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Why 9ja Girls Drink Alcohol?

why 9ja girls in london drink too much. do they want somebody to marry them. i see 2 last week drinking beer and talking like agbero. they are yoruba girl and i ask them whether they want somebody to marry them as they are alcoholic and they start quarell wit me. who go marry woman that drink beer. you go marry them if na you?. if you wan husband and you drink alcohol you no serious.only white woman are allow to drink alcohol

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Do you smoke the herb then? Just curious!

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alchoholic? not my thing

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There's nothing like a six pack of either heineken/windhoek/grolsch on a friday evening after work, especially when you get home and your man has already organised it so you can knock yourself out. Those are the moments man. I also think some of the finest moments are shared over a glass of wine on a quiete and laaaaazzzzy evening.

Guys its Friday guess what am I goin' be doing?

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Sa Goddess, I managed to catch you online this time, I introduced myself to you a couple of weeks back, would like to meet you as I'm currently in SA, Kyalami, holla

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Really? Are men also labelled irresponsible when they drink? Do you drink?

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Only irresponble women drinks [color=#990000][/color]

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my point exactly every since!!

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People shud understand that not everybody who drinks alcohol end up getin laid. And not everybody who drinks get drunk. It differs on individuals.

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Why we always dey think backward, that is why we have problem developing, is alcohol created for man alone? its only in this country that a woman smoke, then dey consider her as ashawo. you need to travel outside this village call Naija oooooooooooo. i dont drink or smoke but we need need to change our way of thinking in this country.

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ain't notin bad with naija gurls drinkin. it shouldn't just be too much.

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@ sexybabes

which of them would bother you most if the reverse was the case eh?

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i honestly don't care if a chick drinks as long as she's not pregnant. plus there's a difference between getting drunk once in a while and doing it on the regular.

and this

is a pack of lies.

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why would any guy be bothered by any of them , as long as shes not my girlfriend and is still giving , am cool with them all

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Between Aloy and Hotfunmi I dont know who is worst!

Sisterwoman is fully able to know when she is drunk and not drunk.

You get to a stage when you realise you are not fully yourself thats tipsy!

If you contine drinking after this stage you will become drunk whether you remember this stage is a whole different ball game!

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I have a glass of red wine almost every night. I am not drunk when I am done.

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Because they drink Alcohol they are a drunk?

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Drinking leads to drunkenness. Reasearch shows that 80% of people that drink end up intoxicated. Imagine yourself in a room with an inebriated woman.

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Ibukun, are you in London?

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A lady who drinks and sleep arround.

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@ erico & luxiore

Sori guyz im nt tryn 2 spoil ur date. Forgive me!

@GUYZ in da house

Jus a quest 4 u.  Cn u tel me which 1 bothers u da most

1. A lady who drinks alcohol

2. A lady who drinks in a bar

3. A lady who get drunk

4. A lady who drinks & sleep around

Thez reasons why i ask these quests coz thez a difference.If u guyz cn ansa me then i cn tell u da difference.

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lol U are one hell of a funny chic lol I meant bigger Girls as in Big Boyz, I aint talking bout FAT GIRLS if thats what you thought I meant, so chill,I dont wanna get punshed yet, stilll like my face,anyway now you know

If you was my Date, where would you rather go to PUB or WINE BAR?

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guys guys, you all seemed to have not read the original post, he was talking bout ladies who order pints of beer in a pub,well here in the Uk as a lady would you rather go to a Pub or wine bar? as a young Man, I find the Pub iritating,I rather stick to the wine bars if you are in london go to Clapham loads and loads of wine bars there,now I think its very unlady like to pull a Pint well lol unless you are irish,but if you are a Lady in Nigeria then its a whole difrent ball game.

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@ poster,

whats wrong with you sef??

It seems you've not been to any other African country, thats why you get mouth dey yab naija babes.

i've been opportuned to travel to South Africa, Congo, Ethiopia, Ghana, Benin republic and Togo and i realised that naija girls are the most decent African ladies i've ever come across.

In these other countries, girls will toast you, buy drinks for you and take you to her house for good free sex. I've never heard or seen such in naija.

when you talk of oyibo girls, i've had my fair share and i swear, "THE WORST THING THAT CAN HAPPEN TO A NAIJA MAN IS TO MARRY OYINBO WOMAN"

i've dated many and i know what i'm talking about. They drink alchohol like fish drinks water, they smoke weed and say it aint poo.(not all smoke weed)

I drink alchohol moderately. i've got some scotch and vodka in my home and i mix my drinks with orange juice every evening when i get home. i enjoy sipping a glass while watching telly at night.( i dont like drinking outside)

anytime i have a female visitor, i dig out a bottle of red wine. There's nothing wrong with ladies having a drink. i'm against getting drunk.

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There's nothing too much wrong with drinking for those who enjoy it. i guess as long as they drink responsibly. it's personally not my style, and i don't find it attractive in a female either. different strokes for different nigas

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So a glass of wine with a meal is bad?

Its the falling over punch drunk that I think is a serious problem. I dont see the need for male or female to drink themselves into a stupor.

But I see nothing wrong with people drinking socially.

Its when people feel that they cannot have fun unless they have a drink . Thats when I see it as a problem.

p.s Pataki please do not derail this topic.

