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Who Suld I Go For? My First Or My Second Girl

i met this girl and i fell in love with her, after 1year of good and sound relationship, she starts to misbehave and left because she was not caring,

after a month i met another girl who loves and cares for me and i promise her never to leave her,

Now the first girl is back begging to come back,

the problem now is , i really love the first one despite all she has done but i don't wana hurt the second because she has done nothing bad to me, she came and made me happy.

plz help

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i really appreciate u guys efforts, and i pray that God will continue to increase ur mental streanght,

now i can see the second is the best 4 me

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well, there must be a reason why you are contemplating on going back to the first girl, or you are just considering it cos she is begging you back?

if she dumps you the first time, how can you tell she wont dump you another time? since she knows if she comes begging, you'd surely accept her back,

more reason for her to cheat on you, she will generally exploit that weakness

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well, it depends what your first girl did in the first instance, did she cheat on you or something similar, or she wasnt just caring?

do you love the second girl? as you just mentioned that she is the one in love with you ,

let me know, then we can go from there

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does that mean i suld go 4 the second, ?

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depends, you probably wanna hang out with your first maybe cos you have been so used to her and you indeed truly love her,

and you still wanna hold on to your second probably because you feel your first might still dump you again,

so when it happens, you have your second to fall back on,

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you want to eat your cake and still have it abi ?

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am in love with 2different people 4 two different reasons

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thats the problem i cant double date, and beleive me the second will never do any thing bad unless its a sin to call every minute, then i can blame her for calling,

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even though she knew i was a muslim

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the first girl even told me that its very hard to marry me cos am not a jehovah witness,

but the second accept me even though she knew i was a muslim

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how if i may ask, the 2nd girl has not absolutly nothing bad, she calls me evry day , unlike the 1st one,

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follow ur heart bt bcareful nt to break d heart of the second girl even if u ve to leave her,do it carefully nd wisely

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