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Why Did He Behave Like This To Me? Please Why?

Can somebody please tell me why this guy behaved this way. I met him recently through a friend whom they work 2geda. D guy is a presenter in one of the media stations. I recently had the course 2 go there so I just used d opprtunity to say hi 2 him. On seeing me he was really happy and told me to see him b4 I finally left. I went back to see him and we started a discussion. He asked if there was anything going on btw I and his friend bt I told him no which was actually true adding the fact that I wudn't knw if he had anything in mind concerning me. So he was rest assured and said since the first day he set his eyes on me, he was carried away and asked my friend who I was bt the latter told him I was his girlfriend which kept him off the hook. Bt he told me something kept drawing me towards him and was happy I came around that day. He collected my number after much talking and I left. We saw after then, and dat day he said he wanted me to be his girlfriend.

After much consideration, I finally agreed a few days later. We saw frequently after then until abt 2 days to the relationship clocking a week. I noticed he didn't call me throughout that day which was unusual cos he cud call me more than ten times in a day. So the nxt day I called his line several times bt he wasn't picking it. I kept on trying and after sometime it was switched off. I was disturbed and rested my case till some few hours later when I tried again. It rang bt there was no response then I sent him a txt showing my worries. Bt he didn't reply. I called the studio line and I asked the operator to link me up wth him bt told me he wasn't there at the moment. After a while I called back and he picked it. I expressed myself to him and asked why all the sudden change and while he refused pickn my calls and replying my txt. All he cud say was that he was very busy and he said it with a cold tone. I accepted and ended the call.

After that he neva called me nor evn snd me any txt. I was really worried and wondered if I did anything wrong. So I called him on a Sunday evening a week later at a business center cos I knw he wudn't pick my call. He picked the line and when he heard my voice he told me 2 call him back and then cut d phone. I called back some few minutes later and when he picked it I asked him why he was behaving thus to me, asking him if I did anything wrong and that I was ready to apologise bt he kept on saying I didn't do anything and promised to call me back in the night and that we wud see the nxt day. I expected his call at night bt he didn't call nt to talk of seeing me. I gave him 2 days after that bt he didn't call still. So I snt him a txt asking if he didn't want me anymre cos I was sick and tired of his attitude. Still he didn't reply.

Then I took his silence and non response to mean it was over. I then snt him a txt again saying a final good bye and ended with this "WHAT GOES AROUND COMES AROUND". Still and up till nw, he never replied. What cud have warranted this behaviour of his towards me in such a short period of time. I just keep wondering.

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Nor be true i talk? Abi i lie? the fingers is always pointed at the woman whenever a relationship goes sour.

There's nothin' psychich about my comment, my brother.

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***somebody bring in the psych****

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After reading all of una responses i had to laugh and at the same time sigh because of the level of hyprocricy. We, as humans, at one time or the other, are guilty of what happened to her. Nobody is blaming the guy but everyone, not surprised though, is blaming the woman. This shows the lack of respect people still have for women. And, unfortunately, some women are also in support of this. Whenever you hear that a man cheated on his wife, the man is applauded, but whenever the woman cheats on her husband, the woman is either stoned or stripped Unclad and thrown out of the house for public disgrace.  You all want to crucify her because she accepted to be his grifriend after 2 days but meanwhile some of you, yes you, have constant one-night stands. I wonder if we will ever have a female president in Africa. Women, let's join hands together and stop this feminism. This gender discrimination is getting too much. Yes, na me talk am. Sue me!!!!!!!!!!

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I did had a girl like you when i wanted to be a bit closer to the women folk. there was a girl around my home that requested for my number and in the proses i got hers too,  i sent test massages to my friends which she too was part of, but she was the only girl though

it was about fun so she thought i was beginning to like her, so on one faithfull day she invited me to her place where she stays with an elder sister so i went,because she couldn't hide her feelings it was all written over her body and face so i say let me tell her what she wants to hear. So i simply tell her that i love her that that moment she told me that she is a christen so i just said few things and let her be, the sister came home because i was feeling so uncomfortable i left her home and to my greatest surprise before i could reach home she send me a text telling me that what

will i do to keep the relationship strong?

i told her what i will do after i told my friend every thing base on my friend's advice i continued, but it never last a week that i flew away i couldn't wait to run,  her demand was too much midnight calls for the few days that it lasted, i wasn't allow to read properly for my exam one romance after the other that i became afraid of having just sex that my friend told me she was looking for to worsen every thing though she was a few years older than i am she demanded for an engagement from me that was preparing to enter the university then.

