A guy is embarrassing my girl friend, and I'm getting mad. This is not to say that I am feeling unsecured, for there is no reason for me to feel that way. However, I am getting mad because of the approach of the guy. I do not expect his kind of insanity in this generation. This is the story,
My gf had always been telling me that a particular guy had been disturbing her each time they met somewhere. But I was never bothered by her stories anyway because I see it as a normal thing for guys to patronize her because she is pretty. According to her, the guy had always been asking for her number which she told me she never gave. Unknown to my gf, the guy works at WEMA bank.
One day, my gf went to the closest WEMA Bank branch to pay some money into someone else's' account. After paying, she had to register her transaction into a book provided by the bank. Of course, she had to write her name and phone number as the depositor. She said she was so surprised when the guy who had been patronizing her suddenly appeared from one counter, and took that same register. That was how the guy got to know her real name and phone number.
That same evening, she started receiving some "flashing" on her phone. She had been flashed more about 21 times from a strange phone number. None of us could imagine who the flasher could be, so she ignored. At a point, the flashing started distracting me, and I asked her to contact the nasty flasher immediately. She picked up her phone, and typed "who are you please?" . Funny enough, the guy replied to the text using another phone number, and introduced himself as a staff of that bank. He also gave his name, and my gf knew instantly it was that same guy patronizing her. From the looks on my gf's face, I could see how infuriated she was. I asked what's wrong baby? and she couldn't tell me. She knew I would make jest of her, about the kinds of guys asking her out. So, she remained quiet. Still I didn't pressurize her to tell me what it was all about. So, I left her.
I saw my gf typing on her phone with a cold face. I guess she was trying to reply to that guy. She replied by typing this to the guy "and so what? Is that why you have been flashing me? Even if you cant afford to call, is am SMS to much to express your foolishness?" My gf droped her phone after sending that message. I picked up her phone (very unusual of me) and read what she sent to the flasher. Before I could drop the phone, another message came in. Guess what the message is, "CALL ME I LOVE YOU". I guess the guy capitalized on this "Even if you cant afford to call, is am SMS to much to express your foolishness?" So, he started sending that free text message. I laughed so much when I saw that message. I gave it to my gf, and her anger grew up again. She started crying because I never stopped laughing. She wanted to pick up her phone, probably to curse the guy, but I didn't give it to her. I kept laughing, and my laughter was really killing my gf, but I apologized latter sha.
The whole story was very funny to me the first day. But now, it isn't funny anymore. The reason is that its been like a week now since the guys has been sending her "CALL ME I LOVE YOU". I heard that you can only send that kind of text five times a day. The guy virtually used all his "CALL ME I LOVE U" code for her alone. She has over 35 of such messages on her phone now.
Why I am worried is this;
Why will a guy descend so low?
Is he normal at all?
Are some bankers so poor now, that they can't even call ladies with their phones? Or are they too full of themselves to expect ladies to call them with their phones even when such ladies know the bankers want to ask them out. Let me put it this way, to the ladies. As a girl, can you call a guy (even if he is the MD of NNPC) with your own phone, and allow him to start toasting you with your own credit? Even if you are willing to listen, who should initiate the call? And to guys, is it proper to send CALL ME I LOVE YOU to a girl, even if she is your gf? For me, I don't even know the MTN codes for all those free nonsense!
The thoughts of all these are disgusting. I feel so annoyed that I feel like kicking his balls for disgracing men.