I have noticed our people (male and female) always expect something from you. They believe it is quite normal for you to owe it to them, to give them something (definitely not the other way round!). As if it is their right to expect from you a la - "wetin u bring back for me now!"
With our women, it takes a whole different dimension; After a few exchanges, either they are already asking for recharge, or even money, or the usual - "wetin u bring for me, or wetin we go take do weekend!" bla bla bla.
Our girl finds it perfectly normal to flash u, and expect u MUST ring her back but, never does it occur to HER, that if she places any value to relating with you, she must somehow find that N50 to call and at least speak for a minute?
Now, whenever you try turn the tables, and ask first, they think u are a pest! Where did this selfishness originate?
Ladies n gentlemen, please, over to you, why, when, how, wetin be this, e dey right?