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Why Do Girls Like Dating Older Guys?

why do girls like dating older guys? please i need some good opinions.

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ofkos gals mature faster than guyz, to a certain xtent.

A gal of say 18yrs (If she's attractiv or pretty) wuld hav had like a thosand guys making moves at her that she soon bcome accustomed to all the signs. unlike a guy of same age bracket(even if he's handsome) might not hav had such xposure since guys are d ones that are xpected to make the move.

but after that initial exploration, the ladies realize that they cant remain like that for a long time(possibly not beyond 35) so they look for som1 to b attached to were as at that age some guys are jst discovering the joys of been able 2 hav yonger gals cos they can afford it then or are not longer under the shadow of parents.

Moreover, most gals know that men are promiscous by nature and hence if they marry their age mates they might grow old faster than the guy and so he is likely to look outside for younger hard bodied females to make them feel younger. besides society supports Male cheaters than the female counterpart.

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i disagree with u ladies saying average girls are more matured than the guys,

this is what happened,

girl naturally feel important when they are seen beside an elderly guy as date or near important people,

and guys feel important when they are seen near beautiful girls,

when a lady is growing, she will be like a new fish in the river, these is what guys love most, so they come after her, she end up dating elder guy who has experience in knwoing what to tell her at that time, guys of her age might hv less words dat can convince her, they are financially ok, so she is easily carried away with such, she feels more impotant than others who hang out around younger guys

but note that even ladies also go after younger guys who is seen as an importnat person,

just like me

i was in Jss 2 when i date my school head girl,

but girl easily get exposed than guys because older guys come after them

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bullshit to say age has anything to do with maturity. ive dated my age, younger girls, and older girls and each has its great sides.

and besides all the older girls i dated werent more matured than i was. ive seen old guys who act like kidz. all that is needed in a relationship is wisdom and love and a young guy who has cultivated himself will be far more beta in the long run than an old guy who cant discern his left from his right. for women tho its preferrable that they date guys who are 2 to 7 years older than them except they are attracted to father figures. my current girlfriend is my agemate and we both understand what love is and love each other deeply.

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older guys are not neccesarily more mature , I have dated people who are six to three years older and none were as mature (in the things that mattered) as my current boyfriend (who is my age mate). It depends on the individual. I have to aggree that on average girls are more mature than guys in the same age bracket

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Yes,the older the better.They are more loving and they pet a lot.

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Well, i think it varies with diferent girls, and not generalizing it.

Some want olda guys cos they simply believe he'll be matured enough to handle situations and also be Lord over them in term of security and all,

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This early maturation of females must be in terms of bosoms and butt, because last I checked, males still run things in every age bracket you can imagine. I'm not knocking any female that prefer older males, because the bottom line is life security.

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i prefer older guys because they are more matured to my level, and they know how to treat a woman, a guy 10 years older than me is on my level, and the best part is that when you both grow older, it doesn't look like one is older than the other, bcoz women tend to age faster.

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because the younger ones are immature init

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More matured in being silly, rather.

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put simply-

older men are like aged wine.

while younger version is like grape juice.

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what aspect of mental maturity are you refering to here?

good point bro.

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@ Eurphoria,

I said most older guys!

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this is funny someone says they are more mature? first can i ask what age you guys class as older guys, is it like 1yr older,2,3,5,10? what? lol because any mature woman not talking teenage girls now please. will know that even men of 30 are not mature.

About why date older guys? well i guess some ladies either just have a thing for oldermen, or want to feel taken care of, or many other reasons. Its not always about money , i know many girls who earn more than the guys in our circle of friends

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Older guys are often in a better financial position to cover the cost associated with relationships. Girls are genetically not inclined to fend for themselves.

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Because most older guys are much more matured and some are probably done playing around.

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Because we mature mentally faster than guys. The average 18 year old girl and the average 18 year old guy would not be on the same mental age-bracket.

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What do you mean by older? 10, 20,30 or 40 years older than the girl?

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