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Why Are 9ja Babes So Possesive?

Yesterday, I watched a good 9Ja movie featuring the likes of Omotola, uche jumbo, Jim iyke but what got my attention was the scene when Jim Iyke’s girlfriend/fiancé always embarrasses other girls that she sees around her lover.

WAIT!  That scene remembered of something that always happen daily in and around our environments.

I have carry out some research and found that  9Ja babes are so possessive

*Not giving breathing space to their lover

*Always snickering on their guy?

*Always afraid when other girl comes around their guy

Some even fight other girls all in the name of love.

   

                                NAWAH!

WHY ARE 9Ja BABES SO POSSESIVE?

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tope2000, damn u are , gosh i cant describe it. wouldnt mind if you dominate me 4 eva cos wiyh gals like, man has found eve.pls can i have ur email add or phone no.

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because they cant stop being them

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thats not true, the naija women i know couldn't give damn where their husbands are (not by choice) they are afriad to ask any questions. they are not thinkog of foreign women looking at their husband they know they are better than them anyday.

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that is great work, 9ja should be very careful with their attiutide

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Cld be due to d fact dat guys av given more than enuf cause to protect wat is ours.

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hehehehehehhehehehe

hahahahahahahahahah

hohohohohohohohohoho

@tops, dont even go there.

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let me be pls. to chase a fine babe is not easy

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Idk the kind of girls you lot hang out with.

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Onyinye abi Onyinye2, you no dey tire for talk,

Your eye never dey pain you since 3:00.

Na wa o

Davi abi Kini oruko, you too leave the babe make she use her life do something.

Nairalanders, make una help me see problem for net o

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till wenger signs sumone today

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Credit card

Debit card

ATM card

Social Security Card

Green Card

Check Book

Bank Account number

Car Insurance card

Health Insurance Card

Pocket Change

Savings

Stocks

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taxis, horses or cows, the most important prize in TX is onyinye2

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which kain girl be this sef? I'm moving to TX soon, better get ready.

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omo dis thread don gather fire and brimstones, time to leg it!!

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Toyin said 'All women are possesive', I'm saying 'Nigerian women are relatively extremely, ultrapossesive'

Did I tell you 'Save me from this possesive chic'? C'mon, I'm Eldee!!!

I think you need to check up the definition of 'whine' and stop playing the love doctor

Kapish?? ?? ??

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Unfortunately for me I'm not. My only loss is I've had to kill the speakers for the time being. .

while watchin this hyper-hilarious Bush-Condoleeza Rice youtube footage.

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You know the truth, let's not call the kettle blueish, metallic, scalded black . . . Nigerian ladies get clingy from the start

That's why you hear them saying 'he used and dumped me' when he didn't promise commitment in the first place

It still boils down to the 'Every relationship must end in marriage' thing that they grew up with

As TOH said, a nigerian sees a chic that goes on three dinner dates in a week is seen as a slut

And now look at you describing being possesive as 'caring' . . . hmmn dark days ahead for us ooh

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Possessiveness is not a sex thing. Men could be as possessive as women.

It usually stem from insecurity, when you think you're not good enough for your partner, you keep having this fear that someone better will come from no where and simply snatch him or her away. That way you find yourself constantly watching on your partner.

It's actually very frustrating to the person having it and it's a sure relationship breaker. But if trust and true friendship can be built by having a heart to heart talk and reasuring your partner that you aren't going to run away with the next available toaster, such jealousy and possessiveness will give way to respect and love.

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When I go on a date with Serena, I know there's still a chance I don't call her again

Infact, bout 70% chance that we're not taking it anywhere

But let's try the same thing with a Bunmi

You'll get calls filling your voicemail, there was a time this next chic used a different number to see if I was avoiding her

It's like you're married just because you wen on one date

Fine, most Nigerian chics don't spew first, but when you give sumn as little as a greenflash, they go all clingy

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what!! that calls for serious deliverance oo.

@topic, its the basic characteristic of the female psyche.

hi, onyin.

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the altitude might be so obvious in women folks but same goes for men.how will u feel if ur babe is in d mist of wealthier, more handsome,taller and well built men and all smiling and looking at her?coooooooool i believed prob is not 9ja babes alone,it mit only be stronger here cos women av no right in nigeria

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helo friends

this isssue is eating deep into our system.

let fight this whole thing.

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even men do the same thing, not just women or naija women

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this is a matter of the mind and attitude, period

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its simply a feeling of insecurity, thats all

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is it other 9ja babies they are afraid of or other women from different cultures.

Cuz i know the nigerian women here in the states always stare and never talk to me when my husband and i go to events.

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