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Who Makes The Bigger Ho: Nigerian Gals Or African American Gals?

I already know the answer to this but I'll give everyone a chance to state their own views. As much as I like Nigerian gals I find that they are a bunch of golddigging pretenders! I don't understand why they lie so much! Then you hear them sayn latinas and AAs r hos, when infact they are the bigger hos! They pretend by not giving it up on the first nite, thinkn that'll make them look good, when they give it up ure swimming in the atlantic ocean, she's laying there like a corpse (cus her se.x game is wack) and u'll later find out she done slept with 3 of your manz! And what is it with them always begging for money? The AAs and latinas don't put us thru this and yet yall claim a moral superiority over them?!? True you guys are usually more educated, but your pretentious attitude stinks. I know I'll be labelled all sorts for this, but let someone tell me I'm lying. Nigerian gals, step your gaMe up and don't beg so Much!!!

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The white chicks make OPTIMAL wives huh? You don't like Nigerian chicks and you don't like Akata chicks. So what left? White chicks? They don't want you, really.

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D poster might be right in one way or the other, AA are good for gf but they aint good for housewife cos i also dislike having a pretender as a gf. . . . . . Everyone has their own prons and cons, mane.

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Women, you do not need these men for poo. Everything you need is in YOU.

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^^^^hahahahha, my baby is bizaaaccckkkk^^^^lol. i thot u had gone the way of ur president!!! ok, silly, are u blind? didnt u see where i said i go to the clubs to pick up the hos then i go on dates with the nigerian gals? damn, babes, dont tell me u that silly!!! lol. happy new year tho. ho

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hypocrite.

if you're putting yourself out there tryna get a girl, what do you expect? do you really expect to find any sensible girls in the areas you go looking for your one night stands? keep showing your bling and what other stuff you have, and expect to attract the wrong girls, simple. i don't see how that translates to all nigerian girls forming and blah blah blah.

to even say that, you're such a ho yourself!! going to the club looking for the cheapest girls to go home to sleep with and the next day wanna run your mouth. no wonder your a baby's daddy, couldn't keep your shizz in your pants.

and the title is just plain stoopid. does that even make any sense?

all of this is just getting really old, sigh. . . so redundant.

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Abekeade, thats not my pic. Thats my em, um , um. Anyways, most Nigerian chics I find here in NY are kinda skanky, and always on some hoish Ish, always begging, begging, begging, then sleeping with multiple dudes!!! Hey, I'm feeling your body. What part of NY u in? If u aint a begging golddigger as u claim, hit me up!!  

 

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Thanks for the offer, but i didn't come to NL to meet men.

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No offence intended, I just don't get it.

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I already know the answer to this but I'll give everyone a chance to state their own views. As much as I like Nigerian gals I find that they are a bunch of golddigging pretenders! I don't understand why they lie so much! Then you hear them sayn latinas and AAs r hos, when infact they are the bigger hos! They pretend by not giving it up on the first nite, thinkn that'll make them look good, when they give it up ure swimming in the atlantic ocean, she's laying there like a corpse (cus her se.x game is wack) and u'll later find out she done slept with 3 of your manz! And what is it with them always begging for money? The AAs and latinas don't put us thru this and yet yall claim a moral superiority over them?!? True you guys are usually more educated, but your pretentious attitude stinks. I know I'll be labelled all sorts for this, but let someone tell me I'm lying. Nigerian gals, step your gaMe up and don't beg so Much!!!

@bk bayee

Ah Bk you don dissapoint me sha. Being that I have not been on NL long, I thought you were a girl cos of the picture on your profile.

Anyway back to topic. Because of our culture where our men are supposed to take care of us, a lot of girls leave Naija with that sense of entitlement. I myself, I am an independent woman, I pay my bills and care for myself. I don't ask men for nada.

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@Topic: Naija men ofcourse!

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sefago can you comment on this plz:

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i think african american girls are bigger ho's all my friends slept with more than 50 guys and i'm still a virgin

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U showed us only a small part of ur face- why now? I know if you show us the rest we will vomit, but abeg, at least we will vomit in our houses- show us everything.

Fugly, wowor girl feeling sexy.

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i'm afraid they said we only have a few.

mitchel prove them wrong. throw on a bikini and slap it on your profile.

