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Why Do Girls Cry After A Break Up And Men Don't?

Is it wrong 4 men 2 cry,after a breakup or heartbreak?

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depending on the person making the decision,if she is the one and u have invested lots and love on her

you will never know when tears would drop.

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anybody can cry! it depends on who hit the nail first

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Because they are hurt and crying helps let out the tension so they can feel better again, it’s a way of expressing themselves, even guys cry so…

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yea rite!! who said man dont cry after a breakup

it may not in ur face but alone? oooh dey cry

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who says men don't cry. They do , secretly cos it's unmanly to cry. But ladies do so more openly. More often than not, they are the ones who gives their hearts.

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@BASETSANA

its gud u cry.Cryin inside is deadly

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Well personally l cry,because l would have given that person my heart,

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@ kike001

i dont advice u stay in a relationship whereby u dont love the boy?

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most gals dont cry so far if u dont love the guy

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@ jkpretty: Amen o, no break up wud make u cry again.Thats a very gud prayer

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@efuah:He cried when he broke up wiv u so y was he cheatin on u.He's such a slacker.What do u feel?

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@ThoniaSlim: mehn i dont wish 2 see a dude cry over a gurl.It wud b so messed up

@jkpretty: Just dont pray 2 get hurt by any dude o.U cry oceans,no matter how strong u r

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me o, i've gotten to my own bus stop. I'm not searching, i'm not hurting again.

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yea,heard that on 2 many tymes."i can't hurt a fly".That's what them girls say b4 they meet some other dude

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Why not, if not

roll eyes, roll eyes, roll eyes

But really, i can't hurt a fly.

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@jkpretty

wow that's crazilly serious,i can imagine what that kind of scene wud luk like.the gurl reall must ave been the only one.Never make a man cry o.Its not nice

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@2much bar but i prefer u guys letting it out, it creates hard feelings.

Oh yes i've seen a guy cry, he cried, on d street o, d next Avenue to where i stay, yes i remember his male friends were holding him, & i heard him shouting "is she d only one, what's she feeling like, ok what does she ----- " wit tears drooping & i saw d lady walking away. It was a break up i guess, but it was such a relieve to see a guy cry.

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yea thats part of wot i'm sayin.I've never seen a dude cry sha.Ave u?

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@ 2muchbar u said You'd hardly c a guy cry in front of his chic

Sure guys may not cry right in front of his gal but go into d corner of his room, cover his head & cry inside him, which is deep, frustrating & killing when it cannot be let out, & can be there for a life time, building up a more dangerous person.

We ladies can easily cry in front of u, cry in front of anybody & maybe tell d whole world we lost someone, which makes d pain fade easily.

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Mehn!u must ave really luved the gurl 4 u 2 cry 4 days o

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who say men dont cry after break up

Guy men dey cry oooooo

i cried after my last break up infact i cried for days it was so hard for me to get over on time.

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This has less to do with the pain of a breakup as with the fact that women, for some reason, cry easier. Even men who want to cry don't because crying is simply NOT macho.

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@tnaidaR U sed not "all" girls cry in guys presence that means sum of em du.U'd hardly c a guy cry in front of his chic

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Whatta if a guy LOVEs a gurl really really really really much to the Fuckin point of kissin her Bottom for breakfast, lunch then dinner. Then gurl now finds a new dude who she can die for as jesus did. She decided to cause a breakup with her dude for the one she finks she loves. Do you think the gurl would cry over that breakup? Afterall, its a breakup. For the guy notta cry, Don't y'all think thats weird? Any sex can cry after breakups. Even animals do

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Girls cry because dey av a tender heart but guys do nt becos dey believe dey av nothin 2 loose.anyway sha let stop breakin each odas HEART

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Girls cry only when they loose a guy they really love. If the r/ship wasn't a big deal to us then Bleep you to hell!

Guys do cry big time. Some in the girl's presence and some in their freaking closets. Fact is, they cry as well but who cares?

Life's a Dam!

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@estylove1 : Ur cryin only shows that u care and that u r hurt.Learn to cry wen u ave to.

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i do cry in d past but now i dont allow such things to get to me any longer i have vowed that i wont cry over any guy ever again no matter what

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Of recent, I cried deep down inside of me but no tears in my eyes!!

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@azpunpin Mehn thats true luv mehn.Y'all shud continue keepin it real.But the chic shud not go nd break up wiv u again o,u'd just land in an hospital, lol

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men should cry, .loose appetite and their self esteem and then start looking like opokoro. ******inner chuckle***** After all the nonsense they put ladies thru they should feel some pain as well.

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Haaaaaaaaaaa, I nearly cry ooo when my Girl Friend break up with me but she told me that there is nothing new in breaking up, On phone oooo,I was just bored, But all the same,within a week, I forgot everything until when she text me that i can now call her on her new cell number, I was like oshhhh,she don come again kan give me 2nd heartBreak, Not knowing she is my soulmate, Till now,we are always happy, U won`t believe that this Girl told me that it was just a test to know if i truely love her, I don call all her family they beg her ooo Until she kan know say nah true love,

Now, We are just like sister n Brothers,

I love her so much,

Love Ya.

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@ Rhino:hahaha!Mehn boiz r human they'd better start cryin wen they feel pain.Gurlz get comforted wen they'r r seen cryin by their frends probably but if u r a boi and ur gurl frend dumps u,mehn u better dont let ur frends know o,they'd only make situations worse by laffin at u,that makes u weep bitter tears from inside.They mite even comfort her, u feel me?

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who says men don't cry after a breakup?

some do.

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@2muchbar, i so much agree with you, but remember the old nonesense they said in nija, " big boyz dont cry? ,

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Mehn Rhino .Liked ur answer.But i feel it muders more 4 u 2 cry inside.

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Cos we men are kinda crying inside and too macho to show the emotion, but some of us men are just heartless, probably were never into the relationship, but for the ladies, it is like something has been stolen from them with the heartbreak, so much emotions inside that has to come out, and so much unspoken words

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Its not wrong for a man 2 cry after break up, they should cry cry cry cry cry cry for as long as they want

who ever said they should not cry, did God attached a particular sex to crying, abeg they should even suck their mother's bosom after crying & cry again.

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