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Why Do Girls Often Behave Like That?

There's this girl I fell for, I visited and called regular but she was acting as if I don't worth a bit of her time at all. I tried and tried and got tired. One day I rebooted my senses, formatted my heart, deleted all my interest and emotion for her from my mind , body and soul. Guess what, she is calling me now telling how unfair it was for me to stop calling and visiting. She wants to take it to the next level now unfortunately I don't feel anything for her anymore. Should I just stick to my guns or give her a second chance? But why do girls turn around to fight in the face of competition for somebody they rejected initially?

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Well! well!! well!!!

My advice is "give her another chance to prove herself". By then, you will realise and know the reason behind her formal mischievous behaviour.

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if u really really like her then u would take. Nothing good comes easy. Havn't u seen a rooster chasing a hen? It's an all out battle. If the hen knew she was going to agree, why the fight?. Not to talk of a naija girl. Unless u're involved with someone else

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There are times when you don't only use your head but also your heart.

My advice to you is if you still love her then go after her if not wipe your

hand on your Bottom and say na you sabi.[/color][color=#990000][/color][color=#990000][color=#990000][/color]

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I can only see second chance in my list of possible options. If there's no counter option I'll jump at it.

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@Adeyemi

are u saying all these posts aint enuff for u to mmake ur judgements?

c'mon man

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My guy we are in the same shoes.i am also carrying my cross now.pls frends on nairaland put more enlightenment on this issues pls i want to gain frm ur commments.thank u

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I'D ADVICE U GIVE ER A SECOND CHANCE , MOST GURLS RE LIKE DAT. MAYBE WIDD D AFTERMATH OF THE CHANCE U'D TELL IF SHE LOVES U

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@Scopium : what u always wanted is now rite there within ur reach , and ur asking what ur gonna do?

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This is not so difficult, its not full of probabilities, its just a matter of " She wasn't initially down wit u, but now she is" so its up to u.

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@ Yimiton

Maybe you are right, maybe you are wrong, maybe I'll give her a chance, maybe not, maybe I'm confused now. Just maybe,

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@Vimiton

some have genuine reasons for holding back a bit, but some are dumb

@Joey

gat some hungry ones on the prowl and you'll think they are on the high only to find out after so much stess that they stay at the creeks where your 'mob' cant even get to.

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. . . and maybe she wasn't just fronting

maybe, she wanted to know you better before comitting her heart

maybe she was in another relationship that wasn't working out fine and she wanted to end that before starting another

maybe her heart had just been broken and she was being careful

maybe she wasn't sure of herself and wanted to be sure before giving you the go ahead

maybe, maybe, maybe. . . .

No, you'll never know buddy, until you give her a chance to find out why she wasn't so into you at the begining!

Unless you never really loved her, unless you only wanted to play with her emotions and body, then, you must make that call.

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pose some more for her. Im sure she was just 'fronting' for nothing.

they are plenty in 'Gidi'. Always 'forming' on empty stomach with 20naira on der fone.

Crazy things

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Just try and give her another chance if uve not found some body else, if she's nice,then go on with her. if she f***s up, then just bang her & bounce man, sh*t

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Exactly that's the juice right there, there's no point playing with our mind tell us if you are in or out.

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girls are different. i don't pretend 4 any good reason. if i like him yes!, but no if i don't.

there is no sense in making a man 2 keep his hopes high when u are not ready.

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I think I should Let her know

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@Poster this happens to both sexes, when someone is all over u, u believe u've not achieved enough, some thing in u wants that other person, that hardly notices u. When u later realize, its not worth it hoping to turn around to see the person that has always been beside u, U don't find him/her anymore cos by then he/she's done, & tired of not being loved back, & then u go back doing the chasing again.

If u still have feelings for her, u could make it real. If not let her know, what she did to u & why u can't take her back.

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Well ok I'm still waiting for more opinions. But honestly Ufobabe, would you act like that?

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don't listen 2 him.

GIVE HER A ANOTHER CHANCE 2 SHOW HOW MUCH SHE LOVES U.

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i guess that's what they are made for (fronting). they like security and hate insecurity. my advice is just lick her to make her pay for your credit wasted and time.

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