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Why Are Most Men Unfaithful?

Many a times I wonder why men tend to be unfaithful with women. I know too well, that every girl can offer what the other could offer. So, can a good philosophical thinker give me a rational reason why most men, if not all, are unfaithful?

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They do that for adventure purposes.

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see, what is wrong is wrong. thats mine

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Now y would a single lady allow a married man to get her pregnant in d 1st place?

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Can't compare abortions on this one.Abortions involve taking one's life.

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We all fall into temptations and make mistakes that's y pencils have erasers. Y just once? a bit harsh I'd say considering d fact that u said that we genetically engineered to do so

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Ok now give me a hug and kiss before I go sleep

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As for the women,how about 1 bosom falling off? I mean when she's in the act,one bosom wld just detach and roll away. Wouldnt that be fun? Imagine her chasing after her runaway bosom! It'd be hilarious! Or alternatively,she could gain a mystic 100 pounds that can never be lost,regardless of how many calories she tries to burn by exercise or starvation.

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If I had a man now and I found out that he was 2-timing me, I am saying I would not be surprised. Men of this age have made it very clear that they are supposed to cheat because of all the temptations out there.

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Since most of them are unfaithful, they deserve a general punishment like that.

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This fall to the two ways, cause ladies are not faithful also. Na from the start he don dey happen

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I agree 1000000%. This should be the punishment.

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You know what i've always wanted? That God shld create a new punishment for adultery. I think,if a man is cheating,right in the middle of the act,his penus should shrivel,wither and/or fall off,kinda like when you put salt on an earthworm. I'm sure that would cause a whole new specie of homo faithfullus to evolve.

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*Greed

* some circumstances they find themselves

and like 1million other reasons.

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Men AND WOMEN who cheat, do not feel good about themselves. Instead of building their self-esteem in a way that is healthy, they seek outside relationships with women/men who make them feel good, sexy, empowered and desired.

I dislike when cheaters project their personal shortcomings onto their mates, by accusing their mates of cheating. Gives them away, everytime.

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Today at 12:54:31 AM »

"Most men not all are unfaithful because there are 2million sisters out there 2 b ravished.please pray 4 d men."

so u know that u are amöng those hungry 2milion sister waiting for a man to come and service her Bottom i knw u can't deny it. Or do all the guys here saying they don't get sex hungry? Women are the couse of it.

But am not given then men the right to be unfaithful oh because i hate it.

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Trimming the flowers and weeding. . . . .

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if you care to know just read it with yor heart open and not reading it like a novel.  where did you see the record that cain is of the linage of Adam. Genesis only recorded seth inplace of  Abel. or why didnt God curse thier mouth, that thry use to eat the friut? but God curse them inline with the ofence. serpent since you want to be lying down from now on you will go on your belly. and woman your conseption increase with pain. and i will put enemity between you both.

dont you see that once a woman see a snake even on TV  she react like the snake is right there

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Most men not all are unfaithful cos there are 2million sisters out there 2 b ravished.Pls pray 4 d men.

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I agree with Ogboralph. There is a deeper mystery beyond mere eating of a physical apple.

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you guys are doll so you dont know your bible at all. so you think it was a litral friut? i sorry for you.

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MY BOOK OF BIBLE STORY!

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ok let me say it . Now tell go back to history, it was the wooooman that started it. and she put that poison in the vains of men in th begining the first womwn on earth EVE slept with the serpent and she aet , the fruit or don't you guys understand the proverd? to eat of the friut, in the middle of the garden(body) and when you sleep with a  F . guys use to say i done shop her.

the wooman did it first to serpent, betraying Adam but he has no choice just like christ than to redeeem her. that was why she had two() child cain and abel. one for Adam the other for serpent so the woman started it. and they are still doning it [s

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Spiked Cylinder here,

http://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-191518.1440.html

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Magun the most celebrated romance medicine of our time!!!!

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All these crass generalisations??

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How would security issues make men unfaithfull?. . .Think insecurity makes men domineering and clingy and not cheats. An insecured guy will find it quite hard to "run some more rounds" around other women. . .you know lack of self confidence what leads to insecurity.

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Smurf ti mo mo wasnt having "~"

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@ Topic.

Because most women encourage them.

@ Smurf.

You too have started this identity "palava"

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as if most women are faithful

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A lot of factors, i'd say but majorly indiscipline and selfishness. That bulls, t about the woman getting fat is just an excuse. What can a woman do when she becomes pregnant (no control over the hormones and tendency to eat more). Show me a man that is married and is still as ''shaped up'' as he was before he got married. A lot of men tend to develop 'belly' after marriage but d woman won't use that as excuse to go randy.

Contentment is the key to faithfulness in any relationship.

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Well this is a serious issue. normally, i would say this act of unfaithfullness has actually gone too rampant among our men. They believe a man must not be tired to one woman. A tipical Nigeria men believes he is superiour to the women flock. And this can no doupt be the cause of their unfaithfullness.

