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Who Should Pay On A Date?

Nairalnad Peeps who do You think Should Pay on a date?

The man or The Girl.

I make My Man pay when we eat go on a date. I usually Just leave the TIP.

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the person that threw out the invitation should pay

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Hanging out with a sinner??

Make a decision . . . . .Is he a Pope or a sinner??

Thanx for admitting ya pinkeye.

All u can see is a mirage.

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Jackal . . . .

I don''t know what kinda babes you take on dates.

The ones I chaperone often want to prove they don't eat much and care about their

figure. . . .

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I thought we had settled this? Ladies, please take money with you especially if it is your first date because you'll be required to pay for the meal also.

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nope dat is so not da reason. they have da mentality dat girls in nigeria are more well behaved n all dat crap n dat is so not da case. they prefer goin 2 pik a girl dat will start worshipin dem cah they live abroad

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Could be same reasons why most Naija guys dont usually like dating most naija chicks in UK.

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Chibaby,

Guys are not meant to pay, like its cut out for them. A lady should offer to pay aswell. But then, i can understand your circumstances.

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@ chibaby,

Na chicks like you i dey avoid for UK.

Aba! So you no dey see as all those oyinbo girls no dey gree make guy pay for them when they out on adate. U still carry Nija style dey waka follow body.

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whoever has money or credit cards in the wallet!

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@ chi baby,

your mouth like the guy of course!!!

A lady should still offer to pay rather than expect the guy to pay. And if the guy insists, only then should it be the guy.

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I can see i have missed a lot.

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@ruby, vex money: money held incase of emergencies, so yo dont do the dishes

bail: if the guy decides to fa, run, sare

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Your reply is like 2 hrs late.

Dial up, I see!

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That a guy should always pay at the first date because that is how you were brought up but if you initiated the date, you would rather invite him to your house and cook for him. Why would you  invite a guy you are just getting to know to your house on a first date?? because i was not brought up like that but if you think its  the best way for you then gudluck with that.

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I believe they DO follow the traditional roles of a wife, they just DONT like the WORD "submit", that's really all it is. "Submit" has a lot of negativity attached to it. Slaves are USUALLY the ones known for "submitting" hence the problem. We just dont like the word jo.

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A whole lot, you can learn 1000 more just by paying attention to tiny details such as whether she volunteers to pay on any dates. Any guy who overlooks that shld be ready for surprises in his marriage.

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When I typed even if it's a first date meant even if she initiated the date.

My bad for not being clear enough

Change it!

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i didn't mean to be harsh. accept my apologies

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onyinye, im surprised. i didnt know that u could speak Igbo. i hope u dont have an accent cos if u do, ur market value don come down be dat.

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Do you remember what you type sometimes, alagolo?

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But if the guy asked ON THE FIRST DATE, then he should be ready to pay.

But if they constantly go out as bf/gf, then both of them should atleast try to pay the bills once in a while.

Because if the guy does not ask the girl out, she'll be wondering what is wrong with the r/ship

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Didnt you say whoever initates the dfirst date pays?

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Ok, lemme ask you one question, why do you think a guy should always pay? even if it's a first date?

Do you not have money to spare?

You're right if he asked you out, then he better be ready to pay.

But if you guys already got to the point of going out every friday or once in a while, I think both of you should start paying the bills.

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@ tope2000

y dyu have my picture on your profile??

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cuz i would have expected you to at least attempt the to pay until the guy says he will.

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onyinye, na dis kind talk u like

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bail?

Vex money? I don't get you o

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what your talkin about is what i call vex money, its a kind of back up just in any case the guyy should bail.

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this is why it is always going to be a man's world.

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seriously, would u guys accept that the woman pays for the first date??

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While I agree with your stance in regards to THAT situation, how OFTEN does that even happen?

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IBK, to be honest, On the first date even if the girl suggest paying and the dude accepts. He's shameless.

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you missed the question. he asked why you're hell bent on having the man pay on the first date.

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Does it matter who pays the bill on a date?? I think whoever has got the money should pay for it

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And you won't call him cheap?

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So you'll be satisfied if he was one who was trying to get at you and on your first date, he invites you to his house.

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Ibkaye, I'm really impressed by your posts today. I see ya.

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No be only stubborn, na spoilt.  If you get involved with a babe that wants her way in everything, you're in for a treacherous family life.

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Na Guyz go pay becos IF the

Girl wey never chop no fit pay

Girl wey don chop but never beleful no fit pay too

so the Guy don Larimo Big Time on this,

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u must be one very stuborn babe, kai.

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Lol, omo, you for become lawyer sha.

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first date shld be 50:50 . . . since both of you are still not sure if you want to be together for the long term.

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Pheww, am using my phone so its kinda stressful quoting people.

@ibk, yes, girl, same here. Can't ask a dude out either, hahaha.

@HCH3COO, thank goodness! U agree!

@Onyinye, u are too funny! So, if u chase a guy and ask him out, u then expect him to pay. Sorry, my dear, that's y u shoulda let him do the chasing. Initiating the first date shows that you're more interested in d date than d other person is. Solution - let d guy ask u out and don't be d one to do it.

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@ Topic,

Why should a guy pay on his 1st date??

Whatever happened to the so called sex equality. . . . .afterall, women now earn as much as men(no thanx to em evil feminists).

Tell me. . . . .why can't both parties go DUTCH??

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Im just saying that on the first date, the man should pay. But if i was the one who did the "toasting" then i would probably invite you over and cook you dinner then take you out.

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