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Who should be the provider in a relationship?

Who should be the giver in a relationship?

What I mean is this: in relationship, [I]who should provide for who[/I]?  The girl or the boy?

Please reply, I really want to know.

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Look who the cat dragged in.

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No one if unmarried

Both if married

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Koolchico,

Did you washed my undies?

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Whoever's got the means. Personally, I like making my own money and being a real full on

partner in a relationship.

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Everything is paid for now have my STEAK COOKED before I molest you!

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The stronger woman should be the provider and the man should stay home.

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A man has to be provider because most cases if a woman look after a man she end up not respecting him

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Both should take that as a responsibility, but nowadays most ladies have taken it to the extent that it is the male alone that should take the responsibility, toooooooooo bad!!!!!!! please you ladies try and something about it. ok

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Am yet to meet a woman spend for a man particularly nig women. Evn phone call sef, if u r lucky to get a beep then, lucky u! Maybe its because men do the approach "toasting" tryin to acquire smtn(a woman) n tryin to keep it by aceptn d responsility of takin care of it. Men r made stronger so men go search 4food. But Women have taken advantage of that, using it as a criteria to measure up a man. For me, for a rltnship da has a future evrytn has to be, giv n take, str8 frm da heart. Ladies! show some lov!

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both the guy and the lady shld provide in the relationship though it depends on who has more money but both shld help each other out.

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well i am also saying that it is the one that have the money.

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@ Mali, I'm not disputing that at all. Assisting him when he is down is not the same as outrightly taking his place by being the ultimate provider.

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But u have to help him out when he is down.atleast for him to know that u care, that u realy love him

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True say! A man wants to be the head in all respect. A woman does not actually assist a man by taking his place.

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when u show a guy u can actually take care of him,he starts looking somewhere else every guy wants to be able to take care of his girl, its thier responsibility

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I pray with you brother!

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i think the guy should provide,but in a situation where the guy hasn`t then the girl can help out

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wesley, you've just said exactly what i have in mind

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whoever has more should provide more.

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haba, hot-angel why did u agree with him.did you really bellieve dat my liver failed me, come on girl give me some credit

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De- king u think so.well you are wrong.

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ha..i doubt if she will.

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haha...gina come and proove that ur liver didn't fail you ooo.

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exactly. I am suppose to be in bed. off i go.

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o wel..tanxz gina.

wassup wit u guyz now

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Yeap, I just did that this morning, so I've stopped it.

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Eehe so are you suggesting that we stop bcoz of her?

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she says we gatta stop it..means its disturbing her...

mo ti ni ko ma binu

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o.k o mo ti gbo.

nike4luv why are you sorrrying?

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oh..ok

sorry

oba se o ti gbo?

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nike4luv u and De-king should stop dat yoruba stuff.

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yeah took me 20 mins to figure that out.

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DE-kin....... so funny. u might be scared u knows.

to the rest of ya pls write in english its not easy to read what u've written in yoruba

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oluwiz.......... pls nxt time write some of ur sentences in english.it is not easy to quickly read through ur comment.which means i have to come back and read it again

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lol God did not create man to bear d cross alone so we much share it equel both---------------

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gina pls come back. it's no more yoruba forum. se oti gbo?

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eh..ama dure de gina?

gina omo pele o..where you @?

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i mean thanks

ese o

mabinu

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"I'll support the latter. Infact, my girl must do the latter. "

wots latter lol

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Good but I hope you understood my earlier post? If yes let me be sure. o.k?

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eeerrr something like that but what do you say about guys providing?

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gina girl, kosi. it's just that these dudetts believe guys should do the providing but also claim that what a man can do, a woman can do better.

Two parallel lines. Abi be ko?

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na wa for una, kilode

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