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Why Are Most Men Like Babies? (Tidiness)

One of my friend reported her husband to her Pastor's wife of this attitude and she was surprised of the replied of the Pastor's wife "mine is even worse"

In my place of work some men complained of getting late to work sometimes due to looking for one thing or the other like socks, belt, tie etc; when their wives have decided not to help them pick it up where they might have off/thrown them the previous night.

My brother is not exempted, am tired of arranging and picking shoes, shirt etc from the living room when his back from work.

I don't know if this is a way of life, tiredness or it is intentional for some men, women also go to work and still enters the kitchen to cook.

So what do u think about this?

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the men that act like that are a bunch of retards and untidy fellows, i can guess how dirty their house and m ind will look like with a flimsy excuse of been tired.its all dirtiness and untidyness.in a situation where ur wife is not there,then wat u gonna do?its ONE BIG MESSY LIVING,

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it is not about been a man that makes him a baby, it is just been not knowing how to live an organised lifestyle. i'm saying this if it is particularly his habit

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seems like if ladies/wives

are no more aware of

their roles on the homes!!!

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i will forever be grateful to the woman has been taking good and absolute care of me and even my daughter since the last 4 years of marriage without a single complain,for me i think i know the role a guy should play at home because we were all 5 male children and we didn't enjoy enough of females picking your stuffs for you at home but even at that i am grateful to my wifey because she really know how to treat like the true baby that i am

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Hi people,very nice thread.I am one of those men this thread is directed at.I had to break up from a relationship of 5 years cuz she wouldn't let me be myself and was always nagging about the way i litter the house. I think its a woman's responsibility to take care of a man.Most of us men are naturally like that by default.

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So of men like Babies tidiness, My brother for example, tiring, arranging and picking shoes, shirt etc from the living room when evey his back from work.

Some men do it when their wife is not at home, as soon as she comes back she will takes over.

It is necessary that every men lean how to tiding their babies very will.

Thanks.

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@topic

As for me i am a very cordinated and tidy young man who has been very lucky to have friends of like nature but i have not been opportuned to meet women who are also of same standing, The girls i have met are mostly untidy and scattered in thier doings especially back in school.

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This ones easy. Y r men like babies? Metaphor?@ poster; Y else should a grown up man act like a baby? To suck on his partners bosoms(bosom) of course.

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men are generally like babies,that is why Adam was easily and stupidly fed the forbidden apple and is causing the generation of problems we have in humanity now, "MEN ARE PIGS"

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well ,it is confidential.if you really want to find out,call me up on 08064974622

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not all guys are like that though very few and some ladies are like too.accept them the way they are.do all things thanksgiving. quit complaining.some people are actually want this people in their lives and they dont have them.

Enjoy them though it can be frustrating at times but try see in a new way coz, we may have to keep doing this for the rest of our lives.you are doing this for yourself so tha your environment will be neat.Love all sisters that have to baby sit men all their lives.In the largest and mgthiest of men their is always the baby

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Am glad u said most men and not all. Depends on the guy.

Some guys are simply pigs with a capital P.

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all these is nothing 2 me because my girl is dare 4 me 2 do stuf so she never complaine 4 a second so i don't c any thing bad in wat am doing untill i c as a topic here

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when my girlfriend and i lived together in school i was the one who was always arranging the room after she goes for classes or comes back, the floor was always getting littered with the contents of her make-up bag. she can be really untidy bt it comes with the package (a very wonderful package at that) so its something i can definitely live with, there are exceptions so nothing do anybody

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@namun , l know  the trusted  and tested husbands  out  there, l  guess  that NLgals do  not  like  me sef, My thread don die ooooooooo

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webman,

na u again. fine i wont mind spoiling my husban as long as he has finished spoiling me. and why do u think God wud bless someone 4 such

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GOD  WILL ALWAYS BLESS EVERYWOMAN OUT THERE, THAT UNDERSTANDS THE BEST WAYS  TO SPOIL THEIR HUSBANDS

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@amigos121

we are like that because you women treat us like ATM machines.

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bringing money home a=has nothing to do with it. women too got to work.

the money is part of what you pay for f, king her regularly, bros its not a small thing. payment for extra stress

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hi guyz,man bring money home,woman clear the home,

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Where have  you  been my  bodyguard, ? they have nearly kill me  ooooooooooo MY KEMISUGA LOL

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Some men are animal. take it or you live it.

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Most men are like babies, because that is what they are. Women are much stronger in all aspects but physical.

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Only those with helping hands act like babies.

Those that care about there friends comments outside are tidy

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AMIGO112, High fives for  you

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we are like that cos you women treat us like ATM machines.

it is what it is.deal with it.

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Frijos - Thank you

Wedman - U tried

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i don't know why either. even on days that they don't go to work i.e. weekends, you'll still find these clothes-throwing-on-floor, belt-anywhere-it-finds-rest men doing exactly the same thing. so it's goes to show it's not about traffic or tiredness at all. it must be attributed to upbringing and unwillingness to change bad habits (yes it's a bad habit).

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haha ha i really didn't know or rather can't believe when I typed manchester united when i meant to say "MAN" honestly I still can't believe it!

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We (Men) should never have/find any excuse for been untidy. It's really hard though but we need to pay attention to details and stay organised. 99.99% of us (men) are guilty of this crime. If we really care about our women we shud correct what they keep complaining about. They'd appreciate us for that cos it shows that we're listening. Fellas let's give them a suprise ok when we get home tonight let's arrange our stuff! Put them in right place where they ought to be. Let's be neat always. Let's not be selfish let's consider our women and respect them cos they are humans too. I believe as a man u shudn't be told what to do. Except for those who doesn't have shame. Treat your woman right today and the love and attraction will flow like a river.

