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Why Cant The Girl Toast The Guy?

I wonder,even if you're an extremely handsome guy. She eyes you but will never come and say ''hello, i am shakira''

must guys do all the work

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A girl once asked m out, I eventually fell deeply in love with her, but anytime we quarreled she neva forgot to say the reason for my behaviour is because she asked me out in the first place, Dat it's not my fault, I wudnt mind a girl asking me out but she must be matured abt it

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@lindabon, I've seen Niaja guys that are the direct opposite of the description you posted above. My best friend was approached by his girlfriend. Today, they are married with kids. The love they have seems to be growing every day.

Let's just say you've not met the right guy. Goodluck in Life dear.

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If a girls toasts U as a guy and u are not interested, do not lead her on for her egos sake. it is better to say NO. it is 99% likely to be counter-productive and could lead u to losing her as a friend later on. She will definitely get over ur NO. Ladies in this age are much bolder and would even get over it immediately. Also, be careful with your answer to WHY CANT YOU DATE ME. If u are able to say NO and ur answer to the latter does not hurt her feelings then all is well and good.

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who says girls dont toast guyz? it happened to me some yrs back,

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lolz @ lindabon

, when d guy no b bread

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a green light should be enough for me chiao o

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poor you, i've lost counts of hotties that have chicked me

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cos its not in our culture in africa

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Specifications, mismatch, frequency just to name a few.

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maybe u feel in love with them for the wrong reason and they try to take advantage of that.

those guy are no real guys

real guys understand what he wants and he will decline politely if he is not intrested in you.

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oya come and toast me. u won't regret it i promise

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i've toasted guys two times in my life, its a bad idea, they dont last cos when you toast them they will never say no but they actually dont need you on a long run

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Hmmm, This thread my just degenerate into some boys listing names of girls that have toasted them in a not so honourable manner & giving details that have not been solicited leading to lies; slander, exposure in negative light & defamation of character, which I'd like say are some reasons why most girls would rather not.

Simply put, some guys don't know how to shut up especially when indulged in an uncommon way.

Ps: those guys caling girls that don't ''old school" need to respect that some of us still prefer them that way.

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girls cant cuz d guys head will swell beyond proportion moreova he wouldnt respect her n all. no matter d type of guy he is as tym goes on evn if he doesnt voice it out loud in his mind he would still condemn her for it

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Well, it depends on an individual, if i admire a guy i will surely work up to him and let him know how i feel, but i would have prepared my mind on his response been yes or no cos its not a do or die matter.Am blunt and straight,

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its because of their state of mind(nigerian girls) they mind is still very shallow and they believe that a man is still suppose to be first person to ask them out ( thats why some of them will never be happy,coz the man they actually love dosent know how they feel) communication is the key,some men are very shy and cant tell women how they feel so the girl will be doing them alot of good if she opens up, i hope the ladies learn

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The hunter baits the trap and the lures in the game for the kill.

Question, who is the hunter and who is the game?

Don't get it twisted. U are the game and over half the girls U will ever get to talk to on a personal level put more effort into it that U realise to make it conducive for U to "get killed." U think they sell smiles that say "U r welcome and so myt Ur advances be" for market?

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still waiting to have a personal experience of that too, i just hear guys say it actually happened, don't believe that

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^^^where actually did that happen? Is it in Nigeria?

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It happens mate, I've never dated or for once had a girl friend. "Ain't a teenage anyways" and i was once asked out by a girl. It started with; i like your courage, can i have your phone# you look nice, i'm ____ and etc etc, I gave her my # and she called me for more than a week after she got to know i ain't ready for a date as yet lol. Mind you, she's very good looking which made wonder ;-d

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Honestly I just wish a girl will come and ask me out. I will appreciate her with all my heart. I have toasted girls several times and they refused. Suprisingly they will always agree to those guys that will eventually cheat on them and treat them like rags. But here I am, a pure single and gentle dude. Whatelse should I do?

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some girls do it, ask me-ive experienced it about 3 times even when i was financially down i mean very broke

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I guess I'm a bit of an old school when it comes to a girl approaching the man.

Just think its weird. And guys could easily misinterpret the girl.

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Its not in our culture to do that, its just like u saying your girl should be the one to pop the "will u marry me question to u". It is the man that finds a woman and not the other way round.

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prob the same reason glue doesnt stick to the inside of its jar.

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If she does will you respect her and appreciate. Wouldn't you read silly meanings to it

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how many can do that?

it is just naija culture.

some of them regret not opening up.

if u must open up, be careful with the kind of guy cos some might take advantage of that

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Because the Girl can't afford to buy a toaster !

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