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Why Do Girls Think That Bankers Are Flirts?

hello bankers, why girls think that we r flirting. I woo some sweet chics but because of my profession, they are afraid to lay with me. Is it our fault to work in bank. please naija chicks change attitude towards us. Some of us are good.

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Girls have dis believe that bankers are just tight fist (aka gum) and that is the truth

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Yes they flirt cause i got a brother that works in a banker and the guy is a forking flirt

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not all bankers are flirt. for some guys dat believe dat all laadies are flirt, it is just inferiority complex dat is disturbing them. working in a bank cannot turn one into a flirt unless u want to be one

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its not limited to male bankers alone. female bankers are also very notorious for being flirts. they have to meet up with the target.

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u dat woo chicks

you are more than a flirt

or are u the bankers flirt leaders

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@posters

* Not all bankers are flirts though some ladies would throw caution to the air to trap one. Hence, bankers

without self-dicipline will not only be termed "flirt" but DOG.

* As a result of the aforemention, bankers hardly find it difficult dating whatever class of girls they desire.

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blunt means "say it the way it is without sugar" real rite? while Pis " code for my name".

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because they are [quote][/quote]

GBAM!

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Bankers are flirts, soldiers are flirts, sailors are flirts, lawyers are flirts, doctors are flirts, vulcanizers are flirts, agberos are flirts!!! Who is left?? The whole society is full of flirts! What does that tell you? Who no be flirt?

NOBODY HOLY PASS!

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well, maybe not all of them are flirts (i've met some genuinely nice ones) but their flirt ratio is above average. how does the fact that a girl is cheap make you ask for her number? i've met one who collected a deposit i was making and examined my name and contact details and started calling my name like every 5 seconds until i left. for making a deposit again??

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Bankers generally think that they are the ultimate. Both males and females in the banking sector are the same. I dnt know if its the money or fame that transforms their attitude 2wards people, esp those in the leading banks. They are employed as humble broke Bottom and trained to become an arrogant foolish millionaire. Only few are innocent though.

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1.What do you fill about Igbinedion University,Okada?

2. Do you fill the National Universities Commission should withdraw the schools license?

3. Do you fill the Government of Nigeria should close the Institution Down?

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Am back on this Bankers issue again!!!! As for the female bankers, i have heard cases where they actually have to sleep with customers to meet up their target ie those of them in Marketing. Apart from these marketers, the others generally flirt with rich customers and somtimes date them. The females are not excluded from my lashing, infact they are worse than the guys.

I have seen the way they treat rich customers in the banking hall, they are all smiles and very friendly unlike the way they act with the poor or average customers. Well i will narrow this trait to human behaviour generally. Everyone wants to be associated with something or someone important. But they should work on that afterall they are meant to be service providers not judges, they should be professional.

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u must have worked in the wrong bank. i have been to many nigerian banks and i have seen lot of the women flirt with all those "BIG MEN". those of them that are in marketing do the unspeakable

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the women in the bank really dont use the opportunity their job affords them to catch different men in the banking hall.

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That's because they are randy flirts. Its too too too three much. Just because they are freshed up in an a/c environment and are counting cash doesn't mean every girl should jump on their d*!k. The females too especially the marketers are also included in the randy game.

A few are good but as it is, its just a few.

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Its because anytime you go to a Bank, the guy at the counter always tries to hit on you. I'm sorry for generalizing but it happens everytime. So if you are a Banker, you must be into it too.

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i work in a bank too.i have given out my number to people both guys and girls but never really done anything my mother won't want me to do.

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Lady Bankers are swines! I dated one of recent but she ate my money and left me. She kept asking for money, money, money, i wonder what they do with the money.

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Hello Everyone,

I happen to work in one of the Nigerian banks. It's sad to actually admit that there's an element of truth in what is being said about bankers (in Nigeria) being flirts. For some poeple, its more of a case of occupational hazard, really. they tend to spend all their lives (literally) in the bank; they are bombarded by lovely-looking faces and figures all day long. They would have hardly gotten over the first daze before they are hit by another damsel. This they face day in, day out. For the weak-willed, they crumble like pringles while those whose have steel nerves tend to last a bit longer. Soon, they are caught in a web they find hard to get out of. But the truth of it all is that its not so easy. Especially when experience have shown that some of these ladies actually come to the bank to "get" the guys; yes!!! The percieved "big boys" who have cash to throw around and more to spare (if only they knew). U cannot begin to imagine some the temptation bankers go through. However, this is no excuse. For others, it is a case of freedom at last; Oppotunities to test their virality; freedom to sow their wild oats. Living in habitual debauchery, consuming themselves in the embers of irrespoonsiblity. The truth ought to be told.

It is assumed that bankers are gentlemen, and by implication, well-groomed. Gentlemen ought not to go around chasing everything in sight. Yes, in the course of our daily duties as bankers, there would be lots of meetings,and some of them repeatedly too. Sparks of friendship and attraction would flare (bankers are human too); imaginations could go wild and desires crazy. But let's treat ourselves with respect because it is only he who respects himself that can extend same others. Once the self is respected, it would natuarlly flow towards the damsels that grace our offices. Then we would desire to treat them better, and have better relationships with them. Rather than "hunting" them with the sole desire to quench the flame in our fiery loins. Friendships that are worthwhile and mutually rewarding can be developed thus.

