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Why Did He Stop Loving You?

Have you ever asked yourself why your 'sweet' partner or lover in this instance suddenly lost every interest in you?If there is any love between you two before,it wont just fade but there are some tips you need to know to keep the relationship ever Green.Its very important you try and have it mind from now[even if you are still single] that for you to always have that passion between the two of you,it requires work from the two of you.You need to know that .

Sometimes one of the two people in love may get bored for no-just reason,he or she may just start slowing down, but that is the time you will pull him or her up and believe me,he or she will appreciate it later and you will notice re-invigorated passion.Lets kick the ball rolling

Have you ever had reason to pull your partner up romantically?We will be happy to know and many nailanders will learn from your story.Be real here please

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because you fall in love with one personality & end up dating another

sometimes you fall in love with someone for a particular reason & when u start dating that person, he or she stops doing those things which endeared you to him or her

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@topic

Love love love love, we'll all get there someday.

All I can say is, we ought not to confuse infactuation with love.

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Who needs love anyways, only young folks care for love. Old ppl care about paying bills and providing for their children. They don't care about all that bullsh$t called love

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speaking as a man most of the time you hook up with a woman because of her physical attributes after you have been there done that then the reality sets in because she opens her mouth to talk and by then you are ready to be out.

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well to my opinion b4 a man can start thinking of stop loving a girl he must have start noticing some thing he does'nt like from her and atimes it may be her suddenly changes.

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hey ofala,please contact me at trumigal@hotmail.com, i'd like to talk to you.

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@Truphie,

I like it when people correct themselves but may i ask you something here?Did you try to fix 'spark' in your relationship or you didnt just love the guy in the first place.I hv heard somebody tell me she was 'managing' to date her guy.Is it not funny?You hv one life to live and if you can add some little spice to make it worthwhile,why not?If the guy has one or two other qualities you liked in the first place,you could have 'blessed' his life by 'bringing' the 'spark' in him.I can bet he was just ignornt.How about.Not asking you to go back anyway.

Cheers babe

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@Ofala, i know not all men are wankers, i'm mature enough not to blame the whole race for one brothers mistake.

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Yes some people does not just understand what we mean here.We are talking of people that once had or still have some love between them.We aint talking of someone you just met or a one-night-sleep mate.

If he once loved you,why did he suddenly or gradually stopped loving you?

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Hey Truphie,

That your ex is a self-servicer wouldnt make you admit that all men are wankers.Maybe you are yet to meet a real man.

Cheers

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Imagine, this is exactly what happened between me and my boyfriend,we broke up because there was no spark in the relationship.

and the fool said he still loved me. men sometimes are wankers!!!

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@BENLEGACY,

I did not write this because my gf left me,ok?I hv completely passed that stage in life.i really want us to learn something new and try to practically grow,are you getting me my brother.Even while i was in the Varsity,i have people come to me withsome strange reasons why they are quiting their dates.You know something,its not just for unmarried people,whether someone is married too,they need to keep the fire glowing between them,they need stay every Green,are you getting me?Let me ask,who in here has eaten a rotteen vegetable before?Think about,you know you can keep it in the fridge to keep fresh and or cook it and serve how,then why must you let it rotten before you eat, We are trying to relate this to our relationship here,it requires preservation,ok?If there is LOVE between the two ,every effort must be made to keep it.

To your love lives and happiness,

Cheers and hv a nice weekend

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Because I beat her a lot.

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@ ISI ATU,

Your question is quiet simple,if a woman wants to 'ask' for more romance from her man.Note what i said here:'her man', her lover,not somebody she just met.There are some little things she will do that will quickly wake up the man, got what i mean here?You atimes,the guy wont be in the mood or may have lots of things going his system,head,body,stress e.tc. He may be ready to go for just plain sex, got me?at that time,but his lover can make him go much more than just sex by doing some of these little things,

It may be just singing his favourite love song to his ear,

May just be reminding him how his face looked the last time you two had a great sex, hmmmnn, are u getting it?

May just start by being unusually caring, that is taking time to ask you of your general wellbeing,even if she did that

30minutes ago,she can be touching you gently while she asks [mothering you?], well if you call it that?

This subject can really take a full journal but i believe you got slight idea of what i mean here.

You may send me email here :mayor AT lovemayor.com, I have a yet to be released material,i can give you the preview.it will add something to your love briefcase

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Yeah, it went like this:

Girl: I notice we haven't seen each other in a while, can we meet?

Boy: Yeah, whatever.

Girl: Wanna go for a walk in the park?

Boy chuckles, implying the idea is silly.

Girl: Or we could go to the movies.

Boy: I don't really feel like going out. We could go to dinner.

Girl: It's raining and I don't really feel like going to dinner, if you want I can come and pick you up in my car and we can go somewhere random just to relax.

Boy: Hmmm, why don't you just come over and watch movies, (like we did last week and the week before),

Girl: *sighs* Ok, why not.

Boy begins to become even more distant.

Girl: I've cooked some food if you wanna come over, we could hang out.

Boy: I've got a lot of work to do.

Girl: Ok, I understand.

Even more distant.

Girl: Can I come over to see you?

Boy: I'm kinda busy,

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@Sistawoman,

U got it,u know what,it takes time for someone like to relate this kinda really romatic scenes without apearing so techy, got what i mean.i am happy you are saying it as it is, ladies LEARN, sit up, dont go saying he left you, try to keep him

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@Sistawoman,

You know what?You have the right mentality to keep wht is rightly yours.Some young woman in the guise of being religious or whatever dont know anything and will never learn even after marraige.Its a real pitty.

If one is not romantically free,how can one be able to know when to seek help or otherwise.

I have met a couple whose problem is that the lady says the hasnt been satisfying her BUT the big issue there was that she kept quiet untill things get out of hand.All she was saying wasy:"is it me that will teach you what you shuold know?"Can you imagine that?

I really wish some of our younger people here will be able to grab one or two learns, some little things do matter really

Cheers

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pls

wat does it mean wen a woman tells her man dat she needs romance? or wat do you expect from him wen yu ask dat? will like to add those skills to my bag of tricks. thx

i wish most women will lern to be bold and wise to knw wen and ow to ask such questions of dia men.

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Yes

there have been times where I have had to say to Double T (that is his new street name I just gave him yesterday) that I need romance. And when I tell him that I need romance he brings it.

I cant say that I was feeling less love or less loved by him, but every so often a woman needs to be romanticised by her man. And most times men dont know when a woman needs this so we have to tell them. If the man does not know what that means then we have to teach them. And if he refuses then he really was not all that into you girl from the start. Truth is both partners, if they love each other, will do what the other needs done even if they are not comforatable doing doing it.

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