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generalization upon generalization

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LOL Seriously slap yourself! Does this response make any sense to you? It isn't by force to contribute

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9ja gurls make me laugh lol

newayz il rather marry a pig than marry a 9ja gurls with all their make-ups. they look innocent and tell all sort of lies to make them look good. NO doubt they are very educated, good mothers and good cooks but ugly, syck in bed, lie too much about their past, always nagging and all about money. Imagine the first 9ja gurl that forced herself on me slept with 3 of my friends and always asking for money.

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I have not seen nigerian girls like the ones you mentioned, but then the ones I have seen can help me postulate that more likely, than not, you are correct. They are the ugliest leeches ever to pass this earth.

And folks like stillwater and michelin89 will always defend the indefensible because they may just be that themselves.

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You sir, are an oasis in this intellectual desert called nairaland. I appreciate the thoughtfulness and reasoning behind your replies. I only hope dimwits like stillwater and michelin89 can learn from you.

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naija babes. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Fine (Running as fast as it can)

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generalization upon generalization

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This thread is about condemning a particular behavior. Regarding the worwor thread, as a matter of opinion, I did say a lot of Naija girls are worwor, and that by no means I am passing blame on Naija women for being ugly. I did also say that Ibo girls are generally fine, so how does that mean that I condemned every Naija girl. Get a life! You probably fall in category of worwor chicks, since those are the ones who usually get defensive and are ready to throw a tantrum at the slightest mention of worwor. The real, fine-Bottom, Naija chicks who read will relate and know what I'm saying, while the worwor, flat-Bottom ones like you will get defensive and attack every guy who opines about worwor, ugly and local Naija chicks on this thread. No wonder you will never, ever show your picture.[quote][/quote]

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Everyday we have new bashing threads all over. Don't you lot ever get tired of being redundant?

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Five years in a new culture would not even address over twenty years or so of money worship, lol

There are people who have lived outside Nigeria for years and will still evaluate someone by how much they earn. thats both yound and old.

I would not say people in the west de-emphasize money per se, but the route to money is different, not through someone else's pocket. Unless you are talking about the western girls who deliberately go around entertainers/sportsmen etc for their money and they do also exist.

I dont necessarily think anything is wrong in a relationship so long as those involved are happy with it, and its legal, lol

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@ still water, Im tryn to get where the tantrum is coming from, aint nobody called YOU a ho!!!

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You are right there,but those Nigerians who live beyond borders should emulate how others de-emphasize money.

To see a girl who has spent 5years in the US or UK,still think all a man is worth is the amount he is willing to spend on her,is condemnable.Dont U agree?

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FYI, if I were a Naija ho, I would bluntly tell it to your face!!! I do not fear anybody neither do I need your approval.

Is this really about condemning a particular behaviour but rather blacklisting Nigerian girls in comparison to others? Were you condemning a behaviour when you categorically called us the least easy on the eye species of females on that Nigerian girls are wowor thread? Ohhh, we also get blamed for being 'ugly', something we have no control over? Can you boast of ever saying anything positive where Nigerian women are concerned since your stay on NL? I hope you can take this as a joke and not take this personal , since having a different opinion of things means you are what the topic of discussion is. Please let us stop the deceit. From past threads and this latest one, let me help you say it loud and clear with no iota of pretence, Nigerian girls suck!!! Q.E.D!!!

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To be perfectly honest, I find Nigerian culture generally puts too much enthasis on money. Some women act is if thats all they want, and some men act as if thats all they can offer. its not uncommon for Nigerian men to say "Let me take care of you" as part of their chat up line. Its a cultural "understanding" so to speak.

Usually, if a woman has her expenses covered, money will not entice her, except for the knowledge that you can take care of yourself and therefore will not burden her.

I personally find flashy men a turn off.

If a Naija girl is easy, she may not be comfortable in that role enough to let it show from the beginning, so they hide it. AA girls come from a culture where a woman can have sex just because she wants it and it means she is mature and knows what she wants. Nigerian culture still doesn't accept that for Nigerian women. AA girls have had a head start in their society in terms of womens rights. Nigerian culture often puts a tremendous pressure on women to be all things at once. A Nigerian girl who is known to be easy can lose friends and be avoided by those in her community. There also is alot of secrecy and surface performance from both men and women.

