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Why Are Niaja Guys Getting Married To Girls From Sierra Leone?

Clicking glasses, a toast, much merriment, dancing and screaming and much enjoyment. ladies and gentlemen, Once again, another Niaja guy has found what lovely gems Sierra Leonean girls are made of. This is The tenth Wedding ceremony i would be attending involving a Niaja guy and a Sierra Leone girl.

I have been discussing with my friends and they all seem to have witnessed the same thing in the recent past and they never seem to stop singing the praise of these girls

Why are more Niaja guys getting married to sierra leone girls? abi dem do do charm for us? This is a serious issue. has someone got similar experience or am i making a mountain out of a mole hill?

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See this guy. Haven'y you seen how beautiful they are? Unlike Ghanaians. All of them in Ghana look like female Wrestlers. Uglyyy!

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nite love, ka chi fuo! thats ma mama's igbo, hope that made sense

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Ok blue my sister you have fun on your date and remember what I told you pls. This white dude in my Apartment complex is having a little party tonight, so I'm going out there now just for the free beer of cause.

You have a good night my dear talk to you much later. You be good

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sorry blue had to do answer the phone, just let him know it's just a date and nothing can ever come out if it. You know how those AWUSA people are.

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No shitt, hope you have big plans for the weekend dear

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let them think watever, hey its the season to be jolly

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Blue come on my dear lets take our romace somewhere else

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this is romance isnt it,

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I love my toes sucked on, best feeling in the world

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oh lawd, not another guy with a foot fetish

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It's always your fault uche because my older brother's name is Uche and his the biggest womanizer ever.

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uche, i was refering to his toes, u sef, u got a dirrrry mind

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i ll bite ur mouth off then i ll go down and finish the work

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its never ur fault, see ur mouth

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I'm very close to a Sierra Leonean family in the UK. They are generally nice (at least, the ones i met), both their guys and gals. The girls can be very beautiful and richly endowed. I would have gone for one but she is still in college, i can't wait that long though she is stunningly beautiful

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all this garbage talk, that "Nigerian men are attracted to little girls from serria leone", why don't we hear from a nigerian man that has been with one, instead of some women here running their mouth, as if they have scr-wed a SL woman before.

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it is their business and if they like they can even marry kenya girls that is their problem!

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God knows I'm not suffering from amnesia of any kind, like i said before i was having a conversation with a Nigerian man who told me why he cant date a Nigerian, so that his own opinion I'm a Nigerian too, but i cant see myself dating one of them for reasons best known to me. so wether Nigerians and sierra leoneans are dating now adays I'm happy for them coz they know what brought them together in the first place, each and everyone are entitled to there opinion. so i don't know why this is turning out to be a big issue.

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This is problem that exists in every culture that I know( with the expection maybe of middle eastern people). It is a known fact that both men and women shy away for various reasons from their own. You would be surprized to know that if you are to interview a citizen from let's say, Grenada, 3 out of 5 would tell you they aren't dating anyone from their island. So too would someone from St. Lucia, St.Vincent & the Grenadines, Trinidad & Tobago, Barbados, Antigua etc etc. And sad to say the number one reason many put forward had to do with the whole issue of respect. Some feel that men from their respective islands tend not show them any respect but would in return treat another female of different nationality much better. So I said all that just to show that Nigerians are not the only ones who face this senseless dilemma.

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I like how you people are talking like I'm annoyed for no reason

Care to explain what these statements were implying

care to explain?

Why can't it just be that they marry them because they fell in love, why are people making up dumb excuses for such relationships at the expense of Nigerian fe,males?

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TOH, aint nobody is talking garbage, n im not trying to put nigerian girls down im just talking upon what i heard nigerian guys be talking, i dont have grudge against anyone, so please we dont have to go back and forth about this issue everyone has there own opinion.

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TOH, please do read the beginning of this thread again. I will reproduce it for Ur consumption

[center]"Clicking glasses, a toast, much merriment, dancing and screaming and much enjoyment. ladies and gentlemen, Once again, another Niaja guy has found what lovely gems Sierra Leonean girls are made of. This is The tenth Wedding ceremony i would be attending involving a Niaja guy and a Sierra Leone girl.

I have been discussing with my friends and they all seem to have witnessed the same thing in the recent past and they never seem to stop singing the praise of these girls

Why are more Niaja guys getting married to sierra leone girls? abi them do do charm for us? This is a serious issue. has someone got similar experience or am i making a mountain out of a mole hill?"

In no way did this message imply that niaja girls are any inferior to their sierra leonean sisters.

This was just an observation by the poster and he wanted to satisfy his curiousity as to this trend and/or if anyone has had similar experience(s) and he is not implying that Niaja girls are bad or negative.

Trust me, there are many Niaja women out there that are hardworking, independent and can make themselves and any brother proud. most Niaja women are the jewel and embodiment of the black race and to imply that they are all negative, bad or "unwifely" is totally misleading and not the intention of the authour.