all i did was to turned my self into a pastor and start telling her about GOD and that's how it ended.

next time try not to be cheap even though you are looking for a guy that works in a good place probally because you think he might marry you. Tell me if you can accept him with that shot period of time what happened when he Mary's you and another man comes? ANY WAY I THINK THE GUY JUST WANTED YOU AS A STANDBYE  THAT HE THINK HE CAN JUST DO ANYTHING HE WANTS WITH, WHO KNOWS IF YOU HAVE NOT BEING SHARING HIS BED WITHING THAT SHOT PERIOD OF TIME?

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I did had a girl like you when i wanted to be a bit closer to the women folk. there was a girl around my home that requested for my number and in the proses i got hers too, i sent test massages to my friends which she too was part of, but she was the only girl though

it was about fun so she thought i was beginning to like her, so on one faithfull day she invited me to her place where she stays with an elder sister so i went,because she couldn't hide her feelings it was all written over her body and face so i say let me tell her what she wants to hear. So i simply tell her that i love her that that moment she told me that she is a christen so i just said few things and let her be, the sister came home because i was feeling so uncomfortable i left her home and to my greatest surprise before i could reach home she send me a text telling me that what

will i do to keep the relationship strong?

i told her what i will do after i told my friend every thing base on my friend's advice i continued, but it never last a week that i flew away i couldn't wait to run, her demand was too much midnight calls for the few days that it lasted, i wasn't allow to read properly for my exam one romance after the other that i became afraid of having just sex that my friend told me she was looking for to worsen every thing though she was a few years older than i am she demanded for an engagement from me that was preparing to enter the university then.

all i did was to turned my self into a pastor and start telling her about GOD and that's how it ended.

next time try not to be cheap even though you are looking for a guy that works in a good place probally because you think he might marry you. Tell me if you can accept him with that shot period of time what happened when he Mary's you and another man comes? ANY WAY I THINK THE GUY JUST WANTED YOU AS A STANDBYE THAT HE THINK HE CAN JUST DO ANYTHING HE WANTS WITH, WHO KNOWS IF YOU HAVE NOT BEING SHARING HIS BED WITHING THAT SHOT PERIOD OF TIME?

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hi angel if u wanna chat please do this this bye

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abeg make una leave sweet girl for us jare,

kilo de sef

babe, carry on

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@poster, he don't love you anymore. Move the hell on!

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@ poster

Pls never get angry or upset with such things. I used to get upset like that until my mum told me that in this life, pple say bad things to/about u than good things unless they need something from u. Learn to ignore pple bacause as long as the mouth is there pple will talk. Some pple express their view and harshly while other calmly. The important thing is try to get want u wanted from this forum- their opinion. Their answers might be harsh but u will be surprised they r telling u the truth that nobody else might tell u and it might make u bitter. One more thing no matter the explanation don't go back to him but forgive him cos u will be happier when u forgive him.

To Nairalanders

I love ur different opinions but could we pls remember that nobody is above mistakes. There are some mistakes I made in the past that i could never make again cos I have leant. When it comes to relationships it is important we know that despite the fact that loving truly is now mistaken for folishness or desperacy or whateve name we call it we should  remember that when u love someone truly, u want to hear from the person and will do anything to talk to the person. I would do anything in the past to talk or be with the person i love but now I have learnt to hold myself which we all know is difficult so lets let other pple learn and not call them names.

      We should also realise that we are teaching pple the unatural thing (holding back when u love)  as compared to the natural thing (giving all when u love)

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And you'll rot ranting!

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Did her abuses start unprovoked?

Abeg, be quiet

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She is abusive herself. She just doesn't like the taste of her own medicine.

He was 20 and the girl was 15, am I the only one that doesn't see anything wrong in this? There are worse case scenarios o!

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girlsowit, stop with the abuses. People are trying to piss you off and you're falling for it.

spike darling. 21 yr old is hardly a child

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Nawa 4 people. I didn't sleep with him and some people are firing and lashing their smelly mouth at me. What if I had, then I shud be ready 4 eviction with overflow of nonsense from the mouth of nicompoos.

Please read mu signature well, if u dnt like me, then go to hell.