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Stillwater, I now believe you have problems. It is usually women who fall into the category described by the thread who get overly defensive.  What's up with the warfare and personal attacks? I never said all Nigerian women are materialistic hoes; The poster has every right to direct his thread at the specific group of Nigerian women. For all you women talking about if these dudes don't have sisters at home--if my sister were a materialistic hoe, I would call her out.

These bitter feminists just get mad when men condemn a particular behavior that which they dislike. No one is here condemning all Nigerian women, but the point is that it is the duty of everyone to clean up a community; that is, everyone should join hands  to condemn an immoral behavior. If there exists a thread that condemned men who were irresponsible, that is men who don't take care of their family, I would join hands and condemn such men, even if my own  father was among those men. I am a realist, and good is good, while bad is bad. Y'all women can support these materialistic, hoish behavior, but I hope you will speak against it God forbid your daughters wanted to go in that path. I know I would.

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Yes that is why I decided to study feminism and women studies intensively. Not just because of the ridiculously hot and brainless girls who take these classes.

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yes like new ones come anytime- anywas I am temporary, I would stop tomorrow and give back the baton to H2O2, I heard he was the commander in chief b4 I came. I am the one day interim, my tenure will end tomorro

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@op this basically the problem with men mostly in general.

You tend to pretend and when the girl catches u up or act faster then the slanging match,ranting and name calling and abuses begin.

You have to be honest with people and take ur time to know people,the girls that u dress differently in clubs for might even be better than those u dress moderately to meet which means you can meet ur wife anywhere,there isn't any need to judge people on where u meet them or if you sleep with them on the first night or not.

The reason why naija girls tend to keep a guy waiting for sex is not becos they haven't had sex before it becos when they've had sex with guys,the guys tend to leave them to get married to someone  else.Ofcourse as humans you would be very hurt and used and can't imagine been able to trust,love openly n honestly and the i don't care attitude comes into play which is probably the character of the girls u've been meeting and they feel that even if you leave them for someone else they would think back and feel dat at least they didn't lose total and u wasted has much time and money on them.

Basically,if u don't label a woman and u're really open towards people regardless of what their past is and u're willing to take ur time with any girl regardless of what she ask or not.Every girl just want security and to feel love and protected by their man not used.

If a girl ask you for money you can politely decline and give her whenever you feel like it,nobody is holding a gun to your head and with time u would get to know the person.

Am sure you would have a great personality as everybody has got great character about them but at the same time a girl would probably curse u about what u've done and some might probably want to die before they would date you again.

I think i write from experience as you meet a lot of lying men and if u chase a girl without sex for like 6 month,if u're not really interested am sure u will feel it's a waste of time on her and leave her alone or if you spending on her and you know is basically so u can sleep wih her with no commitment,no guy wants to spend of a girl dat they don't want to marry.

You're expecting 2 much 2 sonn from people that have been hurt and trampled upon by ur species(men).

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Another olodo, you guys are like mosquitoes in a swamp- everywhere

Where did I say that? It never occurred to you that it could simply be observation or discussions with my male friends? Olodo 1-kobo

Abeg if you want to make dumb jokes do so with people of your intellect

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he said the naija girls also dont give it up on the first date. They do so later but then they're either too active or not active enough, according to him.

He didnt only mention the money issue, which in any case is a cultural thing.

many Nigerian girls with good jobs dont even do that btw.

So it really does depend on the kind of people you meet.

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not that people dont see your point but Nigerian women have done enough sufferhead abeg.

Most of the men who spend their days sampling all over town, tend to want to end up with spotless, perfect Venuses who match their every ideal.

many women do end up dating and marrying secret Don Juans, but it costs them dearly.

personally, I think, money matters aside, you( OP) wouldnt like a woman who wasnt "street savvy" and versed in the ways of the world.

why do you think AA males and African women intermarry at lower rates than they do with other races and countries.

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Uhmmm i have a question ooo.

