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Who Taught You How To Make Love?

Atimes i just look at some things that we do and wonder who taught us how to do them or did we just arrive at them by instinct. For instance who taught us that we can boil or fry plantain to eat but we cat do that to banana to eat it, many issues like that.

But what interests me at this time is who taught you how to kiss and how to have sex. I remember my very first time to do it and how difficult it was getting to know the actual place and how we had to postpone it to another time, etc. Parents dont teach that even in sex education but somehow we get to know them. Who taught you?

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i watched my frnd sit on biro aand shout yehhh !!!, she told me na so d pain of koboko dey feel

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^ I mentioned your name in regards to the topic

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I've never had sex though I have had some *eehm !!!* close shaves. I think making love is more than having sex. I hate it when we stereotype the word making love to just sex. It's more than that . . . really, it is

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emi ekun, nobody taught me, emi okunrin meta

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Correct, i get job 4 u in my restaurant. Bt no b bread wey dey ask u o, na how 2 mak luv.

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Correct, i get job 4 u in my restaurant. Bt no b bread wey dey ask u o, na how 2 mak luv.

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Recipe for makin love:

1. flour

2. butter

3. Egg

4. Sugar.

Method:

Seive d flour & add butter. Add lil water & continue mixing. Beat d egg properly and add to d mixture of flour, butter and water then continue mixing. Add sugar & mix for more 15 mins. Fry for 20 mins & u've made love!

Now i've taught u how to make love. Dont tell me u didnt learn.

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Buster

In my opinion, nobody needs to teach anyone such things……God created us with all that and the rest is just applying your common sense.

I agree with u.

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u know who taught me how to make sex? My first partner. I believe she was taught by some1 more experience than she was. Some 1 more experienced must af taught that guy too. And it went like that before the lady now taught me. On my first, i actually went a wrong way.

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I dont thnk u can b taught.when i make love it comes as a natural response to my lover.the way he touches,whre he touches,and my mood as a woman sex is a mind thng,if i am nt in a gud state of mind it wont hapen

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lol iight oh, peace out sha

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The first time, i think its just instincts and then after that, its basically experience and the fact that when we are with someone more experienced, they just kinda show me.

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hehehehe

who no know Debosky?

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how will i know u? i aint a wizard.

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@sillyboy

No man last  long for the first round but the second round is dedicated to the girl  cause it's when she's having her heavenly feeling and you need to rexist and push harder to let her complete the scene or she'll hate you forever.

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@ 3viso

Yeah you are right. . . . . . the later the rounds, the better it gets

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lmao. . .i'll even send a PDF file so nothing will corrupt the document.

how are u?

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My friends whenever they make love to their girls they do tell me so from their experience I learn how to make it.

           but the first time was at 17 the girl wanted it so bad that I couldn't last 5min. when I came out my friends send me back to go and complete the assignment. they told me that the second round is the bomb. so I went back  seeing the girl still Unclad so I jacked her for the second time.

Since then the girl keep comming for more till I left high school.

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yes o. . .my first time was horrible. The gurl had done it before and i was so mad at myself for not satisfying the gurl enuff.

Nyways, right now, erm . . .no one can try me o

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my mum,s best friend and we are still on shhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh pls dont let my mum know

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I heard this story about two virgins that got married and found it difficult to do it. The girl was looking sick and tired the following day. She managed to open up to an elderly woman in her neighbourhood. She was the one that taught her how they would go about it. I think the succeeded on the second attempt.

So i wonder, if the skill is really in born.

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We come,we learn and eventually we become a conqueror, no set rules

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if u make love outside marriage, it is a SIN.

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who taught me?

make i ask google

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Instinct? inbuilt knowledge? whateva it is, as long as it works 4 u.

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Practice make perfect,nobody taught us it's "inbuild" remember we learn everyday!

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At age 10-12, from my hearing school in the US early 1980s by the state school law that required to teach all handicapped, disabled, and deaf students to be educated on sex education include graphically description of make love. I myself am deaf.

Evenutally the US sex education went BANNED late 1980s. I was glad that i was the last group to learn everything about sexual stuff including condom, STD/AIDS/HIV, pregnancy,  parenthood, everything from A to Z. All  parent do not have to educate their own children at that time.

Today, it was SAD in the US, too many teenagers got pregnant, STD/AIDS/HIV exposure, lousy parent. Sexual Education at all schools would HAVE PREVENTED unwanted pregnancy/diseases in the first place.

Later i found one playboy magazine hidden on my mother's romance/true love stories magazine collection (over 200 magazines) for me to read killing out of my boredom during summer season long before my sister were born. (my sister is hearing). Because i lived in a small rural farming town with distanced neighborhood less than 11,000 population on the East Coast in the middle of Atlantic Ocean---central state. Anyway, I was disgusted seeing all Unclad women but finding interested in reading sexual forum on that playboy magazine talking about what men tick for women in sexual.

At finally, at age 13, my male cousin showed me what his private looks like and how to jack off gently hiding in the largest corn field plantation where my cousin and i ran thru playing seek-n-hide among other cousins.

After that i was transferred from hearing city school to deaf residential school far away from my homestate in the US. At deaf school, i  took advanced sexual education with all intimacy gadgets and practicing on condoms how to insert properly that was consent by my parent. Finally, I got all As graded on all exams/quizzes passing with flying colors. I had my first broken virginity at age 16 by my first sweetheart boyfriend.

At age 17 upon my high school graduation, my mom took me seeing my first GYN doctor getting my first contraption and pap smear before go college for 9 years until i graduated from college. I became master in sexual when i got married at age 22 (different guy) having babies. That was smart move being wisdom and responsible myself!!! I have 2 children. Now my last 2nd child will soon be grown adult turning 18 in 3 more years left.

As i say, my school, male cousin and first boyfriend at deaf school taught me knowing how to make love and please my man well.

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you learn with experience and it also depends on who you are with because you can't make love to every person the same way because what might be good for this person might not be good for the other person.

what i'm saying is if you want to be a good lover, you have to talk to who you are loving to find out what they like and how they like it or else you would be know as that person with the wack sex lol

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All these information is encoded in our DNA, and it is part of our instints as living things. How do babies know to hold their breath under water or not to let go if they are put on a clothes line. This is all about insticts that we are all born with.

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Honestly this things works with instinct, asking too much,will mean questioning God.

That is why he remains (THE BEGINNING AND THE END)

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yes right!!!!!!!!!!! , reading of books and write ups,always experimenting new ideas,coupled with the desire to improve

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In my opinion, nobody needs to teach anyone such things……God created us with all that and the rest is just applying ur common sense.

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