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Why do beautiful ladies end up with ugly men(and vice versa)?

It has always been said and I have observed it to be true that beautiful ladies end up marrying ugly men. Why?

Also, handsome men end up marrying ugly ladies. How come it happens that way?

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i dont agree with this thread,coz i consider myself as a very handsome guy, so also my wife is stunning beautiful, to me, its just a matter of choice, coz i can never woo an ugly lady, never

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I hate when people pretend that UGLY does not exist. Geez!!

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Believe it or not, but there are people out there who are not shallow and juvenile. They seek people of substance in a life partner, substance that goes far deeper than virginity, looks and an impeccable church attendance record.

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Women don't seem to value physical beauty as much as men do. At least, this is my theory.

The "vice versa" part I don't agree with.

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The same reason 'Beauty married the Beast'

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@mamaken.

I still maintain that d reason is mostly economic but not in every case. U r d first woman to say she is ugly to me. Just fink u want 2 b modest. Does ur man has d same level of educatn as u sorry 4 poke-nosing

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I know a story of one woman, when her muslim husband get converted and shave the beard, the wife told him he married him just because of that beard, that what she likes most in him.

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i think money speaks in this situation(u know some ladies are jxt ready to marry a gorilla b'cos of money)

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The reason is mostly ECONOMIC.

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@ topic: me I'm fine as all hell and my babes is fiyyyyyya! So, we a good looking couple. I can't see myself being with someone that I'm not attracted to. I guess tho that if a pretty girl ends up with a ugly guy its cus "Women go with what they hear, While guys go with what they see".

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IF A GIRL IS TOO UGLY I WILL NOT BE ABLE TO CU M, HONESTLY IF THE PUSS Y IS EVEN SWEETER THAN HONEY,

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it should be happening like that to reduce the rate of ugly people in the world.ugly +fine=not that bad!

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DONT YOU THINK ITS A GOOD OMEN, IF NOT FOR ANY THING THE "BLENDING"

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Ugly through who's eyes, yours?

People get married, because they see beyond the physical exterior of their mate, it doesn't matter what you, or anyone else thinks, as far as the two people are concerned, they are both beautiful.

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ugly guys carry big turgid ugly manhood that really satify this beautiful ladies on bed and they really like it from the way they scream when be bleeped by this ugly guys on a very good day.

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@AMYG

U GO FEAR MATHS O, LOL

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@poster,cos fine boy+fine girl=broke arses,ugly g+fine girl=g 'n lv,girl lvs money,ugly g+ugly girl=2rue lv

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d truth bout d matter is dat wen gud lukn guys cum askn dem out,.dey play hard 2 get and when dey now start getn 2 d stage at which dey ought 2 be married, sum gals jus agree 2 marry ani guy dat cums her way, be it wowo or vice versa

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i don't buy it! there are so many cases when an ugliness is not just skin deep, but the personality too, and on the other hand when the beauty is not just skin deep, but when the person is also good and moral insise. Dam women are very popular. worse a woman is, more luck she has with men.

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Do you know ugliness is not necessarily physical and it changes with the way you relate with the person in question.

Assuming Ayetty is dating Jacquan, and Jacs uses Ayetty as a punch bag. Ayetty will see Jacquan as an ugly mofo while Platinumnk will see him fine boy to the core.

Sometimes you see someone as ugly and you get talking,the character and the personality are so cool,in your eyes he will turn to Jacquan.

This is just an analogy no offence to anyone.

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some might argue it's because the so called beautiful girl has had had stock/share price devalued by her years of posing, generousity or according to NL's latest trend Casual relationships that none of the fine boys want her anymore. And now that she has realised that her flower is beginning to wither she can no longer be choosy and is just grateful that any man never mind whether he is ugly or beast-like is saying "how now" to her,

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@posta, what is ur definition of bin handsome/beautiful? Bin betful/hndsme physically does nt mean ur ar a wify and husy material u better work on ur inner being so as 2 b truly handsome and beautiful. As 4 me i would rather go for 'material'

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Because beauty is in the eyes of the beholder.The uglies person you might actually be the most handsome or beautiful to another person.

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because beauty is in the eyes of the beholder

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handsome men choose uglier women because they are not jealous of them, their ego can't bare to be with a pretty woman, becasue they want to be the ones to be looked at, the ones to be adored. it is all psychological. most men are not selfconfident enough, not even those who are handsome. i see men everywhere who are much more good looking that their girls or wifes. and not just that, those women aren't even smart and aren't even polite, more like a bich women, so, beside their ugly features, they are ugly in some other spheres too.

and on the other hand, those women who are pretty, elegant, moral, polite, gentle, are often the ones not fortunate enough, because, majority of men are scared of such women, and men just don't wont to be with someone better that themselves. that is the main reason, not love.

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People say beauty is in the eye of the beholder. However, I do not believe that. Nor, do I believe that beauty is skin deep. Speaking as a man, we are superficial creatures.

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beauty they say lies in the face of the beholder, sefini :-x

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Women usually try to marry "up" as far as financial or social status. Which means uglines/lookss are only a tiny factor in her decision to date or marry a man. Is He is a good provider? Can he offer her life security and stability is usually what it boils down to.

Men are visual beings. He's concerned about how the babes face or body looks (or both), & How will he look in the eyes of his family and friends with this girl on his arm, - i.e. Will the babe increase the respect he gets from his peers?

But overall- I heard the average person ends up with someone of about equal attractiveness to themselves.

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do u want ugly to marry ugly?,

abeg no try am o, just leave the matter like that

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@ Topic

They know how dangerous it is. Can you imagine having too much hottness in one room? Things will just exploding all over the place. . . Mirrors, light bulbs, windows. Dangerous stuff, i tell ya.

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@poster

Ur inside beauty is what matters

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because the uglier the better and sweeter

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its called 2 souls twining together, now souls are immortal beign conrtucted in a way far from normal human perspectives, so such senses like eyes they dont have it, they judge in respect of the capability of the soul . . , . . . .

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r u trying to jump the ship after committing yaself?

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wouldn't call dis match making as u've already agreed to hook up with me in one of 'em threads.

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opposites attract, chikena

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@4her

Just as we see a handful of ugly ladies daily

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I've seen some pretty ugly guys though

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point of correction no 1 is ugly,god made us beautiful in his own way,jst dat sum ar more beautiful.tk note first.

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