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Why Did I Lose This Girl?

about a year ago my 2-year relationship ended. i was in deep pains.i did my best to satisfy this girls needs.took her places bought her stuffs,did not cheat on her.she told me how she loved me blah blah!but something was lacking-sex.we talked about sex and she told me she was virgin and said she'll love to keep it till marriage which i agreed to .one particular day we were "romancing"it got to a point she told me she was freaking turned on and wanted sex but i refused because i thought her Hot state has made her forget her vows and no need to rush cos marriage was our goal.about 6months later we broke up now she follows another guy sleeps in his place dress provocatively doesn't greet me.one day i confronted and asked her why we broke up to my dismay she answered 'i'll remain single if you  were the only man in world i need a real man'.i still don't regret my refusal to bleep her.

giving it a hindsight I doubt if she wasn’t a virgin as claimed

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^^^^^ as i said, not everyone goes in a relationship with S E X on their minds. some do and others dont.

here is what YOU should do:

before going into ANY relationship, why dont you tell the gal that you expect s e x from them and that if they were NOT willing to give it to you then they shouldnt date you. . . . . . . . . . believe me, you will have less stress (anddates) from then on.

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Its good to know ure a guy and a good one @that

we all know that most guyz would agree 2 not havin s3x wit a lady (even virgins) even if she pratically told him

before dating him but immediately she agrees to date him,it becomes another entire different ball issue,

so what im sayin in essence is it would take the will of God in a virgin's life 2 save herself till marriage and not because

of how smart she is,

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Free, me

You and i knows that more than 80% of Nigerian guyz go solely into relationships

basically cos of s3x and partly cos of love

so, where does that leave the virgin girl standing!!

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since you are a man of your word and that words should be kept, shouldnt the gal's words count as well if she tells you thats she doesnt want to have s e x before marriage?!

stop thinking with your dikc for a minute or two. . . . . . . . .  are you saying that a virgin gal shouldnt date?! how can she find the RIGHT guy if she doesnt?! should she just jump in a stranger's arm and marry him?!

the only guys who would split because she doesnt fukc are guys like you but the Virgin guys who are looking for the same as she does will stick with her.

why should this act warrant ra*pe?! its all about what everyones want in a relationship and not only about what 190 wants.

what Spykers gf told him is what SHE thought about her and him, not what all women think. get real!

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wetin i do SA Lady oooo, if ur bf no gree insert key into ur lock wont u leave him?

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And what is your point? They say good guys carry last and that is because they are always gentle in all ramifications. But what do they get, a cheating girl.

I am a man of my words and i believe words should be kept, same for any promise made in a relationship. Mind you, relationship is all about two persons coming to common terms and agreement and if one person breaks it, the other learns a hard lesson.

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it pains me when a man does not see an open door, ur gf that u wanted to marry (meaning u were still going to bang) opens her legs for u n u shut it, that is a sin

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Now tell me why would a virgin gurl this days go out there and date a guy

having no intension of banging the guy,

It wont work,

I keep saying this, if you know u are a virgin and u dont want 2 loose it

then stay clear off relationships,

1st guy would approach,you would agree, then split off cos u didnt give in to s3x

2nd guy same thing

3rd guy same thing

4th guy same thing

what does the gurl tink she's doin

Its people like that,that simply end up getting ra~ped

so mr.brown, what ever his ex GF told him is 100% rite

and by the way afrobaby said u called her again last nite

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Women girls have got a way of letting me down sometimes. After this story I find it reasonable that man are such pissed off opportunists. If I were a guy and any girl does this to me, man I'd be one hell of an angry h*?ny sod.

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pls dont take what happened between you and your slut ex as rules of life. . . . . . as much as it may have been painful, there are some women out there that will date guys and have no intention of having s e x with them. . . . . . . yet!

i doubt, the virgin gal who wants to keep her virginity for her husband, wants to have s e x with anyone she is dating. thinking like you do is the reason why so many bushmen go and rap*e women.

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gbam

help me give that your ex GF chopknockle

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@Poster, you are not the only man who have been jilted by a girl based on virgin till marriage idea. I had a similar experience. Just forget her, she is not worth it. Mind you, when you meet someone else, don't wait more than three (3) to demand for sex otherwise she will jilt you also. A girl who has made up her mind to date a guy has already made up her mind to have sex. This was what my ex-gf told me after we broke up.

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you blame me now right

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Hope you learned not to be such a push-over. Instead of trying to please and meet the woman's expectations, learn to be a MAN-dingo and get your needs met.

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i Seriously Hope the ladies are seein this

when 190 kips saying that the women nid s3x more than we do

They would tink he's just bluffin

-now here we go-

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Woman say make u blow im koso, u say no!!wetin u wan make she do!na d other guy win na

Like Sean Connery said;losers always whine about their best, winners go home and mess d prom queen

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yep,the virgin claim was just to test you and when she decided to let you taste her cootie cat, you failed!

what i dont understand is that: since it was HER idea to wait and not yours, why didnt you smash it when it was available?! did you suddenly believe in the "role" you were playing?!

anyway i guess you learned from your mistake.

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cos u r a loser!

kai! after 2yrs no firing, no tozzo, ar u ok dude- bet u dey self-service urself silly.

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