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Who Do You Women Prefer? The Hard Guy Or the "Nice Guy"?

Which one do girls or women prefer, THE SO CALLED "NICE GUY" OR THE HARD GUY?

There are a lot of misconceptions and erroneous or ambiguous connotations on what makes a nice guy or a hard guy.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Nice_guy

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What of the hard woman in contrast to the nice woman?

Do men prefer hard women or nice women?

Personally, I do not think there is really a NICE GUY OR NICE WOMAN, there is only THE GOOD MAN OR THE GOOD WOMAN.

What most people call "Bobo Nice" in Nigeria does not exist again,

She's always right- This is what those nice guys think about the women they're with. No female prefers a "Yes man". They all prefer guys who have strong beliefs and opinions and who know how to stand up tall and rise to the occasion.

~ http://ezinearticles.com/?Are-You-A-Nice-Guy?---Learn-Why-Women-Dislike-Nice-Guys&id=665670

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In between. A abalancy in life is always very important

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I prefer a guy who is hard when his dealing with everyone else but when it comes to me he has to be nice, am the whole person who should be seeing his soft spot

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A stable man is more on my prefer list.

Hard, Nice, w/e, as long as he's mature and knows what responsibility is and how to carry it out.

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i like nice men who know their worth

who are self assured and confident

who know who they are and what they want

who understand that being nice and well mannered doesnt mean they are weak

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Personally,

I like assertive men, men who think by being a 'yes man' is going to get them in the ladies books are in for a surprise. I like men who steer their own lives, who are willing to defend what they believe in. It's the 'perfect' combination that most women are after, the nice guy, who can stand up for her in a fight or even against her in an argument. They want to feel as if their man is 'raw', not some diluted version. Also, I like charm, a guy who is daring scores points too, daring to say something unexpected or cheeky, not the predictable type. Generally, I would like some excitement in my life, that would be the only explanation for why I would choose a 'bad guy' over the 'nice guy', especially if the nice guy is very safe. Whilst the 'bad guy' swoops in with all his energy and takes me away, the nice guy is more likely to be quiet about it, whilst if it was the other way around, a 'bad guy' would go to extents to prove his 'love' for you.

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the answer to this is simple, -DIEFFERENT STROKES FOR DIFFERENT FOLKS!!!. kapish

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Blah Blah Blah

Keep on spreading your propaganda of "The Formula of Women"

This is just another thread that generalizes women

Why not start seeing women as individual

Tufiakwa.

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I think I'll like a Hard guy with a nice guy alter-ego.

Hard on the outside, nice with me on the inside. Treating me with all the care, respect and love that can possibly be found within any man.

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