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I am 28yrs working in a blue chip company. Have a son outside wedlock from a girl I’ve dated for over [b]8[/b]yrs (both of them not in 9ja now). Now I am in sure love with a colleague ([b]23[/b]yrs old) that we can’t do without seeing each other a day and she is engaged to a [b]MAN (not in 9ja too). I know she loves me. Both partners would be in town soon. Please render some advice for I am so confused.[/b]

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lol . . .You are one very greedy dawg dude

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Go ahead, propose to both of them. If they agree marry both of them, otherwise marry the one that agrees.

You obviously don't love either of them.

Shikena!

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common guy reason well u cant be confused like u claim,believe me u two are not in love but in lust.

My advise is dont just break someones heart here o! do u want to snacth this girl that is engaged to be married and still leave her later wen u see someone perharps beta.

my 2cents.

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http://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-196475.0.html

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there is a saying "out of sight out of mind" if you are in love with someone else dont you think this would be the right time to come clean before everyone comes over? As for the engaged girl she is probably using you for her last hurra before she gets married (guys do it too) so either break up with your lady and have her break up with her man or quit your job and never see that girl again(at least thats one thing you can do)

you have set your self up for a lot of trouble down the line

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Dont kid yourself, you know this is a purely fabricated piece of nonsense!

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Your problem is long throat, because if it is not long throat, what happens if you see another lady better than the office colleague? You leave her and come here again to ask us for advice? What if you are already married? Will you still keep your wife and then have eyes on other women? Common - stick to your lady, be focused with her and have a blissful married life with her.

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Why an engaged sisi nawn?

where is the mother of your son? why are you trying to extend your frustration to another fellow? please get back to the mother of your kid and leave the poor girl alone b/4 you complicate her life.

Learn to respect another person's relationship for yours to be respected in future.

Am pretty sure that this is the same way you fell in love with the mother of your kid.

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@poster please be clear, I do not understand

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you are not ok with the thread

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guy do whats right for u. wait for the mother of ur child, if at sight u still love her then marry her.

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