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Who Should Pay For Dinner Dates?

women hv always been dependent.now dt they want 2 do all wht men do,why don't they also foot d bills when they go out?after all they r working and some even earn more than their men.for once let them prove ds saying:wht men can do,

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an ex junior sister (19yrs old) offered to pay for our breakfast. we were 4 @ £30 each. you wont believe the curses she rained on the hotel staff for charging that much for breakfast.

this was 9yrs ago plus she just came from nigeria on holiday changing money at black market. knowing she may never pay for any guys meal in her life i gave her the money 2 days later you need to see the relief on her face.

i taught her to always choose where to go if she was paying. if i knew she was going to offer to pay i would have allowed her to take us to a place she could afford.

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With my girlfriend - I always pay unless she tells me beforehand that it is on her. Another reason why I like her - she actually does pay for them!!

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nothing wrong if a girl pays but guys shd not think they r double-headed.

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This one na quetsion? Come Port Harcourt see how we dey chop money. It sends wrong signal here when you let ya gal foot a bill but some times it may be alright. But here we are not stingy and will not disappoint our selfs even when the girls wants to pay you must always make a move. Nna except you no wan connection o.

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well my own opinion is men should always offer to pay but somtimes women should try to pay to men should always offer anywayz

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me think understandg is wht matters in whtever men and women do tog.whoever pays has nothg 2 do wt age,relationship or friendship.but some guys think they r wise;like wht happened 2 me a month ago,a guy came 2 see my cousin and he showd interest in me but as we were talkg he just said,nifemi, can u take me out 4 lunch?i quickly said no.i thot he was just being friendly until d next day when he calld 2 ask me if i could buy him 2 bottles of beer!i then wondered wht ds life is turng in to;i mean how could a guy stylishly demand from a girl u r abt toasting?GUYZ!!

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let me start will telling u that my age has nothing to do with topic. What I'm saying is IF I SAY TO MY MAN WE SHOULD GO OUT TO EAT. THEN I WILL PAY. IF HE SAYS WE SHOULD GO OUT TO EAT THEN HE SHOULD PAY. showing that i'm paying or not has nothing to do with it. also him having money or not has nothing to do with it. In the case that some people see me paying the bill it doesnt matter. Just like if they see him paying it doesnt matter.

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ok so tell me what would u do when u feel like going to dinner and your man not having money at that time.u will take him and do the paying right infront of everybody,is it to show u are the one paying.??

how old are u??

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To me, a guy should pay for the first date regardless who asked who out. During

the course of dating, a lady can help pick up the tab every once in a while - or atleast

help with the tip.

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loftylegz

i dont agree with that

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i think the men should pay but not always

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if i suggest we go on a date then i will pay

if he suggest we go on a date than he will pay

simple !!!!!!!

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Anyone can pay, but most times its the guy. it just comes naturally in this part of the world.

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but wht's wrong in women picking up bills?

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Well denny you have a point but i don't think the man will have to kill himself because he wants the woman to feel secured, he's not a security guard.

sometimes the women have to feel the weight of settling the bills.

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No ORACLE,you are getting it all wrong,see, as a guy one of the things your lady RESPECTS YOU FOR,is been a DUTIFUL guy or husband.it make her feel submissive to you,it make her LOVE YOU the more, it make her feel SECURED in your hand. knowing fully that no matter what happens, YOU ARE MAN ENOUGH,

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some chicks are out 2 put holes in guys pocket, if she cares she will pick d bills

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Well whoeva wants to pick it

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dont care, i'll get the bill if i want to, plus, it should be a give and take relationship

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Where I am they both pick up the bills (serious or no serious relationship) except one party decides to do something extraordinary.

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who ever asked who out on the dinner date should pick up the bill

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