@ karmaMod. I love ur response. Its shws u are more matured. Tanx real good. God bless ya.

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Did you tell his friend (the guy you knew him through) about his advances and your subsequent embankment into loveland before everything went upside down?

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Rofl. wetin be gboom again?

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you are a very unconvincing liar sweetheart

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spike wetin the girl do you?

How many NL stories are actually true sef? even if this one isnt, what does it matter.

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Meanwhile the subject was put that way to attract responses. So don't criticise that. Note that there is a deviation sort of from what I actually wanted to knw. I wanted to compare u guy's reason's to his own reason's for behaving the way he did. Why can't someone just believe and reason with me. I'm not a cheat and I av never cheated on any guy in a relationship. Most of the time they do and that's why i hate guys so much and can never rely and love 100 percent. Like I said in one of my posts sometimes back, i av built myself a shock absorber and can neva cry again if a guy tells me it is over. I can't. They aren't worth the trouble at all.

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I didn't mean to use him. You guys provoked me in anger and made me say what I didn't actually mean. bt it wasn't reversible so I had 2 accept. I informed him then of what i wanted using the avenue of our closeness to help and he willingly offered to help and spoke to their chairman on my behalf. Is there anything wrong in offering help. When I neva thot the relationshuip wud go down the drain. You guys can call me lair and all sort of names. i'm nt bothered and I'v heard worse things so keep pouring out ur mind it only makes me learn more of you. You dnt av to believe my story. Afterall you dnt knw me. Only those who knw hw it all started can testify to the truth. So keep on bursting I'm ready for all of you. Call me names upon names. poo HAPPENS. If A doesn't believe, I knw B will reason with me[color=#990000][/color].

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I agree so much with u guy's criticisms ok. Only dat I hate all the insultive words that u use in backing up. I am nt making anything up ok. It's the real truth. Afterall I have nothing to loose cos I didn't give my body to him. Heaven knws if u guys dnt. The truth is wat I av just said. Believe it or not. That's ur business. I am nt taking anybody for a fool. ok. I rest my case after this. Tanx for the advice. My own is that nw it is payback time. I will get my own pound of flesh back and pay him back in his own coin and let him knw that nobody does it and get's away wth it. Hw I will do that is left to me. I'v resulted to stop picking his calls cos I want to build myself emotionally b4 jumping into the nxt relationship. There are lots of them wanting a yes and they complain of my being to harsh and I like it that way cos am nt ready to be deceived again.

Thank you. I'v had my fill. Nairaland, what a place.

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I thought you said you didn't love him and you were just using him? Why then do you need to "build yourself emotionally" afterwards?

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I agree so much with u guy's criticisms ok. Only dat I hate all the insultive words that u use in backing up. I am nt making anything up ok. It's the real truth. Afterall I have nothing to loose cos I didn't give my body to him. Heaven knws if u guys dnt. The truth is wat I av just said. Believe it or not. That's ur business. I am nt taking anybody for a fool. ok. I rest my case after this. Tanx for the advice. My own is that nw it is payback time. I will get my own pound of flesh back and pay him back in his own coin and let him knw that nobody does it and get's away wth it. Hw I will do that is left to me. I'v resulted to stop picking his calls cos I want to build myself emotionally b4 jumping into the nxt relationship. There are lots of them wanting a yes and they complain of my being to harsh and I like it that way cos am nt ready to be deceived again.

Thank you. I'v had my feel. Nairaland, what a place.[/color][color=#990000][/color][color=#990000]

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Its nt a makeup. I actually did this post on sunday evening bt my time ran out while I was sending the post nt knowing that it didn't go through. So when i came online yesterdy and checked my posts I saw it wasn't there and had to resend it yesterday. This event happened a month ago and the guy came back begging on tuesday morning. Bt I still wanted to see u guys opinion on this b4 letting you knw he is back pleading so I pretended as if it newly happened and dat was why I snt the post again yesterday wen I noticed it wasn't snt the last time. Nw u get the gist. He snt me gifts through his friends( which i took as a bribe so I refused it) who came begging on his behalf. So who is the looser afterall.

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sweetheart i dont get u,u opened dis thread yesterday,so which few days r u talking about?

or did u just make dis new development up?

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I just read someone call the guy a jerk. How daft can such a response be? A woman goes out of her way to use a guy for something and the guy is no longer interested then the guy becomes a jerk?

