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Why Are Women Like This?

Why is it that women keep shouting they need a good man, but when God brings one their way, a man who truly loves and cherish them, one who does everything to make them happy, they break his heart and go after those who show no love feelings towards them. My younger brother's girlfriend just dumped him for a guy who treats her like dirt. The poor guy is still sulking. He even lost his job cos of his depressed state. What's wrong with women?

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Guys, its d way of d world, and perfectly normal too. Men want fineness, women and in fact all of us want security. Youngin girls may compromise but with age comes experience/fear and the sistas dont want to take a chance if they can help it. Dont hate on dem

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Women are not worth trusting. 4q them all except my sisters.

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u need them girls, get money. they need security. u didnt have it then! simple

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Some ill-bred ladies think that most unsuccessful guys are no good,or not for keeps,but they fail to realize that rome was not built in a day(a poor mans language). Infact it is no longer news

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She didn't fall for u,because to her u are just one poo around d corner(not poo as in piece of trash,but a smelling poo),n that same poo has metamorphosed into a platinum,n now she wants to get hold of it,knowin fully well that she'll shine tru u.

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@omodada,

Are you a personality expert?

most of the women out there doesn't know what kind of personality they want?you know,beautiful but those peeps out there,you will be disappointed if you carry out a research,personality for them it about goodlooks,driving a porsche e.t.c,actually know one that just wants her husband to be to be a bloke,nothing matters than that to her.you see what i mean?

being curious,i want to know about my personality?do you mind if you can be my judge?just being curious

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Looks are great, but dont underestimate personality and style of communication.

Well maybe she's seeing someone else or she just gets too many calls and its just too confusing to deal with too many guys.

Forget about looks, personality counts too.

Here's a sales trick I like using for business.

Ask the customer what they want, they tell you, and then point out how all the things they are looking for are fulfilled in my product, you expect some objections and then you overcome them.

I dont know where you live, but maybe she'd have a quick coffee with you for 10mins next time you see her and you can find out what she and her girlfriends like doing and then you can be the solution.

Or even call her and tell her you have something exciting for her or to tell her, anything to make her call back.

And finally, practice and test your pick up line with some other ladies too. lol

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@Omodada

I'm not bad looking at all. I'm a 21st century guy n I knw wht's up. The issue couldnt have been in the looks. She gave me her mobile, I call her, I txt her, yet all my gestures are not reciprocated. Then I decided to chill after a long time, So I dont knw!!Thnx all the same for ur contribution.

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Case of having the cake and eating it too. Who no like betta?!?

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Perhaps you could provide us with specific details of how you do approach her. You must connect or its dead. I am a straight shooter and hope you can take this on the chin, I say it with compassion.

1) Maybe your personality isnt as charming as you think it is. Some women can sense shallow. If you are accustomed to cash sometimes you dont take time to develop a good personality.

2) When I was younger it was all about relating, as the reality of life sets in, you realise that as a female, that when you settle down you may not be able to work in the interests of you pregnancy or family needs and you therefore need to love your future children by making sure you dont hook up with a loser even if you are in love with him.

3) Also from experience, I once dated a guy who was not there yet, (I was) and I helped him supercharge his career, get the connections and land the role in a million. I showed him how to get into property investment etc, Guess what? He had to get used to the new found money, influence etc, He was a completely different guy once he had it all. Not a pleasant experience. I already knew how to handle money and power, he did not. And it was just ugly ugly ugly. So I didnt want to date for a very long time, but had a bunch of interests, volunteering etc, a lot of fun. Arranging fun events you know. You think you know someone? Give them cash and see the change. LOL.

4) Finally in my old age, I have learnt the hard way to only date guys who have reached their "Cash" destination. Focus is on their destination, whether its $20K pa or $250Kpa, its what they they want to get to.

I wish you well and a wonderful 2007

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ifeleke is 100% correct, its not abt treating them mean

its more abt having a back bone and being a man abt yours

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@Poster

No woman will treat you like crap if you are Man Enough.

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Thankfully, I've never(and will never) experienced such, but I've seen a disturbing number of such cases. Nonetheless, I think it will be unfair to generalize.

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One man's tragedy is another man's opportunity.

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@poster: expect anything in a r/s, no girl can brk my heart(do i av one?), in science opp attract i.e bad guys get d good girls n vice versa, always use ur head in every r/s, being too good is sometimes dangerous, just do wat u'll normally do not all she wants u too do,

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This day girls don’t like too much caring guys.

Girls hate guys for this.

Guys who always ask them where they go

Guys who queries seeing them with other guys

Guys that beg even if she Is wrong

Guys that always provide for her even if they don’t ask

Guys who alwasy feel she is the offar and omaga of he life

Guys that doesn’t cheat and prefer to stay with her only

Guys that is too decent, kind, honest, just name it.

I have see 90% girls who prefer this

Guys that bet hell at of them when they are wrong, after fight hard bleeping

Guys who always demand for sex and strong in sex.

Guys who don’t petty them when bleeping her no matter how cried she is. Just Keep pounding her

Guys who treating to end the relationship anytime she is wrong.

Guys that cheat on them, so they will want to improved to competite with other girls

Guys who’s don’t ask them where they go or  don’t care even if they see her with a guy

Guys who don’t provide much of their demand, instead collecting from them

Guys who always complain that he don’t have much of their demand.

I am sure this days girls are turning into deferent level.

This may help u guys

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yes hurriedly shakes head in agreement

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@ poster na true you talk

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thats 100% true for me cos I experienced such a heart break about a year ago. I did everything right for the girl. I absolutely kept myself for the girl alone. I never cheated on her even if i had a chance to do it without being caught. The girl solemnly promised to remain with me and urged me to do the same. To my greatest suprise one day, she confessed starting another relationship in secret after my intense inquiry cos i discovered her attention for me has prunned down. I was more than shocked when this happened cos I gave in my best to make her happy and win her trust. after this happened I began considering to adopt the careless, lying and cheating approach cos since I have been good and it yielded no result. whats the essence of being good anyway?

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treat 'em mean to keep 'em keen - that's human nature sadly

takes a mature and welld eveloped mind to realise the grass is nto greener on the other side and a bird in ahrd is worth the dream of chasing 2 in the bush

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women are funny animals

you never know where you are with them

they dont often know where they are with themselves

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