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Who Would U Choose/be?

Ladies who would u rather choose to marry, Guys who would u rather be?

Mr. ABC is handsome, in his late twenties successful n rich. He has a nose for business dat is second to none n is quite a successful professional. Oh did I mention he is single as well. Eligible bachelor with all the trimmings dat come wit success. There's virtually nothing he can't afford. Although single he knows how to lavish a lady wit gifts.

But his Achilles heel? He is cold n detached hardly forms relationships wit people outside of business or professional basis. On those rare occassions he forms an alliance wit a lady it neva lasts long cos even though she gets a lot materially from him she neva has a sense dat he was there for her. Now how ever he wants to get married. He will do anytin for his wife but she shouldn't just ask him to change cos he won't.

Mr. XYZ is also handsome, in his late twenties n single. Moderately successful he can afford all d basic things in life. He is a happy-go-lucky guy who once committed to anything including women stays true to his commitment.

He knows how to sweep a lady off her feet even though her can't lay the world at her feet. He is lively n fun to be wit; the phrase 'never a dull moment' was made for him.

He too is looking to settle down n knows he will give the best of himself to his wife n kids. However his present n foreseeable future earnings put him squarely in the average category.

So who would u choose/be?

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I'm still trying to get my head around this issue. . .

What exactly is this thread about?

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Mr XYZ all the way. Peace of mind matters, money can't buy me that.

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I got to agree with you! Cus I also been in such situation.

There are certain things money can't buy and hapiness is one of it no matter what anyone says!

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People like Mr ABC never change, they are usually set in their ways.

Trust me, I've been in a relationship with someone like that, a lot of cash for an expensive lifestyle and designer gear but at the end of the day the loneliness just kills it for you, plus he no matter how hard you try to make him understand that you need him more than all that money he's throwing around, he just wont get it!

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Mr ABC with time he will change and become XYZ but with enough cash

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Definitely Mr XYZ! Cold and detached doesn't do it for me.

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hmmmm,

What will be the point of mr ABC  with all his money and the lush lifestyle if he'll be cold and distant and will most times not be there for me and the kids.?

Yes there'll be a lot of money at our disposal which if i have to be honest ( is a huge advantage, since money is sweet to spend), but that money will not make me feel good on days when i need my hubby to comfort and be there for me, that money wont be there to make me happy when my husband misses the birth of our first child because of a business meeting he absolutely had to attend,

i'd go for the average joe,

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I would choose Mr XYZ, (add a few years).

Mr ABC, cold and detached  : he does not seem worth spending time with.

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