What if the guy just lost interest or decided that the girl is not the kind of girl he wants to date? Is he a jerk for having the mind to decide what kind of girl he wants? Would a girl be a jerk if she decided against having a guy?

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For God's sake, I hate when you guys say I am girlsocheap or all this bullshit. I said I never had sex with him. Can't you guy's get the point. I am just going to ignor ur insults, You can say whateva you like, all of una get ur own skeleton for una own cupboard. Payback time is knocking at the door.

Well for your information, the guy has called me and is pleading for forgiveness few days after I did this post. His reason's:

The friend who introduced me to him in the first place was jealous of the relationship when he got info abt it and said some evil things about me that made him ignore me all the while. Another colleague of his who later got the gist told him that his action was simply immature and he should have confronted me b4 taking the step he took. Anywy he is seriously pleading and snt me gifts(a way of bribing me which I rejected with all pleasure). Nw I'm really baffed up and ready to pay him in his own coin. I'v stopped receiving his calls and his colleague got my nunber from him and pleads seriously on his behalf.

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From what you have written here, there's no reason for anyone to say you were cheap. You obviously thought you had a boyfriend and the guy seemd to have lost interest in you. these things happen in life so you should just dust yourself and move on.

You said the you never slept with the guy, so that's alright. Those who say the guy is a player don't really know what it is to be a player. Players like a bite of the cherry and if the guy was a player, he would have loved to have a bite of your cherry before ignoring you. It sounds like he just thought things over and decided not to date you. He probably did it wrong by not informing you properly.

Life goes on and you have your whole life before you. Chin up

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I think the guy was either a player (most likely) or he has a really short attention span in relationships and for commitment.

I think for most people the warning signs would have been there, especially when he was already saying that he loved her when he really didn't know her. I think she was just there for her pride, and when he started ignoring her, her pride and ego was being hurt, she's seeking desperately to call him in hope that he's still as crazy about her as he initially stated.

I think we're giving the guy too much credit, I've seen this 'game' in 13 year old boys;

Boy (sees attractive girl): "I love you. You are the only one I've felt like this with. Will you be mine?"

Girl: "Oh really? Of course, since you are crazy about me."

Boy: "That's great!" *kisses girl*

A day later:

Girl calls boy and boy picks up phone.

Boy: "Yeah! What?!"

Girl: "I am so happy we're together."

Boy: "Are we?"

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to me, i dont think u feel so ccheap for him, because i dont think thats what we call cheap girl.

so dont be borthered if some one says cheap.

but to my knowledge i guess, u re starting to cause problem between him and his friend, so the only way to avoid problem between them is to say good bye to u. but he wont tell u to avoid causing more problems

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I didn't want to comment initially, but hey! has it gotten to this? no one is perfect and we've all had out silly and foolish times and made our mistakes. whats most important is to learn and move on so we don't fall into such mistakes again

girlfriend. i know how low and confused you must be feeling. most people no matter how "super hero " "no one messes wit me" they must be pretending to be, remember we've all got our dirty laundry and let downs, if not in love, then marriage, work life e.t.c,

LEARN AND MOVE ON

life continues and i a little while ul probably be wondering Wat was so special wit him in the first instance and how lucky u were to get off his hook.

this is an obviously rude and immature guy, NO SERIOUS GIRL NEEDS HIS KIND, either he doesn't know what he wants, or he is the harsh type that enjoys breakingheart and giving lame or no ex uses {xteristics of a professional player}. Abeg, there are nicer ways of breaking up

but hey, did a relationship really exist between u both or were u just assuming even when Ur heart was giving little silent u warnings, {it sure did}

hold your head high girl, even if u feel lonely and desperate, don't make the  "TOO FAST TOO SOON {TFTS}" mistake,  cos its easy to equally CRASH TOO SOON!

slow down and take it easy in your nest relationship. and no matter how in love and desperate u are feeling, don't rush or give off desperation vibes, it always has the opposite effect, " prey - predator" the guy will feel like a prey, no one wants to feel that way. and no matter how outdated or old schoolish this may sound. REMEMBER THAT PEOPLE TEND TO VALUE MORE WHAT WAS ACHIEVED {worked for} MORE THAT FREEBIES{came on a platter of gold} cos they always take it for granted cos it cost them nothing.

bottom line, add some value to your self and love your self more, most importantly learn.

