Why are more people losing their virginity before marriage? I am 24 years plus and still a virgin and will remain one till i get married. I have held several online chats with girls on this topic and majority of them were truthful so say that they have lost their virginity. When i asked them if they regretted losing their virginity? They said they do regret taking such action. Why can't people save their virginity rather than devaluing themselves?