Why do ladies pretend at first. Is it that they Don't want guys to think they are easy?
Is that what you think? Oyo lo wa......
If I have serious feelings for you and you play very hard to get I wil simply walk away cause at the back of my mind if i eventually get you I will believe you gave i to the pressure and will leave when you find someone you truly care bout.
DOnt get it twisted lady. Not all guys are the same - different strokes for different folks
It's not so much that we pretend or don't want guys to think we are easy you know, *it's more so we take the time
to analyze certain things. We use past experiences and what we are being told to assess the promises and the circumstances.
*Women are natural thinkers. We don't like to be hurt. *We turn into monsters when we are taken advantage of but when we feel a guy
is worth the effort we humble ourselves. Why jump into a relationship knowing on 'his side' it's not serious? *We are cautious and for good reasons.
I like it when gals form reasonably ( I mean reasonably o). Some girls get mean in the process of 4ming loose out generally.
When a girl over-forms, the guy may just do hit and run too just to prove a point.
I'm of the opinion that a decent relationship should start from PURE Friendship the move to the next level
Haba, ! Na which kain topic bi dis one, ? Abi una won tell me say una no no say shyness na feminine em dey answer. Even fowl wey rooster dey chase u no see as em go dey run lik say she no want, but na thesame fowl go lye,cari nyassh up make the rooster do em work.How much human, ! Ma broda na soo,nobi say the thing no dey sweet them or say the no get interest for'am but na so God cari do am make em be shaar.Na wetyn man go do, ? Abi u no go marry, ? But babe make una dey make am eazy for the bobos noooowwww, !
sorry for calling you slimmy earlier (got it from 4real's last post).
na tru u yan my brother. but i'm sure you know that girls also have their wahala? even when you want to be true and give your all, they play dirty behind our backs. so then again, PLAYAS can keep up their game (but on the down low).
I wonder why women think only serious guys are ready to wait. I'm the kind of guy who'll do whatever it takes to get what he wants. If i want you, i'll wait till you're ready and still f, k you and dump you if that was ny original plan! So why not give in to me now so that i can dump you now instead of postponing the inevitable
well Mr African 4REAL , don't get me wrong here, I'm not saying a lady should not be domestic, mind u it's all about d waiting game isn't ? why should I waste my good qualities on a man who wants 2 HIT and RUN, thinking that I could bait him or make him change his mind? if he truly loves me he'll wait till I'm mentally ready , besides not all men are good in bed anyway, I once dated this boy whom I did not sleep with for one SOLID year, sincerely I did not cheat on him at all , and eventually when I did phew!! he was rubbish ! soft Attention, two minutes noodles ! I was so disappointed that it wasn't worth d wait, a man might think it's hit & run while d lady doesn't want 2 stay either,
well @beyonce1 i said that if you think that the waiting game will help you to know who is Mr. right and who is notk, then you have got another thing coming, or should i say you are wrong, cause most guys would wait for you, what am saying is that it does not matter if you say yes today or you say yes next year, if the guy wants to hit and run , he would hit and run, but if you behave like an African Queen, then he could change his mind, 90% of the time we do, you can it been a slave, well if you want to use the word, i guess you stay in london, fine you can stay there and be the master in your house and if the white man leaves you after 3 months, don't cry, what am saying is here in Nigeria, it is not looked upon as a slave, she is taking care of her husband and her family, i have a friend his wife woman, sends her daughters to their husbands house with a full kitchen i mean every thing in the kitchen, pls if your husband ever comes to Nigeria, ask him not to come to calabar, cause he is a gone man, what you consider to be a slave Job, is what they would do for him, they would make him fill like a king and believe you me, he won't be coming back home again, so sister instead of loosing a very good brother to another girl, be his slave, and let him be your king, do things for each other, so if any other person wants to do it for him , he remembers that he has an African Queen at home, and would always come back home to your hands
@4real, what exactly do you want from your girl ? u can't eat your cake and have it ! initially u were saying a girl should't take her time in getting involved with a man, u referred 2 this as wasting her time while u 'll be the patient vulture waiting 4 d kill , then u expressed how much u desire 2 acquire a proper african queen who can cook, wash , be your slave, so and so , how would u have a heart/eyes wide enough to see all these qualities when all u initially had in mind was HIT AND RUN ? guys like u always have difficulty of achieving the right LADY, cuz they can never differentiate !!
there is a local saying that goes "the patient dog eats the fattest bone and this happens after the sharper dog has eaten all the flesh". which means that while my guy is patiently toasting the chic, somebody else is wounding (hitting) her already.
sorry about my silence. i just got back from my 72hr-ban tour. so darl', where do we meet (us alone) for the eye test?
Thanx IBB, I wouldn't agree with the point that a lady pretends, why can't men be honest for once? according to my past experiences, all the guys who did the chasing proper b/4 I finally gave in, r the ones who still respects me till now and wouldn't even mind setttling down with me if I agree to, Ladies don't minds these BOYSSSSS, deep in there mind they know the truth !
well i kept a guy on the hold for mo dan 4 years, n its not like im boasting but i really discovered dat the real test of love is time. n time proved rite, today we r together (altho he is outta de ctry) no matter the distance i kno his lov for me is strong n i even trust him betta now.
Shame to guys wo seem in a hurry , if u r really interested in a lady u wld b much mo patient cos u know how serious ur feelings r but if u r in sm hurry go look 4 them girls wo r in de same hurry as u, them fast girls dat say yes n e time ne were to n e 1.
i got deep respect for all them sistahs who take their time, most women fall inlove with all their heart while only few men do so really we r on the stiff side so we will take it cool.
Actually i have no idea y they do this. Even when they really like u & u can tell. This stuff kinda puts me of coz i dont see the sense in a girl checking u out from a distance & then when u come to say hi she starts acting unfriendly or like she doesnt like u. At that point i'l turn back & never come back, girls really need to make clear what they want. As for not seeming cheap!!?? thats total rubbish. I feel more comfortable with girls that make their intentions clear & not those that b blowing hot & cold its ridiculous
my dear, u hav a point. when u use d word drill, e b lyk say na defence academy we dey. but e b lyk say u neva meet sum colo men. dey'r very ready n willin 2 take all d insults, humiliations n wateva u hav 2 offer jus 4 u 2 giv him a chance. afta much persistence, u'll believe he's 4 real n fall in2 his pit of "love". spend a lil tym 2geda n u'll c his uda syd. n GOD help u 2 survive d aftermath of d way he's goin 2 ditch u.
well well well, me i don't dig all that fronting, the thing is it gets out of hand most times, am not saying that girls should not take their time, but pls don't over do it, i had a girl once who liked me she came over to my place and we kissed and all, you know touching and the likes, i asked her out and she started fronting, i really liked her but men dat was silly of her cause after that it ended there
lioness, u'r very correct! such boys can b real bad news. d girl is d 1 wu shld control such situation since d joker's in her hand. if na "knack n discharge" n u aint dat kinda girl, FLEE!!!!!!
sum how sum way, we can relate 4min 2 lyin. dere r tymz wen a girl say she dont want d guy but deep insyd of her, she's burnin up. so wen owola 4M say she b V n bros discova say na LIE,,
minwyl, y r u to fit not can undastand simple word wey person typ?