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Why Are Girls After Me?

y do girls break their relationship with my friends because of me?I am tired of getting introduced to the member of the opposite sex by my friends.The funny thing is other girls i meet don't want to be my girlfriends ,they only want to be my friend, and they want me to screw them.I don't want toscrew nobody who is not my lover.Whenever i mention marriage u hear them say i am not ready and other balderdash.I have decided to put my energy into my work.Agreed I was a bookworm in school but that was then .I don't want to play with my life , How can i get a serious girl?

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clap for urself; more grease to ur elbow

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guy, u are too funny dude,,,,,,.

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the problem is that, we have many wrong guy out there.

the ladies were just forced to hang out with them because they nee some1.

so when they see a nice guy,inteligent, cute, and with little cash, or a little decent one, they find all means to get his attention.

so cant blame the ladies,because it is the fault of the wrong guys who claim to be a playa

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what the Bleep is this all about, why are girls after u, where do u live coz u sound kinda country

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@poster ------------ Most girls are always confused for so many reasons, l guess they are confused with your name shevchenko   they could be thinking you are the shevchenko of Chelsea Fc. or could you be the one?,

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@DIME

Why do you have to be extra, i didn't ask you to reply to it i only wanted you to see wat dat dimwit was getting at thats all. call me!

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Na wah. . .

@Topic, what happened to the owner of the thread masef?

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Lowal Who teach U Igbo?

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BUHA---LAFFING MY LAPACIOUS Bottom OFF!

Do u know -i had 2 come 1 of my Colleague 2 help me explian all U wrote up der.cuz i still dnt know what ur point is---I stated mine clearly.

& abt meeting MOONS--that is another topic on it's own!

Because U r so cute--I wdnt B myself wen i see U--HABA gurl !

Me Myself fyn 2 naw--I still try--I still dey make head turn when i walk in2 places!

So My dear--I no dey Form--I b correct Niger pikin dat dnt give a Bleep if U r cute or not--KAPISH

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@jay really is not about meeting a cute guy and drooling all over him. I said if he has a nice personality and he looks good and i like his behaviour towards me if i want him i would go for it. And as for seeing Jim ike sweety i have met with better celebrities i even work for them sometimes when they have concerts down here in toronto namely(nelly, little x, mellissa ford, fat joe, fabolous,game, Chris brown, 112 e.t.c) and sweety, if my beauty don't attract them my nice black Bottom does, but like i say i don't give myself to them because i see them on b.e.t television. My point is stop feeling like u are smart and your are related to George bush. because i think anyone with ambition make's an effort to get what they really want. am not saying drool all over a man but some times pretenders does the worst, and it seems to me you act like u are laid back which you are not. (SO STOP FORMING) IT'S NOT CUTE. YOUR DAD AIN'T OBANSANJO.

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@jay

It's not about cuteness or the guy being fine, Like i said it is about me liking the guy and his personalities, people like u suffer in silence, when you could do something about it. Sweety i am a pleasant looking girl, i don't need to run after a man to get is attention but i can assure u if i see what i like i will go for it. Because i have a high SELF ESTEEM!

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diz can b Shev$%%^&&*

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i feel you sha, wat girls of nowadays are becoming amazes me. they see fine boy and they fall, when the fine boy sleeps with them and dumps them they complain. AS U SAID, THANK GOD YOU ARE NOT A PLAYA!

just make sure you keep ur eyes wide open, if a girl comes unto u, study her first, if u think u like her go ahead, but dont be rude to them unless ofcourse they deserve it!

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abi ooo not bringing it here as if -It's 1 verrrrrrrrrrrry BIG deal ***hisses***

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I wan see the 'supposedly' amazing looks

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she wasnt being hard on me.she isn't just aware that ladies these days are the toasters and i maintain i don't see anything wrong with that.She has the typical nigerian mentality(no offence meant).My grouse is that the ladies are after me because of my facial appearance and physique.Many of them will do anything just to go out with me on a date.I repeat i am not flaunting.I thank God for one thing though .i am not a playa

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Thank God you feel much better.

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I feel you jare, thats why i said he should hide if he can't handle girls going after him lol. . .Am much better today thanks.