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it makes women age faster[unscientific proof] while it has a little or no effect on men and aging. Should women also challenge men in that angle because of equality of sexes?

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First and foremost:

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1. I don't drink alcohol (hot drinks or beer), although I have tasted it a few times, but I can't be bothered about alcohol in reality, I prefer to keep my system as clean as possible.

2. I don't smoke either.

3. Infact I am now consciously even doing my best to completely eliminate sugar from my diet for obvious reasons.

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I don't like the fact that 9ja ladies drink alcohol for the following reasons:

1. It is going to make them age a lot faster, hence make them lose their beauty a lot faster.

2. It is going to ultimately cause medical problems for them in long run.

3. It might end up causing them to transfer medical problems to their unborn children as a result of their own medical problems that occur from their drinking habits.

4. Drinking leads to bad breathe and dirty stained teeth, hence it ultimately constitute itself into a turn off.

5. It would ultimately end up creating a little bit of financial black hole in either their pocket or the pocket of the partners because sooner or later they'll be addicted to alcohol and spend more on it than is realistic.

6. It ultimately constitutes a turn off to me as a man cus i don't drink myself and i certainly cannot expect any potential future mother of my children to drink.

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I believe 9ja girls drink alcohol as a result of :

1. Peer Pressure.

2. Party Lifestyle.

3. Need to drown or suppress different sorrows/bad memories that exist in their lives.

4. As a precursor to indiscriminate sex.

5. Curiousity that unfortunately turns into an Habit and ultimately into an addiction.

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BECOS THE LADY IS AN IGBO-YORUBA THAT MEANS A BAD COMBINATION? U VE NO RIGHT TO CONDEMN THAT. U SEEMS TRIBALISTIC. DRINKIN IS AN INDIVIDUAL ISSUE MR.JUDGE.

I SEE NO EVIL IN DRINKIN AS FAR AS U RE OK WITH WAT U TOOK

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Where is your bible to preach against those drinking alcohol.

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thank you JJYOU - i must say i also always look forward to your contribution - God bless you too

Lady T - thanks hun - good to know some ppl see the voice of reason

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Thank God someone with sense

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why do you seem to think the only thing that can come from being a drunk is careless sex? women will have unwanted pregnancies whether drunk or not - it is a side effect of sex, and whilst alcohol impairs the judgment of both parties - you are right in saying the woman carries the pregnancy - but is that a reason why women shouldn't drink? becuase they will end up pregnant?

is your argument against women drinking cmpletely (as the poster) due to their sex or women drinking excessively? - personally i think alcohol in excess is bad for BOTH men and women as it iwll 'fry their liver and kidneys' (as you put it) - you are right in saying women are more vulnerable to the effects, hence the lower alcohol limits for women - but i beg to differ when you say unwanted pregnancy seems to to be the only problem you associate with excessive drinking.

My conclusion is: there is nothing wrong in both sexes drinking moderately - but just as excessive drinking is bad for men it is also bad for women - unwanted pregancies whether drunk or not, will always happen as a result of carless sex - so women should be given more logical reasons to not drink other than their gender. based on reasearch they can be advised to comsume less alcohol units than men, but to not drink completely based on gender is an unfounded conclusion.

You are right in saying the African man's mentality towards women who are drunks is not very pleasant - but the same mentality is semingly 'sympathetic/more relaxed' towards men that are drunks - does that mean it should be followed strictly and not be challenged where it defies reason? ,male drunks detroy their finances and future and homes with alcohol - so i suppose it is wrong for both genders - does that mean men too should be banned from drinking?

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And then what? You gon' wonder why you just slept with a character out of a scary movie? psshtiu

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I don't drink even though I'm a heavy weight

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as for me alchol no dey make me tipsy one bit even if i drink dem up to 4 bottles at once only wetin dey bother me be say na soft drink dey shark me like hell meeen, if i drink fanta or rooster u no go believe d wey e go spin my head especially water!!!!!!!!!!!

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i laugh see ur rules for a woman drinking alcohol.

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Whats Wrong in taking alcohol?

Nairaland!

@Topic, We do cause WE CAN!

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I do take shekpe atimes 4 stomach sake o.

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well - judging from your view point on this issue - yes, it does make you secure and matured in my books

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@ luxoire

My reason is because you are a woman lol

Just kidding.

I think men who say women shouldnt drink are just control freak.

They are the worse culprits any way.

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i drink oh, but i don't get drunk - anyman that will tell me i should not drink, then we are not meant for each othe r- there are times when i have gone yrs without touching alcohol, but its a personal decision - let no man tell me to not drink - because i am a woman - arrant nonsense!

now when I am pregnant i don't  intend on drinking, if my hubby says i shouldnt drink then the logic is there and understandable!

if you want me to stop something gimme a tangible reason other than - BECAUSE YOU ARE A WOMAN!!

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Personally, I cannot stand girls who drink alcohol. Wanna turn me off, engage yourself in alcohol as a woman.

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@spikedcylinder

lol

of course baileys is Alcohol

YOu give me joke girl.

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@POSTER

You Are Sick!

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It's like the stout dey go for her two super sized carica papaya instead of her stomach.

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Any babe wey dey shayo wit so much relish, all i knw is approach wit CAUTION.

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