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Why Do Girls Beef?

Why are our female folk always having one beef or the other? I went back to my station where I am currently serving and was told that 2 of my “friends” who happen to be of the f gender are no longer on good terms.

Its giving me great concern, making me wonder if I am the only one who always happen to be meeting these ladies that always have one thing or the other to yap about thereby causing disaffection betwn them & one or two of their fellow chic’s or are my just jinxed to having them as friends? Pls and pls it’s not the issue of relationships so please responders should not get the wrong ideas.

I had one of the strangest experiences when I went 2 collect my results. We were all struggling to get on the queue and I eventually succeeded in getting in front of this angel, she looked at me and shrugged saying the only reason she allowed me to grab the spot was because I was a guy and that if it were a fellow Sista she would have done everything within her power to prevent her from getting in front… my fellow naira Landers I was so shocked, I tried to say something but my tongue failed me.

Sista’s in tha house wetin be the issue?

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I guess so. I really liked her. Women have got issues I know, but she was nice before the whole brouhaha. Well, it's beneath me to act certain ways. This semester I'm moving my things out and finding my self a room all to me.

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Tweek the only mistake i can say you made was to go and get the rest of your stuff from lagos. lol

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I have always wondered the same thing. When I moved into my room. I was too lazy to bring in all my stuff. So, when my room mate saw me and my little belonging she was nice to me, we became good friends and she'd tell me stories of her sisters in UK. I smiled and listened, joked even (I have never been the jealous kind). After the first semester, I went to Lagos got my things so that I could really settle down, and that was when my trouble began. When she saw I had more 'foreign' stuff than her, she was a bit pissed, then she got pretty annoyed to learn that my mom had her university education in the university of arkansas, usa. And that I had aunties and uncles outside the country, even my grandmom was there. Our friendship finally wore off when a friend of ours asked me and i accepted. All these came gradually. It was like I had it all, beauty, intelligence,the perfect shape, good clothes-- almost everything she wanted and then a caring guy. Initially she wouldn't let me touch her stuff, I wasn't bothered cos I wasn't one for sharing anyway, then I brought my stuff and she wanted in on all my things, naturally I refused. When I started dating my guy she practically stopped talking to me. I asked her on two occassions what I had done wrong and she said 'nothing'. I am telling you that she was so pissed that even when she landed herself a white guy she gave me a wrong date to her wedding. A wedding I told her that if it warranted my taking a flight to get there I would do it. I was so excited for her, look, anyone can call it beef but jealousy isn't healthy

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@sweetchi

Not all girls are like dat but if we have over 90% of them sistas doing it the we are at liberty to generalise.

life is not a competion and should not be made to look like one either, the onlything we can do is live life and love life

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@inbox,from my own point of view,i feel its a competition and most of them dont want to be beaten out of it.its a womans world and they just trying to stay in the game.anyway beefing one another is not the best.it is because of this that i dont make lots of female friends.butttt note,not all girls are like that.there are lots of good ones out there who dont have thime of such things.

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The womanliness is why women beef , it has too many nevres it doesnt make a woman reason logical .

But the real truth is that women beef because they are insecure cows.

remeber the story of solomon and the two women (cut the baby ino two).

That is a classic example of beef

Women say one thing but they really mean nearly the opposite

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@KarmaMod

And the same bosses get along better with male colleauges as opposed to thier same sex.

I just hope i dont end up with one of the desperate housewives

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@KarmaMod

And the same bosses get along better with male colleauges as opposed to thier same sex.

I just hope i dont end up with one of the desperate housewives

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hahhaha so true. Couldnt stand my bosses that were female. They're spiteful and when they are in trouble, they'll put anyone out to dry on their behalf.

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@cristalz well i must admit women have thier issues,and I tend to get on very well with them i know they prefer the male companionship, but still feel a certain level of unease when i get along better with someone that was introduced to me tru u.

can we chat on yahoo? i like ur disposition

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Just admit women have ISSUES.

That will do for me. . . . . . .It would take 4 years to determine why they do the bitching. . . .

Women are generally spiteful, jealous, envious with ATTITUDE.

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Yes, you can dislike someone on sight

Something about their aura is just not compatible.

Yes ooo, for me its something am thankful for.

Can't imagine the drama i had back in high school with them.

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tope2000 pls dont keep sealed lips

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Cristalz the truth is actually stranger than fiction cos the truth is that some of these chics that do the beefing thing are actually better placed than those they are beefing, so the question is why would be envious of someone u are better than?

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Lol @ topic.

Honestly i really don't understand why most ladies are like that. As in,when a lady walks into a room all the other women present stare,size her up from head to toe,noting every single thing about her. . .then they relate or don't relate with her based on what they see. Its not uncommon for Susie to beef Amanda cos she thinks Amanda's smile is nicer than hers. . .or cos Amanda talks with a real British accent. . .or cos all the boys seem to like Amanda. . .or for Susie and Amanda to keep malice for 3 months running. . .or any other petty reason they can think of.

Dunno why its hard for most girls to overlook stuff like most guys. . .or help each other out like most guys do. . .or keep from snitching on each other.

Guess its one of those things that can never change,lol.

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Because women hate each other they are natural competitors and when the see another woman whose came is up to snuff they start hating.

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They dont only beef dey also Pork,

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Tarts like this make me sick. Desperate hens

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