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Why Are Some Naija Women Always Begging (credit, Money, Material Things Etc) ?

I have noticed our people (male and female) always expect something from you. They believe it is quite normal for you to owe it to them, to give them something (definitely not the other way round!). As if it is their right to expect from you a la - "wetin u bring back for me now!"

With our women, it takes a whole different dimension; After a few exchanges, either they are already asking for recharge, or even money, or the usual - "wetin u bring for me, or wetin we go take do weekend!"  bla bla bla.

Our girl finds it perfectly normal to flash u, and expect u MUST ring her back but, never does it occur to HER, that if she places any value to relating with you, she must somehow find that N50 to call and at least speak for a minute?

Now, whenever you try turn the tables, and ask first, they think u are a pest! Where did this selfishness originate?

Ladies n gentlemen, please, over to you, why, when, how, wetin be this, e dey right?

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Praise be to Ayeety!!!!

SHe shall answer for thee

And now after 14 moons, you can finally afford shoes,

Pray, tell me, what part of your exotic kraal will these items that are your life's treasures be hidden?

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Awww, I am flattered! You monitoring my chatting experiences!

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Oh you thought it applied to you? IF IT A DUCK, LET IT QUACK!

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I find the replies kinda strange

Dude expressed his point of view. I understand him.

The average girl in Nigeria has the view you should call or pay for an outing or something ridiculous.

It's up to you to argue about how variable this arguement is.

But I think it comes down to the kind of people you get close to - or stay with. If a guy is a friend to someone and she starts to ask him for money

or financial favours, then she is a pest, when it happens most of the time - or when she feels offended that he doesn't comply.

It's simple.

I think guys throw away something when they don't have the nerves to walk away.

If a girl is a leech, walk.

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Poster,

I have several solutions that may help you find BETTER CALIBER OF women.

1. STOP PICKING WITH YOUR Joystick

2. PAY ATTENTION TO THE THINGS SHE SAY and believe she is telling you what she wants and is about.

3.Do not DRINK ANY MIND ALTERING BEVERAGES, stick to JUICE!

4.BEND YOUR KNEES AND BRING TOGETHER YOUR HANDS, PRAY!

5. If 1-4 don't work, YOU FUGGED!

Handle that!

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I might as well change the thread subject. Geez, all dis kids with access to internet

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I wish they would emblazon that word on the front page of NL. SOME

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Have you ever come across the word some in your life b4?

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First, dont generalize.  Second, depends on your social, financial, and intellectual status and d kinda gurls u associate wif.   And third,   get a life.

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I will let AYEETY do it, SHE DOES A GOOD JOB!

In the mean time, go be a good boy and grab me my shoes!

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