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Who Would You Marry; Someone You Love More Or Someone That Loves You More?

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Rule of thumb: Marry someone who loves you more, just look at it like an insurance policy!

Might sound selfish and narcissistic,but then the world is all effed up,you want peace of mind in that relationship, he/she has to bring in a 150% to your 100%, this way you get to sleep better at night, which it were different,but that's just the way it is,somethings will never change, charge that to Bruce Hornsby.

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I would marry some1 that loves me more, since we already have the basic mutual love.

Since he loves me more, he'll try twice as hard as i do to make things work, and believe me there is a comforting streak we as humans feel, knowing some1 [husband/wife] honestly has our best interests at heart.

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To me,asking u to marry me,means i love u,n u agreeing to marry me,means u love me more.So what more proof do i need?

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i'll prefer someone who loves me most

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Nope I have been here pretty regular with the exception of weekends.  It just gets too busy at home to be on NL.  I tend to only have time during the work day.

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@poster,

someone that loves me more

@sistawoman,

you been missing for a long time here?

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How do you determine if they love you more?

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someone who loves me more, to avoid heart break

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i think the practical thing to do will be to marry one u love that loves u

the quantity(if love can be quantified) is irrelevant

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To love is nothing

To be loved is something

To love and be loved is everything

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For me, I think it should not be whether I love her more or if she loves me more. I think the real issue is: whether you love the person enough to want to marry her/him.

There are some character traits we look out for in the opposite sex before we make our choices.

Compatibility: Are we compatible socially, academically, emotionally, religiously, etc

Love: Do both of you love each other enough to want to marry.

Do you share the same outlook to life?

There are lot of issues both of you must come to terms with,

and if both of you now discover that you both will be a good partner for each other,

Then the issue of who love the other the more will not arise, 'cos that in itself is not enough to guarantee a good relationship.

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I agree with you. Most times,reaction to situations depends on the state of mind of the other, not a reflection of their desire or feelings for you.

Its a serious question as you can not weigh your love and that of your partner to know who loves who most.

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How exactly does one determine if the other person loves them more?

What unit of measure are we using to determining the love one has for another?

I believe there is no way to know how much a person loves you or if thier love is greater.

Just because they dont react the way I would in a certain situation does not mean that they love me less, it just means that they deal with it differently. And dealing with things or situations differently is part of being human.

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Think I would prefer to marry someone who loves me more! But then what about if the person believes you love them more? hence the reason they are marrying you!

I suppose with that, it's all good then! U love eachother as much!

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some one that truly love me for who I am

and not for what I`m

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The one u love is better,but the one that loves u more is best,at least that will be your only consolation

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Someone who loves me more!

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as long as the love is there,dat should be enough

u pple make mistakes when u ask dios kinda qstion

u seem to have forgotten that there is no way you can know if u love ur partner more or vice versa

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I might marry someone who I love more. I always thought that I'd say the other option, but now thinking about it, I know that I can be overwhelming with love and it can tough to match (don't mean to sound like I'm bragging), but yes, I think I could marry someone I love more, but I would prefer to marry someone who loves me more (though I would find it hard to comprehend this). .

Good good question!!

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I would marry somebody that loves me more than herself. PERIOD.

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My dear, i don't think i'll marry someone who does not love me, oh! Ho and ha!!!

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