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Why Are Women So Complicated?

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well a wise man always knows /understood his girl easily cos we are by nature their mentors, guardian so u should beable to read ur woman 's mood/ feeling and wisely ask questions when necesary as this makes u a perfect man for her ok? god bless

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Woman: Notices odd mood, asks 'whats wrong babe?'

Man: Just a crappy day at work.

END OF DISCUSSION, NIGHT CONTINUES---------- COMMUNICATION! No one reads minds~

THANK U VERY MUCH.MAY GOD BLESS UR THINKING

WHAT MORE CAN I ADD

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@poster because men are too confusing

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Don't keep trying to figure out what a girl is thinking. You will become overanalytical, and that's only going to lead you to start sporting grey hair by the time you turn 25.

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lol. i wouldn't say women are more complicated. men are just as complicated in their thoughts just that they are brought up to hide their true emotions and feelings and not share it with others.

I mean i'd rather read her story than his story. lol

his doesn't even make a story. doesn't even count as one sentence.

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complicated? poster remember ur mama is a woman

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Why would I waste my time? If you don't see it, poor you.

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Lol this is not news my friend. It is a known fact. Just try to nod at whatever they have to say. I assure you it will make your life much easier.

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thats hw they were designed

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@OP because they suck

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C'mon, you know its not that simple. A man is not a mind reader, neither is a woman.

The problem is, even when you ask a woman whats wrong, she will say "nothing, if u dont know it already, then there no point in telling u". WTF!! What can a man do?

Yes, you shd be sensitive and observant to you partners feelings, but communication is about being clear, precise and direct about what u are trying to say - Not sending out signs, signals and codes, that could be ignored or misinterpreted.

On the tie issue, i would definitely specify what & where i want it from, as its one of those things that is so easy to get wrong.

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women are too simple that we curiously misuderstand them to be too compliated.

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The woman in question is compensating for her boyfriends lack of communication by over-thinking things through.

We're all adults, and guys don't pretend you don't understand how your moods and behaviour can be perceived.

I know if I'm behaving differently to how I normally behave, someone could take it as me being offended with them, even if I had just had a crappy day at work.

If I sense that the person I'm with is a little cautious because of my mood, I would start a conversation, which would reveal that I'm not in the best of moods. I guess sometimes people don't want to say a thing, but that lack of talking will lead the other person to make their own conclusions.

Would you really want a girlfriend who needs you to say things before she picks it up.

e.g. would you want her never to buy you a thing unless you explicity say; "I want that tie from. ."

Wouldn't you be amazed if through knowing you in depth she bought the tie and surprised you with it?

I think the woman should have just asked the guy as soon as she detected something, but the guy probably would have just said bluntly; "I had a crap day at work." which might have not been enough for the analytical woman in question.

Lastly:

"I got a shag though"

If my husband ever said that or thought that . . man that wouldn't be a positive thing at all. .

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LMAO!

The op is simply saying we are complicated.  In the story, she's going through many things in her mind and emotionally as a reaction to the guy's mood (with jara from herself).

I think some people are complicated (men and women) but i do agree we take the cake.

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Can u show me where in the post, or in the pic is there anything that is rude insulting, or derogatory to women?

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Woman: Notices odd mood, asks 'whats wrong babe?'

Man: Just a crappy day at work.

END OF DISCUSSION, NIGHT CONTINUES---------- COMMUNICATION! No one reads minds~

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Precisely. I knew what he was doing. Funny how he gets mad when someone criticizes men.

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Romeo as far as am concerned you don't have a point probably just created this thread so that you cud use dat pix.

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. . . and you say you're not bashing women. smh

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we are not complicated, it's you men who make us seem/appear/feel complicated

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Maybe this illustration can help shed some light on the issue!

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I don't understand, what is there to explain?

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Its so important to try and make sense of this from a woman's viewpoint, as its the kind of stuff I, (and many men)go through.

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