I'm saying all this with so much love in my heart and i wish you the best in finding a guy that will love you and make u happy every second of the day

all the best!

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VERY TRUE

VERY TRUE

VERY TRUE

If the guy no touch u, why u come dey cry here, if he didnt shag u crazy, u would be so happy you played him.

Get out of here and stop weeping, it's a 50-50 thing, you got your favor, he shagged you, and moved on !

You are a big !

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@poster

na lie u dey lie, the guy don ****** u like twice and dumped your sorry Bottom.

i had one girl like dat, she gave in to me after 48 hours of toasting, and we had it like 3-4times in dat week before i ran away.

Uptill now she still dey tell all her frends say nothing happened btween us, thank GOD say my frends dey peep dat time,

na dem be my witness.

so girlsoswit, u ar now girlsocheap, liar

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Oh topup, a mix-up there. Sorry. It wasn't chessguru I was trying to quote. At least not the above. Error regretted.

The relationship actually lasted 3 days! If she said yes to the guy after two days and then the guy stopped communicating after 5 days then, they merely related for 3 days. they are not really dating probably familiarising! I think from your experience, you should figure out something interesting about this strange affair. Let assume they lasted 5 days. Questions have to be asked. Are they meeting everyday? We know the guy calls up to ten times a day. Are they meeting one on one? How many times within the 5 days?

Next, an excitement about relationship must be borne out of the fact that there is something that trigggered expectation. Since the poster didn't provide that, then it is unwise to conclude for her.

I also wish to draw your attention to the fact that providence can bring 2 people together. You meet a lady who is in need and then helped her. Whatever the reason. Then you feel you want to "know her better" and told her so. Note that many ladies equate that statement to mean a "guy want a date". Aside from that, the man may as well just have platonic relation in mind, while the lady want to go deeper. She might have assume that the man's caring and friendly disposition to her mean special interest.

When the man noted this, he beat a retreat!

That is my own understanding. I have acted like that man on countless times. Often with the ladies disappointed. That is why I gave that explanation. I know from my experience, a finding that would astound ladies, that NOT every guys that is good to them want a date! Take it or leave it. Some guys just want to be friend and nothing more. Just don't follow him to his bedroom.

That stat you gave as 99.9% cannot be accurate. I strongly doubt it accuracy. Anyway, it doesn't matter. What matter is to be able to recognize whether the relationship is for real or not. Love shouldn't be blind.

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, i am guessing you guys had sex , ,

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Well, I may have ended such a relationship in which the first few days of our relationship, the guy never calls, nor does he show any interest in me, I think it is reasonable to assume that most if not 99.9% of people in a new relationship are enthusiastic about it, especially when they're the one who did the asking out like the guy did, and claiming that from the very first time he saw her he fell in love with her. Does that sound like someone who obviously wanted to take things slow or was heartbroken. The man is matured, but every human reacts the same way to something they are genuinely excited about, she even mentioned that he called her multiple of times a day in the first few days, the fact that after a week, he suddenly becomes busy doesn't seem to prove true either, after all, he cut off her phone, he ignored her calls, stopped replying. Anyone who receives concerned phone calls or texts from a partner, would see the alarm bells and seek to reassure their partner but he did none of this. It was obvious that he was done with the relationship.

In response to davidylan, the reason why I believe that it was reason two is because the relationship barely lasted more than a week, most people give a relationship longer to figure out whether the girl or guy 'is all that', I don't believe that he gave her a fair chance to see if she was (which most people would have), I believed another female caught his attention, snatched it right out of girlsoswit's palm, that is why he even cut off the relationship in such a hurry, I mean most people once discovering that they are not that into the girl would at least hint her, or come to mature dicussion (since we have already discussed that this is a mature man - (in age but not in attitude as proven)).

Or maybe I've got it all wrong, am I giving girlsoswit too much credit, assuming that she never exhibited any of the signals that men dislike in women? I am giving her the benefit of the doubt that she was a wonderful girl, but at the same time, maybe he did in fact leave because there was no connection.

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Move on! poo happens.

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@topup,

why must you assume that the lady want to curry favour from the man? What is so special about being in a media that would make any lady jump at a man?

I read through the post, but there is nothing suggestive of that assumption.

Chessguru was a bit right in a way.

By the way, topup, I strongly disagree with the notion that every partner get excited at the first few days of the relationship. People who had had broken relationship don't often get excited. Don't forget the man is matured. Possibly nearing his 30s or above. There are men who just play along. I don't know of women though.

