will call if he doesnt call.

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Well traditonally its supposed to be the guy.

Personally, i would probably do the calling after a day (am not really traditional like that) not hearing from the guy- especially if its one i really like and i see as being a potential.

But after that first call, then its up to him to call me after that and in order for me not to be temptedto call him again, i get rid of the number.

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hhhmmm, i don't agree with the idea of the girl calling first.

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well personally i think the dude should call first America or no America cos if she calls first and u know how you guys are u gon start avin a big head and start taking her as "cheap"

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If she's fine, I call vice versa

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The guy is mean't to call first, but in some case i my self will expect the girl to call first.

and if she does'nt i will.

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The guy should call first.

After all isn't he the on who approached the lady?

He has to show some form of seriousness so the lady would know how committed he is towards that relationship.

Maybe after some weeks if things go on fine, then the lady can start calling so it won't look as if she isn't interested in the poor guy.

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its the guy ofcourse.

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i want you to understand something here,MEN has a giving nature while women a receiving nature but things has changed which is not suppose to be so.the guy is to make the first move if not,she looks like a LovePeddler calling you first.

i believe you should start it and she continue from there.we are not in america where things are done that way or where ladies make the first move,our culture dnt tolerate it here.

so if you need her pls go for her and always treat WOMEN WITH RESPECT COS WE ARE THE SALT OF THE EARTH.

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no no no

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