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Lately, my girlfriend and I had been having good times together and I've been enjoying every bit of my time with her. It happens that I am the president of an association in my school and she is the social director. She has never attended any association meeting before. I talk to her about it but she says how can she attend meeting when her "husband" is the president. during one of our meetings, the executives decided to set up a disciplinary committee to look into her matter. A week before the committee was to sit, we had a meeting which I strongly persuaded her to attend and she did. lets say the meeting was to start by 12 noon but due to some reasons, we started around 2 pm. she called me aside and said she wanted to start going home which  I didnt agree to. I told her to throw it to the house if they accept it. unfortunately for, all but one refused to grant her permission. So I asked her to sit down but instead she bent her head as if she wanted to sleep. I then asked her to leave if she wasnt going to be part of the meeting. she said "ee de wo mi" which means "why not drag me". I got very upset but could not do anything to her. I ordered the meeting to continue as if she was absent. Towards the end of the meeting, she said she wanted to make suggestion concerning a topic being deliberated upon but I silenced her saying she wasnt part of the meeting. She was talking but no one paid attention to her so she rose up and left.

After the meeting, I called her up to know where she was but to my surprise, she said why was I calling her and that what concerns me with her whereabout. I said doesnt she know who is speaking with and she said she knows and even said she doesnt care if it was "my surname". I was so dumbfounded, I had to cut the line off.That same evening, she called me to request her documents that were in my care. I think she doesnt wanna have anything with me again. I think I've been the best I could and I am objective when it comes to passing judgement. I dont have to be biased just because she's my gf. As for me, I might just start forgetting bout her but I still wonder why girls are like, I might as well tell her am no more interested in the whole thing before she does that. what do u guys think?

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seun must have forgotten to put 18 and above

this forum is strictly for adults and matured mindsh

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@whitelexii

are u kidding me, u are actualy advising him to break up with the girl. nna that isnt right now

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Ths is teenage dating, so childishly.

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i assume u are in secondary school, its ok, but guess what, they get alot worse. O boy its downhill from here

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@Poster: Every girl has a unique character - no matter how closely related, however, they can be grouped when they're very closely related, but u should not blatantly group them all as one.

A girl who cannot respect her man even in a public gathering like the meeting. She humiliated you and made you look lame. Members of that meeting would probably go home that day laughing their butts off at you, thinking you cannot even handle your own girlfriend. Honestly, you need to reconsider your options, if u think u can live with it, then fairplay to u, if u feel enough is enough, then pull out now before it gets worse.

Note: Even madness comes is phases!

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Throw the girl away.She is not worth your time and attention.Why can't girls just behave?

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Don't tell me u meant the last line of ur post.

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@op

u did the rite tin

just give her space

ask her 2 com 4 her documents

she is doin all these cos of another guy outside

trust me she wud com bak after dealin wit that guy

thats how they are all like

I hate girls who do not have manners

most of dem simply are goin 2 have troubles wit their Husbands cos

of the lack of mannerism in them,@tymes i wonder if their parents eva thought them abt

manners,im even facin the same problem wit my GF of recent,this same manners stuff!

[b]a woman can never be bigger than a man no matter wot even if she has $50millie and the man has N200[/b]0

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You handled the situation correctly, IMO

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ur gilfriend is not a standard for girls

her act was childish and ur absolutely right for doing what u did

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And if she doesn't just say your deuces and let her go.

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That's right leave her alone. When she calms down she will come back.

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You took the right decision and handled the situation well. Ignore her for while and see what she is up to.

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@ poster

u did the right thing, she had no right to demand preferntial treatment and you handled her accordingly. Give her some space and then, catch up with her. If u guyz finally agree to carry on, you guys shuld address the issue. She either respect ur position and that of others and behave well or one of u's got to quit(i.e if u decide the r/ship is more important) but i think the former is a better conclusion.

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Truth is that she never loved you from day one.

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I don't have any. Before you jump to conclusions, I'm setting the foundation so I can take care of my wife and kids lordwilling.

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silent? Interesting. . .Good so I bet your gf/fiancee/wife must be a zombie?

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The 3 S's of being a woman

1. Simple

2. Silent

3. Submissive

All women should be like this. ALL!!!

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What de f**k. Its ur girlfriend not girls

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all i can say 4rm readin ds is dat she waz plain childish!

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