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Why Are You Not Married Yet?

Why do you think you are still single and not married?. Is it because you can't find a partner or b/c of financial reasons or you just want to be alone for now?. If you want to get married but just can't make a relationship work, have you found out what is it with you that make partners refuse to marry you or is it there fault all the time?

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but then i saw THESE PICTURES and thought, MAYBE NOT!!!!!!

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was thinking about the thread for a minute and these picture made me change my mind about women and marriage!!!!

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Give me one good reason why I should get married and I will.

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i guess to each their own. in my book, if a woman is good enough that you decide to marry her then that piece of paper doesnt automatically make her a better person. its all down to the relationship/commitment you have together nothing more. if you are saying that married people have a better relationship than bf/gf then again i guess we have different strategies in dating.

as for the nursing bit, lets not even go there, or do you think that wives make better mothers than girlfriends?!

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ChuckBa$$, I believe you are not too far gone and can still be rescue; hence this reply.

one, a mestruating woman/lady is not a sick one but a normal one and i dare say a potentially fertile one, so don't despise them at this point. you need to see what they go through if they stop menstruating before the right time (menopause age) or what do you think they call biology clock of a lady? don't tell me you fail high school biology also.

Two, women may be more materialistic than men truly but buying your woman some of the things you mention should not be a problem for a responsible husband/father

Three, as you mature in life; you will discover that life is more than freelance sex and every child brought into this world deserve the sanity of two loving parents living under the same roof

@MrBrownJAY forgive me for the King James English; but for your infomation helpmeet and helpmate means the same thing. Also, yes a girlfriend can possess some of this sterlings qualities but not all or in the same depth as a wife would especially in Nursing, Companionshig and soulmate realm. lets be real.

Four, I think like you suggested in your signature, you should give Jesus the wheels as you seem to be driving yourself nuts, need i say more?

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sorry i had to rephrase that.

ok wait a second,  this is how it normally goes, first you have a girlfriend, then you find out that she has all the qualities necessary for you to marry her(which are all the qualities in bold) then you  marry her. thats the way the life cycle goes in my book, i dont know in yours. so what i am saying is that a girlfriend HAS all the qualities above and if you decide to marry someone expecting to find these qualities AFTER MARRIAGE then you are a fool.

so my point is a girlfriend HAS in fact all these qualities, the question is can you make her stick to them without marriage. if you play your cards right, then yes you can

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I am waiting on queue for my elder brother to be married before me.Its a family tradition.

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Nonsense. From all your dis jointed bloviates above you didnt fault one of the reasons for not getting married because its true. Tell me how glad you are when your wife is menstruating. Do you jump for joy and hug her when she is obviously fouling the air and the mood around you? Do you feel pleased with the endless jealousy, gossip and comparison with your more successful mates. Do you feel happy doling out money everytime for senseless things like shoes and bags every week or one silly make up or weaveon that makes her look even worse than a babbon weekly?

Abeg stop all this crappy talk of mother, confidant, sister blah blah crap, A confidant that gossips, a sister that whores around a mother that has aborted your earlier brothers and sisters in college!

No wonder the divorce rate in Nigeria is really sprucing up and its a good thing men are getting more exposed to know that till death do them apart is no longer in their lexicons. Bottom line, sleep with them for some years, have 2 or 3 kids and leave them hanging and be on your own!

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Chuck Ba$$ mind is obviously twisted and for that i offer my unreserved apology, no offence meant but he is a product of broken home; anybody can smell that i thousand miles away.

Females are females no doubt but a Wife can never be compared to a girlfriend; and if you don't know another way to spell real wife are listed below

Companion, Confidant, Nurse, Helper, Helpmeet, Soulmate, Better-half, none of which a girlfriend qualifed for. Finally marriage is one of the best thing that can happen to anybody who gets it right, maybe you don't know also, marriage wasn't man's idea it is God's idea. "And the Lord God said, It is not good that the man should be alone, Gen 2:18" I hope i can conclude that Chuck Ba$$ is not too twisted to know that you can beat/rubbish God's invention and institution. It is the fabric of nation building.

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@STELARTOIS ,

Mr.Right is actually around the corner,but he's in Nigeria.

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@Thonialism,

Don't u have a boyfriend?If u do,then tell him i said he's an Bottom cos if i have u,i'd put a ring on that finger immediately.True talk!

@Poster,

Still waiting of the right one.

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Still searching for d right guy

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I'm still young though i've gotten the mr right but not yet time probably in three yrs time.

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watch out people, now YOU CAN GO TO JAIL IF YOU REFUSE TO MARRY A GIRL YOU WERE DATING.,

this indian guy was dating a girl for 2yrs and when SHE proposed to him and HE refused to marry her, she called the cops on him and he was arrested!!!!

http://www.express.co.uk/posts/view/99127/Reluctant-suitor-is-jailed-in-India

ah women!!!!!!

and if women are still crazy about marriage then they should read about the husband who "gambled" his wife away  for 750€ in a card game AND LOST. the winner took his prize and molest the man's wife well well for one week!!!!

http://www.chowk.com/unplugged/t/66718

and for the men

read about the husband who was watching a Indecency dvd called "SEX WITH STRANGERS" and saw his wife in it having sex with his friend. the husband stabbed his friend out of anger.

now husband is in trouble and might go to jail for stabbing the guy. all this because of a woman he decided to marry, not knowing she was a skank!!!!

http://www.stuff.co.nz/oddstuff/2408644/Man-finds-wife-and-mate-on-Indecency-DVD

some people are just going mental after they say I DO!!!!!!

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Still fighting the fear of the unknown

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pls no jesus am an athiest, tanks 4 d good will though

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be gettin married in a few months time though,

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The number of male admirers you have on NL alone is enough to fill a stadium

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Na which one you wan talk now?

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Voting "Nobody wants me"

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woah, i see you are a comedian, please let me hear a few?!

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cos i have some higher priorities 4 now

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Not Yet Time. . . am still S.R.T.M

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i like that in bold.

wifey vs girlfriend issue, anyone with the right answer?

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Am too old 4 marriage.

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Nagging is the last thing I want.

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so are you trying to elevate yourself to the "MAN" this woman wants you to be?!

i will get married the day someone shows me WHAT A WIFE HAS THAT A GIRLFRIEND HASNT.

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well i'm not married because i have not met the requirement of this particular lady.

i have just one car,

i live in a four bedroom apartment (tastefully furnished) alone

i have a good job

what more?

her laid down rules are just too much. Funny enough i am still in that relationship.

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You get money now now make you carry tpiah vamoose. It will cost you only 200 naira.

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Gatorrr

Liarrr Nobody wants you? Make I talk?

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