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Why Are There Trust Issues In Relationships?

Girls accuse guys of not being faithful,guys accuse girls of thesame,and so each goes into relationships suspecting their spouses to be unfaithful hence they become unfaithful too.I've had alot of relationships where the girls never believed i was faithful and it really pissed me off.Question is,if girls don't trust guys and guys don't trust gurls,what then is the essence of being in a relationship?Is it that people do not trust themselves that's why they can't trust others or they are so mistaken the fact that people cheat so their spouses must do thesame

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THESE DAYS.TRUST IS RUSTY NOT ONLY IN ISSUES OF RELATIONSHIP BUT IN ALL RHELMS OF LIFE.MANY OF US DO STUFFS WITH BABES WHO CLAIM THEY VE A BOYFRIEND THEY WANNA MARRY SO THAT WAY IT MAKES THE GUY DOUBT THE STRAIGHTFOWARDNESS OF HIS OWN BABBE AND VIVE.VERSA.EVEN MARRIED MEN AND WOMEN VE BEEN CAUGHT ON THE WRONG SIDE OF THINGS MUCHLESS OF THE BF-GF THING.

IN ALL IT ALL BOILS DOWN TO THE GENERAL DECADENCE IN THE WORLD NOW;MEN CANT VE ENOUGH SO THEY WANNA EXPLORE MORE,WOMEN WANNA LET THE MEN KNOW WJAT IS GOOD FOR THE GOOSE,

I GUESS THE ONLY PALLIATIVE(AM AFRAID THERE IS NO SOLUTION!COS IT IS GETTIN WORSE!) IS FOR EACH INDIVIDUAL TO JUST DO WHAT THEY THINK IS GOD IN THEIR MIND AND LET THEIR SOUL BE THEIR FORM OF CHECK AND BALANCES

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@iice,

gurl,dat's deep,i like that.it really makes a whole lot of sense!

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@iice,

U r gettin' it all wring.When i say trust,i mean trust when it comes to people doin' stuff.For instance,if u've neva caught ur boyfriend in a lie,do u trust him neva to lie,if u've not caught ur boyfriend in cheatin',will u trust him neva to cheat?Get my point?

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Trusting someone completely is like saying they can do no wrong.

Do you trust her not never make you mad, sad or irritated?

Do you trust people no never disappoint you or that they may never surprise you?

You are taking trust to literally.

When you are open with your partner, he/she is free to say what is in their mind without fear of you going off on them, or having some extreme reaction to what he/she says.

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@Oxone,

Man,i feel make a man trustworthy,u have to trust him.

@iice,

Don't u think not trusting ur boyfriend completely could tempt u to believing somethings said 'bout them?

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cos nobody wants to give the other the benefit of doubt

the only way to make a man trustworthy is to trust him

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@IICE,

So u're sayin' u trust ur boyfriend completely n he returns d trust?

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Nobody on the face of the earth can be trusted,be it guys,girls or animals.

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@iice,

Gurl,u said it like u're different n i do hope u r.But really,do u have trust issues in ur relationship?

@Kingsleyinfo,

If d heart of man is wicked,wickedness ain't d cure!

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My brother the heart of man is very wicked. Trust don't fall from the sky it is something you build over time. In relationships today everyone is guilty until proven innocent. If you want to be trusted you've got to earn it. And vice versa.

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You havnt caught me in the act. you are free to suspect me, but make sure you dont accuse me.

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you already knows the answer, cos i can see the answer on ur post.

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