  Even as we delibrate on this issue, another pressing issue is now the sudden change in trend. This day, one cannot actually tell who is unfaithfull, "the men" or "the women".

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I think is because of that Pic above

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the reason why most men are unfaithful is cuz they are insecure and when their woman makes them feel less manly they go out to assure themselves they are still men 9if u no what i mean)

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why haven't we considered our customs and tradition

men are polygamous to show of their wealth.2ndly,women easily fall for successful guys.

  dont you think so?

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It is true men are more inclined to cheat  (at least the traditional man), most times because of something the woman does.

But women love to point fingers; ooooh it's fun to poke men. They know it. Any chance they get. Have you ever been one guy in the midst of 7 girls? that's exactly when they'll want to tell you about all the sins men've committed. . It's just glorified and blown out of proportion, that "men are f*ck-em and leave em". Right now, some girl reading this is laughing her eyeballs out . . . .

Women are more sensitive and alot more prone to be emotional, sometimes even in-your-face in threads like this as if there is some prize to be won. To them it's fun. And even when every guy in here (for peace sake) decides: "ok y'all women win. . . we're evil" I doubt they'll still rest. They do it to keep shiit appealing.

So for any guy that intends to waste his time arguing with ladies here: good thinking. But you'll never win. Probably win the JACKASS AWARD

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That is one question we are going to have to ask God on Judgement day.

But i think this started from the begining. Eve gave Adam Apple to eat. Adam obviously trusted her enough, but after he ate it, he realised she gave him a bad apple. Well, adam probably decided to take everything Eve does as "not good", so Adam decided to start being unfaithful or summin summin.

Not all men are Unfaithful, but majority of em are. Just like not all girls are evil, but majority of us are.

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Soreal, u seems to be encountering some recent experiences here oooo!

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@ Gridlock , its all just excuses for not being strong enough to adhere to  a sacred vow.

we men can lose our looks too, how many still thinks its ok for them to be fat and slow while wifey must remain in youthful vigor. even though it is she bringing babies into this world.

if a woman puts on weight or lets her appearance slide could it be because her husband is not being supportive enough? and is alway leaving her alone,

tell me if a woman told you she was thinking of cheating on her husband because he is fat and does not bother with his appearance would you say it was OK for her to cheat, until men and woman start acting as a team and not as though they were in a war things will never be resloved.

woman and men are as unfaithful as each other to believe anything is pure naivety or a lack of basic mathematics- in other words who are all these men being unfaithful with? answer someone else wife or girl. this must be true for if it is as you seem to think then every single girl in the country must be on their back morning , noon and night to keep up with demand.

most people are in relationships of some sort through out their adult life , all this seems like a case of,

, see no evil , hear no evil , speak no evil.

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THESE ON Unfaithful WOMEN TOO

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Jebs you saying it would have been better if there had never been a woman created? there was peace before god created eve? i think you will find there was loneliness too and that is why God made eve.that is IF you believe the literal translation of the bible which i , even as a Christian do not, then what about

Genies 1:27 "So God created man in his own image, in the image of god he created him; male and female he created them". this is before Adam before Eve but no one ever speaks of it. i think this means that God created Adam and Eve at the same time, and it has been misrepresented to futher the causes of subjugation and justification

i know i have just done it but can no one on this forum have an argument without referring to which ever part of the bible they decide to mis -quote or mis-represent.

if this were the religion section we cloud have a full discudion on the matter , but it is not

and to quote you "before a guy decides to be unfaithful there must me a reason" that statement means nothing, nothing at all as we are all individuals that means this 'reason' could be anything from the spouse not satisfying you in bed to their in ability to cook or earn good money.

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before anyone takes the easy chance of some free Bottom they justify it through their own weakness and inability to make a marriage work or because they are Hot and the Bottom is easy. there is no more to it.

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@Jeb

Hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm!!!!!

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@ Alj

Thanks 4 the candid talk, that was Bulls-eye!

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04real i meant that men and woman are as unfaithful by nature as one another but that some men make up excuses , oh i could not help it , it is in my nature as a man , i think that is bulls**t .

whitelexi - "men cheat when woman fail in their responsibilities! well then surely woman can say the same?

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Well it's those dat can not resist minor temptation of dat nature dat does cheat.

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well they are brother!

Cos you are alreaDy inlove with someone and later found out stupidly that it was a mistake.

you know fit reason?

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Why are they asses, sister?

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@Rhod

Am really really perturbed about this my maid's issue. Even my female co-workers are giving guys Heads @ work especially the married ones in our loo. I wonder what they hang on to in there. So is it guys that are unfaithful. No bi the lady agree?

@Alj

pls can u rephrase, i dont understand?

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@Rhod

Oh I c , so it is un-natural 4 ladies to cheat abi? How come they do their laundry in the meanest way when if they do? My maid is screwing all the 4bidden fruits she can find in my area. Am really having a hell of a time with her. So explain me y?

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@Rhodalyn

Am sure u just wanted to blurt something out, how on earth can nature affect promiscuity? Pls explain me y.

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