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My hubby used to be or should i say is still tidy but now just tends to be a little more laid back now that there is someonelse in the house to do chores.Also does not help that i hatre filth and clutter so tend to instinctively pick up stuff around the house.He still tries with chores at least he does the laundry and the dishes( just can stand the time frame sometimes so i end up washing it myself).I guess a tidy man will always be tidy even if he is married or not but just tend to lay back when there is someone else to do it. I still get the occassional wet towel on the bed sometimes and that makes me MAD.

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@affee, Welcome on board and l  do really appreciated your  stand  wt  your  hubby. Now, you are  one of  the advisers  on WOMEN AFFAIRS comes Nov.4 when my brother, OBAMA enters  the WHITE HOUSE.

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Not all men Please

My husband is better than I am when it comes to tidiness

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It common with men thats why they are married the woman should endeavour to to tidy up the house cuz the men always find it difficult to tidy up there environment though not all men majority of them even me am not spared.

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@namun (f), l partially disagree wt you on that , hands will wash hands, You can always help out , l do really believe that one can be helpful to each other

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@baby jinx,

sorry but its like ur own is much. hahha everything man, husband. go and look at dose dat worshipped deir husbands like u do just after soome years d men start cheating on them. picking up ur man's clutter does not make u a gud woman. it just makes u stress urself out more. 4 God sake both men and women go to work so why should a man be such a pig and irrresponsible as not been able 2 clean his mess

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Any man who throws his belongings anywhere should be flogged and starved for 2 days, that means he never went through child's training

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Danke, You can see that, part of the fundamentals of LOVE which is SHARING , Here, you can share( all things inclusive) what you are best in with your partner and help his/her weakness in others, No wonder, the Book of Life says , Husbands love your wives and Wives submit unto your husbands, The act of submission is the processing of learning from the hubbies and hubbies will impart via love network too,

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nomanicole (f), You and Minute (f) will need to join the likes of Morenike & Co, When my bros gets into the WH,

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Morenike (f), U and Danke will be nominated as Special Advisers on Women Affairs,while Kemisuga will be my bodyguard, if Obama my brother wins the the ticket to the White House and Nov. 4 is not far comin sef, l do like your views on this thread and keep it up !!!

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We are just talking of flinging personal stiffs here and there,

What of unwashed dishes,

Dirty Sanitary wares,

Untidy house and general uncleanliness, is that also attributed to tiredness

Check the life style of these people, they are generally careless and untidy.

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At the end of the day, the woman goes through menstral pain, pregnancy and mood swings, Life isunfair,quit being a woman.

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Women aremeant tohelpmates, So why complain. If he's untidy but his clothes clean,thats ok. But if he happens to be filthy, then you have real trouble

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Been untidy and scattered has nothing to do with gender, alot of things(upbringing, enviroment, ) contibute to how tidy or untidy one is. Having said that, some men tend to relax when their married, and relegate anything on hygiene and cleanliness to their wives. But we must not fail to understand that Marriage is a Synergy. Agreed, its expected of the woman to keep the homefront, just like we expect the man to provide for the home. But the same way  its expected of the woman to be supportive and understanding when the husband is cashtrapped or can't meet up wt d demands of d home, so also the man should understand dat he's got a part to play in keeping the home clean, by been tidy himself and not throw things around like a little child.

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I THINK IN MARRIAGE WOMEN SUFFER MORE WHY?

THEY TAKE OF THE KIDS BEFORE GOING TO WORK,COME BACK AND STRAIGHT TO THE KITCHEN,WEEKEND WHILE THE MAN IS SLEEPING ,SHE IS DOING THE HOUSEHOLD CHORES,GOES TO THE MARKET,PREPARE FOOD,INSTEAD OF THE MAN TO ASSIST HE WILL LEAVE HIS SHIRT ON THE PORCH,SOCKS IN THE KITCHEN,JACKET IN THE CAR,WALLET ON THE KITCHEN SINK,MAY GOD GIVE US LONG LIFE,because THE STRESS IS SO MUCH.

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I believe the thread should be changed to Why are most BOYS like babies?

Men are not dirty/tardy, boys are.

Some boys are late bloomers so you think they are Men when they are effectively still kids.

I will speak for myself and all the Men out there.

We may not be exceptional clean/neat freaks, but we certainly are not dirty/lazy.

What kind of Man would throw his socks and shirt all over the place, no way.

All that stuff should have ended right after high school.

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Minute f, You got cease of my heart and l do really like your reasoning and thanks so much , You understand better,

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Minute f, You got cease of my heart and l do really like your reasoning and thanks so much , You understand better,

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kemisuga (f).

Kemi sugarsugar, you can always help us (men ) and God will be blessing our women out there , who know how best they can spoil their sweety sweetie, honey honey and sugarsugar, Actually, your name (Kemi, suga) depicts that you will be taken care of your hubby hubby lol , Well, if you dont have one l will have you as my (UHMMMM, ) cuz my ex- name too was KEMI and she really took care of me so much , lol

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kemisuga (f).

Kemi sugarsugar,  you can  always  help  us (men ) and God will  be  blessing our women out  there , who know  how best  they can spoil their   sweety sweetie,  honey honey and sugarsugar, Actually,  your name (Kemi, suga)  depicts that you will be taken care  of  your  hubby hubby  lol , Well,  if  you  dont have  one  l will have  you as  my (UHMMMM, ) cuz my  ex- name  too was  KEMI and she really  took care of me  so much , lol

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