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Why Are Guys Insecure?

i have seen a lot of cases of insecurity on guys .i was just wondering why are they insecure .

they keep unnecessary tabs on their girlfriends/wives

they tend to get overly protective when other males show up around their women

and the list goes on

so my question is why are guys insecure?

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Solution = Maintain two pumps as is done in the industries, One pump fails,You start the other.While the next is running, buy a new pump or you rebuild the failed pump.

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keep wondering. na ur thesis be this?

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@topic

If you notice your man is insecure, why don't you and your man sitting down to discuss privately to find out why he is insecure that way? (do not use it to post here public, this is very personal. If you do this, you will lose friendship/relationship for good).

Your man will tell you why when time is right. Maybe from his childhood trauma? Maybe from his bad experience in relationship? Lot of reasons to act that way being insecure. When revealing, you have to be prepared to console his anger (usually woman-bashing talk) and listen to him until he finished talking.

Majority of men who is insecure REFUSE TO DISCUSS OPEN!!! Keep insecure inside their chest until die at young age (before 50s)! That's why male are first to die early before women. Caused by Lot of stress, hold back, fear of rejections,  heartbroken, poor healthy and goes on,

Generally, men who are insecure and married or single, are more likely to discuss open to only platonic confided friendship in opposite sex instead of the spouse/loved ones, vice versa for women who are insecure and married or single. By the way, from my experiences and point of my view, I had deal with my insecue male friends to get their ugly scars out of their chests---to feel themselves better.

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if a guy loves a girl truly, he will be over protective and jealous

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they are mostly insecure when they are goin with a girl that is way out of their league i suppose that they can't believe their luck so any other guy talkin to that girl and other shyt like that result into problems

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mystical you are joking right?

ever seen a possesive dude?

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a man's insecurity more bearable than a girl's jealousy

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Guys are insecure, they think about what they've done to some girls maybe in the past, how they've hurt so many people and all that, now he's finally with a girl he loves and he thinks she'll do the same to him

he always be all up in her business

dats not the right answer, but guys are insecure for alot of reasons

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@busta,

i should be very pleased to know thatI am judged to better that fellow animals, I should not conslole mafelf for getting it any time i want . But remember, I aint gay, so every time I do it , I do it with a female dog.

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I saw the game as well, Blackburn is GOOD

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world we living in is full of sh** can u imagine a girl u are datin goes out n hav sex wit another man n comes back to tell u cos she felt bad after the act, does that make her unique or better frm the others dat will just continue havin sex wit any guys dat comes their way n wait for the day u will find out ur self or better still get lucky, u go marry ashi thinkin say na correct u put for house, MAKE GOD SAFE US ALL

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I ain't even denying it. I'm a feminist to a point, but someone needs to stand up for the "weaker" sex as y'all have labelled us

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Insecure guys are more than insecure girls. I don't blame them though, a lot of girls are too good for the guys they end up dating. (A LOT NOT ALL)

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i am not talking about the match. I just said we shouldn't spam the thread talking about your team.

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No more Arsenal talk. We don't wanna spam this thread talking about a pompous team do we?

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Have fun?

They're at the top because they deserve it. They've had a very good season this year.

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I do not hate sports. I just don't like Arsenal

Man U all the way.

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Ewww, you people should take that name away from this thread oh! Why are we talking about "Arsenal"?

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@mukina. . abi now

@adconline, thats a glorified way of consoling ursef, y'all are still dogs

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@Busta

lets not get started with dogs men

Men are dogs with male dogs or female, by extension women are dogs too, because men do it mostly with women. Most men that are very insecure are mostly parasites who think they need to cling on a woman to achieve success in life.

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Men cant stop playing

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Women are more vulnerable

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Thank you for the honest answer.

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Cos, like ma mehn Ludameister noted, SEX's been overrated!

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I agree. I don't know why. Mention a guy's name and that's the beginning of wahala. Some girls are also insecure about their guys' reactions top many things about them.

I would like to know why this is so prevalent.

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