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@still water

coherent?!?!?? I dont get why u used the word, but, it seems to me ur just fiending for a fight, one which Im not ready to give to u!!! u know what u sound like? A BIG HYPOCRITE!!! Foaming in the mouth cus I asked people to compare and contrast, made my own case, and kept it moving. For Christ's sakes tell me why u think yall aint worse than AA's in the ho department and then u'll have my attention, but until then be like a spalding ball and just bounce. If I had claimed Nigerian gals were angels u wouldnt be taking time to attack like a Nazi german shepherd , but now I stated the obvious ure venomous, I seriously guess why!

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Who cares.

AFrican Americans got bigger D!cks, which is why we have so many SPRUNG hoes across the globe.

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once again u dont make any sense. u've been rap.ed in the past? how the hell is that my problemo? go fight the Molester then. I shouldnt categorize u guys cus yall culture different? so whats your culture? to lie? deceive? golddig? pretend to be holier than thou? beg for money constantly? sleep with friends while pretending to be nuns? tell me!!!

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^^^ Thanx alot Attorney Bromstein for proving your point and trying to turn this into warfare. But, guess what, I'm not gonna get into a game of verbal gymnastics with you. Its either u respond, like others are doing, and tell me why I'm wrong/right or keep your piece. I've made my point, I've spoken my piece you can either take it or jump off a cliff! My opinion, most Nigerian Gals here in NY are hypocrites, liars, Pretenders, gold diggers, cheaters and so forth. Prove me wrong. Read what I wrote; if I want a ho I go for a ho, if I want a good gal I for a good gal!!!! I dont want a ho masquerading as a good gal, get it?

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So if I show some emotion for a girl who got r.a.ped, that means I got r.aped? How does that sound in your ears?

My point all along has been . . . you should not put us in a stereotypical box or compare us with people whose culture is way different from ours.

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Yeah right, is this not what you said?

So how does that exclude the so called good girls?

Tell your LovePeddler friends you attract to their faces what you think of them.  Why should you involve other Nigerian girls in your nightmares?

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@poster

By your thread topic you clearly have no respect for women. Even though you try to uplift the AAs and downplay Nigerian girls you have categorically made efforts in describing  all these women as love-peddlers. By bigger ho, you leave room for also calling AAs whores. Because women sleep with you, they automatically become whores?

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Exactly, so instead of having bees swarming in your panties read what I said/asked.  I got no respect for women? Are u for real? Obviously, I'm not sayin all Nigerian/American gals are sluts all I'm sayin is among the 'bad' ones which ones are worse. Youre taking this kinda personal, and not to be rude, your replies are synonymous with those of the Nigerian gals that reply in real life discussions when we have topics like this going (you know, the ones that know that we're actually talking about them)

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I hear you, and its clear you hear me too, and I appreciate that. I never said ALL Nigerian gals r hos, just like I didnt say all American gals are hos. I just asked who is worse, I made my choice, and the rest is open for discussion!!! Yes, I do keep up different personalities based on who I'm tryn to attract, who doesnt?!!? But when your 'nice side' thats supposed to attract the good 'african gals', actually makes them see u as soft and a pocket of endless revenue to be milked, how do u then expect me to view them?!? My point is at least with the AAs we know the freaks and we know the good gals, with the Nigerian chics here in NY and the other major cities, they are hard to differentiate.

I do not know of others, but me, if I like a gal, regardless if we had se.x on the same day I'll still try to get with her. Matter fact, my gal now, we had sex on the first date (second time we met) and we're still going strong! It just about how u feel about the person I guess

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I've come across your comments where Nigerian women are concerned and all of them veer on the negative. There has never been a time a positive remark ever ensued from you. It says a lot about the women who surround you and who you downrightly attract. I know you are trying very hard not come across as biased but past threads have revealed the pretence you so try to hide. Can you do me a favor and add your own female family members to that list of potential materialistic whores? The sooner we join hands together to spread the word, there would be no need for these kind of threads.

By your thread topic you clearly have no respect for women. Even though you try to uplift the AAs and downplay Nigerian girls you have categorically made efforts in describing  all these women as love-peddlers. By bigger ho, you leave room for also calling AAs whores. Because women sleep with you, they automatically become whores?

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^^^^tribalism?!?! Granted the Nigerian gals could be assigned a tribe, but what about the African-American chics, what tribe are we gonna stick them? Downsouth tribe? midwest tribe? upnorth tribe ? westcoast tribe ? help me out here smart azz!!!!

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shouldnt this be in tribalism section?

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