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marliatu. I'm all for relationships/marriages between ANYONE. be it different races, religion, tribe, country what the hell ever.

What I'm NOT for is people trying to say that the reason why these guys are looking outside their tribe/country is because Nigerian girls are this and that like you're TRYING to make us feel bad or something. Frankly I don't give a poo as I doubt I'll marry a Nigerian myself. By all means, marry whomever, just don't make up garbage as a reason for doing so.

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i still don't see the sense in the topic. everybody is assuming all sorts.

@T.o.H tell them girl , not all are pathetic wives lol, geez where do they come off ?

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At least not all of them are pathetic, but majority carries the vote; so let not pass judgement on other peoples culture, if nigerian men want to date a sierra leonean i see no problem in that we are all africans arent we?

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by all means marry a sierra leone guy and not all Nigerian women are pathetic housewives. Get it straight.

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thank u very much sin, coz i was sensing jealousy and ignorance from some people, u never know what Ur tommorrow might be so don't go around and laughing about other people, i know sierra leoneans and they are nice people and i supposed thats why some Nigerians are attracted to them, at least they don't challenge their husband and demanding for money every few minutes.

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[b][color=#990000]Pain u don't talk about people who are trying to rebuild their lives in that light. Those the gods have broken their palm kennel for them should not forget to be grateful. How much do u know these people?, do u know any personally, or u rely on negative media for ur information?. Nigeria as a country would have had greater problem if not for God. These people are rebuilding their lives again and most of them do not have post traumatic stress, as u call it. If u want to woo a woman, go straight and do it. don't use the misfortune of others as a catalyst.

Show some respect for the misfortune of others. for fate and fortune happens to us all. u never can tell when it will come knocking on ur door.

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I Dont Want A Wifey Frm A War Torn Zone. Dont Want Someone With Post Traumatic Stress. I Need Someone With Eyez Like Urs.

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translation: they r looking for a dummy as a wife

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who cares? Let 'em run as far as their feet can take them.

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i was talking to this Nigerian guy yesterday, and i asked him this question about Nigerian men dating sierra leonean and he said the reason why many Nigerian men are running away from Nigerian women is because the women know too much about them and they lack respect for their partners. so what y'all think about that?

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sounds like 85% of the Nigerians in NY.

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Most of those i already know in london are either building houses at home or have built 2 or more, they are very hard-working. My flatmate is dating one of them and she does 3 jobs! she has built 3 houses in sierra leone and rented 2 out already, the third is at the final stage; she leaves home before i wake up and returns at about 1am!

Thats the strength they have and i respect that.

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so Mike ezurounye is dating a sierra leonean? well good luck to him, i guess sierra leonean girls are not bad after all

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@zulunation some tribes speak yoruba in sierra leone

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@zulunation,

sierra leone was one of the two countries designated for the return of freed slaves. since a lot of slaves came from naija, some would remember that they were yoruba and keep naming their kids that.

a lot of slaves did remember where they came from and returned to that place e.g saros and agudas, some did and didnt come back and some did not remember

also his family may have migrated from naija a while back

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because they found each other attractive, and come to think about it i heard star actor michaeal ezurounye is dating a girl from sierra leone, i dont know how true it is though, but all the same sierra leone is not that far from nigeria,

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Thief, Mumgu or mungu. the implication os the statement is apparent.

Keep on fighting ans shooting. George Bush!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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I called you mugun. Not mumgu. I suggest you go and fight whoever called you "mumgu"

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have met alot of sierra leonean girls and they are also into our naija brothers, abi we are all the same now, and especially the igbo mens are the ones that are attracted to them, i have two of my sierra leonean girlfriends that are currently dating naija man.

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euphoria, a mumgu is a niaja slang for fool

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Thiefofheart, it is the umpteenth time u will be calling me a mumgu. I refuse to bandy words with u. This forum is all about discusing contemporary issues about what bothers us as naija and not a slagging contest. The problem with project Nigeria is whenever we try talking about issues that affect us all, some take it as an opportunity to slag off others and make a joke out of the whole thing.

I am not a mumgu. I take exception to that. I am a professional young man who is exceling in my chosen career, Have represented my organisation internationally and have done alot to improve reproductive health of young people in developing communities and helping them adress issues that affect ther reproductive health.

Give answers to questions asked or discussion brought and stop calling me a mumgu, heaven knows am far from one. you are suppose to be a lady, and because i have been brought up to respect ladies, i will not bandy words with you but to tell you to give constructive and relevant response to any question posted here. Many thanks

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@ Busta

May be you should try me  cos you really look rich and have nice straight legs.

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people marry people they love or fancy. the fact that these guys have married sierra Leoine ladies does not mean all Nigerian guys are actually marrying them.it just depends on who you meet,connect with and decide to spend a lifetime with.

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abu ya yi

ya aiki ne?

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I'm just teasing Jboy. Bismilla my brother

BTW ya karatu?

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yah right if you say so

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Hey Jboy I thought you had a GF and here you are talking about liking all women

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