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Who Is The Player, I Or You?

k, so am in my late 20s, well an average job in a company that has more name than salary paid to workers, have my own apartment ,drive a german machine.

get the picture(note i dont necesarrily have money in my account o)

and am certainly not the finest guy on the block, but now am suddenly marriage material and the chicks that wont even bother to say hi , say 5 years ago suddenly just

ring to say hi, am like hi, i dint know you had my number , they like of course i do, just have being busy thats all(for 4 freaking years . ya right!)

am sure some of you brothers are going through this too, suddenly you are being considered, a tad responsible or managable , you are now a very close friend, what you would do to gross her out before doesnt , faze her anymore

we are slowly yet steadily being wormed in like a a spider would lure its prey, pray tell me who exactly is the player now!

men for wanting to score more skirts than the number of fingers we have on our hands ,whilst in school

or the women , as they approach mid/late 20swho set their sights on you and sink their claws into you till you have not even enough room to squirm?

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@ topup

i guess you are one of those few rare good ladies out there.

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Aaaah that is not true!!!

I myself would love to start from scratch with someone I love and then build up, I know we can both do it, I don't wish to leach off anyone's hard work! I really dislike golddiggas and I am not one! Infact I try to be as independent as possible and unless you're my father and I'm asking for tuition fees, I don't ask men for money. Full stop. And money doesn't bribe me, cos I can't live with a rich guy I don't love. I just can't.

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@ poster

its not surprising.

thats how most women are.when u r struggling they will all disappear.but when the soup don ready.they will be resurfacing from all sides.

some women are soo funny.they dont want to suffer with you when you are struggling,but they want enjoy with you when you strike gold.

some ladies will even tell you stories about how their foremothers suffered with their forefathers,and the man married another wife,so they cant suffer with a man bla bla bla.

this is partly what makes them shun hardworking struggling young men in favour of rich yahoo boys (who will dump them untimately).then they will start shouting that nigerian men are all bad.

at the end of the day,its the man that laughs last.

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i just cant imagine myself throwning myself at a guy just cause he has a nice ride or cos he works in a good company.

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grandma , what can i say

and i would like to believe i am not searching oo

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rofl, goodluck granson

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i have a friend who's going through this. and i can tell you she's extremely desperate. she wants to get married but still wants to nak around, me i just nak my own, after the naking she asked me if i could get married now. i guess it's normal when they get to a certain age.

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