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@Girlsoswit

Well,your post was "why did he behave like this to me? please why?"

there are a thousand and one guesses that mere mortals Who did not watch your five days relationship scenes on a wide screen can suggest , but the bottom line is he treated you in a particular way and you wonder why, First how did he treat you? he stopped communicating and by conduct showed lack of further interest in you and forced you to "resign" in frustration? SO WHY DID HE DO THAT? that was the question!! i think if you look deep into your soul the answer is within you, just analyse the situation, then try tpo arrive at a conclusion, then move on with a positive attitude.

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I disagree about him being busy, a week into the relationship is still in the honeymoon period, where both people should be excited about each other, can't get enough and want to spend as much time as possible.

Now reading the new information about you using him, maybe he saw right through it, and so when he went out with you, he may have felt used, if he is in the media, can you imagine how many girls do the exact same thing. He might have felt that he was wasting his time with someone who was not interested in him for who he is but what he could offer. You can understand why he left you right? He probably got the impression you would dump his Bottom after you've gotten everything you needed from him, were you trying to call him and hold on, because you needed more favours done?

I don't know, but you have to be honest with yourself. It is starting to make sense now that he ended the relationship. It gives both of you a chance to asses what you both got into. A relationship should always start with the best of intentions.

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@poster,

you might not have done anything wrong just as you might have done something wrong. In truth, reading your post, it appear you might have shown desperation. At least in his own reasoning. All the while you have been pestering him with calls, you are actually radiating desperation as far as he could see.

Next time it happen, always use a third party. For instance, the friend through whom you met him. Or someone that know the two of you. The third person would then do the job for you. That would save you this kind of humiliation in future.

Secondly, in truth, he might be busy. I refused to subscribe to the extremist thoughts till confirmed. You see, both of you are just less than a week in the relationship. This implies that you know virtualy nothing about him beyond "hello, how are you and work?". It is clear that he is avoiding you because:

1. You don't meet his specification and is trying to quietly walk out of the affair before it get deeper. I know this, because I have been there. A guy that don't want to use and dump you would not allow the relationship to grow beyond "how are you" category. If he sense it is getting to that level, he would start avoiding you until you get the message. Ladies should learn to respect such guys rather than condemn them. Some of them are just plain conservative and wouldn't want to hurt anyone.

2. He might have heard something negative about you that made him change his mind.

The above, are valid on the condition that he had not slept with you! If he had slept with you, then I can add more reasons to it. But I wouldn't want to be negative about anyone.

Solution.

Forget him. If he want you, he would return. If he doesn't return, then look elsewhere. But remember to learn your lesson. That is not to say that you must be rigid in future. Rigidity hurts more than heartbreak, sometimes.

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@Girlsoswit

shame on you, you thought the guy would fall for your tricks when you wanted to use him to get what you want in the so call media house.

You trade your body all in the name of getting something done and you come out here talking rubbish.

If nothing happened between you two then you shouldn't be here wasting everyones' time.

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@ poster

My saying yes to him early enough wasn't because I was cheap o. But I had something I wanted to pursue in the media house which I knew I cud get through him. And which of course he did for me after agreeing to be his. At least he saved me when I needed it

so why care how he treated you, you got what you wanted from him anyway, any other thing you planned to get that you couldn't get?

One more thing-  IGNORE posters that are simply out to i[b]nsult[/b] or offer destructive criticism, it is just a pity that the RULES"respect other members", etc blah blah blah are just there to decorate the forum on this insult thing especially unprovoked insults/assaults on posters 

starting a new topic,where are the Moderators?? Admin?? anyway  the best you can do 4 now  is ignore them!!

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   Your story is quite funny? maybe you asked why? Because you want something in the media world through him is the obvious reason you said yes to him  when he toasted you and you are here with that big flat mouth saying "Why Did He Behave Like This To Me? Please Why?" why won't he? I don't have time to quote people, UNLEASHED referred your case to that of Craig David's 7 days, a good and perfect one.  This is a public forum where you get different kind of replies, some might be weird and annoying and some might be nice. you should accept both as they comes, who ought to cover face in shame if not you? but you are there hitting at some people. Do the same to me It won't fuckin* freak me but I must tell you franky, you abuse the name of love and you are a disgrace to womanhood.

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