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Ta Da! Abracadabra! U R found lol. Zulu what don't you get?

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I hope you don't get discouraged i don't blame jaybaby for being too hard on you, but though she is over doing it she is right.@jaybaby point taken. He admit he came about it wrong. so forgive him and move on. And @ topic for the record, it is better when the guy do the asking eventhough that won't stop me from asking out watever guy i like if the guy is too slow at things

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i meant wooing

afterall u said "silly girls run after boys" .I think it should be the other way with the exception of silly.

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sweetie no hard feelings anyway,but you have to admit such thing happen.Girls running after guys(after all it has been my dane since early childhood onwards).I dont see any thing wrong .I hope u r not too much of a nigerian,who always believes its a man's job?

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Haba Mr 2 Much ,Yes in N/L U come,meet frnds it's jus dat stories like URS makes me wanna slap sm1.

Plz OOOo dnt have a rethink .Srry 2 say but stories like diz makes me angry.

Listen i never said i dnt believe that sm silly gurlz does run after cute Guyz all i'm trying 2 say is ---U brought it Up like ""U r 2 Much gurlz cnt do wout U"" It's a slap 2 d Ladies

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u are sounding like them already.Why are you/them concerned about looks more than anyother thing?looks can be deceptive you know.Anyway i just removed my pic from the profile and replaced it with something better.didnt know my info could be dug from my profile.I just joined nairaland(the belief was that it was a site one could meet friends ,now i am havin a rethink)

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What's the big deal? So they run after you, hide frm them if u cant deal wit it

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@jaybaby i just felt u were all my bro and sis and thot since u were a member of the opposite sex u could help me out.well since none of this has happened except for a few intelligent contributions.I am outta here.Thanks

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Normal guy? BuHa--LMLAO

Mr 2 much, i dnt care if 1 billion gurlz run after u-that is ur private life,y bring it on N/L, we dnt even know U,we dnt no how U look like, so how do u xpt us 2 answer ur FAKE Q huh?

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@thoniaslim i am not super rich,i only have few bucks to throw around unfortunately most girls especially my sisters friends( who always prevail on my sweet sister to talk me to adate )wouldnt mind to pay the bills and i am not fine(except u say every guy is fine),i am not the muscular type.so what is your own?

@pain @queenmide thanks 4 your comment.thats why i am pouring much energy to my work.i am either glued to 2 things my laptop and premiership matches on t.v

@ikamefa what pedestal am placing myself?

@kiki i am interested in both questions u raised

@coco29 thanks anyway--truth be said i control myself but they don't control themselves around me

@jaybaby @ogamadam-i am not flaunting myself.is it a crime to be a normal guy?

@iice--wetin dey funnyy?

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thanks for your contributions but  please lets not make this thread famous ,contrary to popular opinion,i am not here to flaunt myself for any reason.I am just a normal guy who wants a normal life.the quesion is why do girls want to date a guy like me?there are million guys there, my sister's friends are the worst.A girl became friendly my sister because of me and i no give am face, she called me a wicked ,arrogant guy who thinks of himself alone.Abeg wetin i do?

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If you are trying to be cocky, u need to stop! and if not you can just behave your self and try to keep yourslef busy. it has always helped for me when i find out that i need to be good, i find something i like doing to keep me busy till that phase worned out. so u should try that.

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Hmmmmmmmmm--

@ Topic

Mr Physique psycho ,fyn Boi gurlz chazer welkom ooooooooo ***HISSED** ---

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Aaaw!! Im So Touched!! Tears Im My Eyes.

How Empathic. Miss Oprah Coco.

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why is it as soon as some one on NL talk about some thing like this, everyone assumes he is boasting, prob the guy genuinely need to understand why women are so attracted to him.

@topic just try to control ya self around the opposite sex.

and maybe some time out would help you see clearly.

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Mr "Hero".

Better Get Out Of Thy Delusion.

Theres A Lotta Work To Do Out There.

Get Back Back To Work. The Clock Is Ticking.

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so wat is d point of this are u tryna figure out y gurlz are after u or u tryna find a solution on ow to find d perfect woman

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you dey portray yourself to be prince charming or what??

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Mr Fine boi, abeg show pic i no fit shout

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