And no, bankers are not flirts; we just have some flirts in banks.

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bebe 2007,

No offence afterall we all need ourselves. I am really impressed about your response.That was great. keep it up!

'Bankers should just keep it cool thats all'': As for this, I want to believe they are all hearing you and we will do just that.

Thumb up Girl!!!!!!!

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Bebe2007,

I can see that you are taken this matter too personal that was why you shot me that I compared a banker with a lawyer in my previous post about, who a banker is?

I just want you to know that every profession has it own perculiarity and was being designed for a defined purpose. For you to have said that law is only noble profession and I should not compare banking/finance with law, I see it as an unnecessary Ego-Boasting which is 'altra vires abinitios" null and void without any locus standi

One thing you should note is that Nairaland is designed by Seun purposely for people to interracts and share experiences with one another. So, issue should not be taken personal here and we should always be mindful of our utterances as people across the globe are reading our writes-up.

So my sister, don't be annoyed if I have ever offended you for citing a reference in my previous post by comparing the requirements for qualifying people into law profession and banking/finance profession with each other.

Once again, i am sorry. I did not mean any harm before you sue me to law court.

Best regards!!!!

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Hello peeps i'm a banker and some chics i've met always pass that comment,that bankers are flirts.

In the reals sense chics harrass the bankers ,they always want to collect ur number and get a relationship.

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See why i asked if you went to school at all!!!!! even a blind man knows its a typographical error!!!! Isn't it obvious, must we spell it out? Do something about your low IQ mate.

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i wanted to say so much initially but i stopped on reading sabak's post, kudos to you bro for the mature and full-orbed viewpoint on the whole issue though i must still side with some of the ladies in the house, and good reason too, that quite a number of bank guys come across in very abrasive manners and i guess its got to do with their seeming to have a secure financial future in the midst of so much insecurity, squalor and money-worshipping.

i guess these many people can't be wrong guys and guess what nobody's being beefing doctors, lawyers, teachers, oil sector guys, even politician (as sick and trying as some of those ones can be really!) so i guess you should do some cleaning up too!

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There's so much hate here, and lots of envy, but the thing is bankers don't earn that much when compared to the oil industry, and I should know cos I see their salaries every month. I find that what excites the ladies is the SUIT, lets face it, some of us do look good in that uniform!

Then there are those that swear that we can't ever be broke cos we see cash everyday, like it's ours, and we can just dip our hands in whenever we feel the urge.

So,even if you're just the cashier, the ladies think you're a hotshot and if you play your cards right, you just might get laid. But that's for brothers that like an easy lay every now and then, like the poster, who I think is very idle, very lazy or just plain un-professional on the job.Learn to seperate your job from your fantasies and remember that the ladies are first of all CUSTOMERS (Kings, ) before you go scribbling cell numbers for them (which I think is very rude, )

My profession offers me a chance to be respectable and be respected, men like you cheapen it.

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I have checked all available sources and could not find any that confirms that the spelling of illiterate has changed.

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@EVERY "banker hater" on this thread

. . , . uhmmmmmmmmmmmm!!!! i smell something . . . . . yep!! i smell BEEF . . . whats the deal fellas why are u guys beefing bankers now?. . . . .u all acting like sisi's . . . . . . has any banker snatched ur gurl? . . . . if so,take heart son ur time will come . . . . poo happens . . . . poiticians flirt,engineers flirt,oil workers flirt anybody and everybody flirts. . . . . . .

as i pointed out on my last post flirting is irrespective of profession,i have this friend that works with one big oil company in lagos. , this guy is a grade "a" casanova . . babes take turn with this guy(when this gurls jam for this guy house dem no they fight oh!!!themm go just bone each other and wait for dem turn ) . .so bros quit hating on "bankers" ,ok some posters dey vex say we bankers no fit write english,bros haba,no be by english oh!!!! na by the BAR . .if u fit write all the grammar make u go join oil company now?. . . . .bros ,e no easy

am a banker and most of the time babes flirt with me so easily jeessssssssss . . . . .u wont belive what this chics do just to geta date . . . . .its none of my business if she is some other guys gurl. . . . .nah!!!!!!!!!

bros,its like an ECOSYSTEM or better still a FOOD CHAIN where we probably have the politicians on TOP and bankers will probably fall somewhere in the middle while u "banker/playa haters" will definately be at the bottom . . . . , lol . . . . . .rubbish, . . . . . . if u lost ur gurl to a banker,dude get over it . . . . or take a swim in the lagoon . . . . . hahahahahahahahahahahaaaa

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well i think it all boils down to d individual.i quite agree that most bankers are flirt reason been that they think they have the change to throw around and funny enuf,there will always be willing and easy virtue types to spend it on.but what pisses me off most is that married one are also involved in this.may God 4give them.

this goes out to all responsible bankers to pls keep it up.u migt not know it but some one out there is watching and learnig from u including the very daughters of eve that do disturb.

god bless ya all,

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@rosquare, i wasn't talking about the nigerian banking scene,, i presume you live in the U.K. I live with a mate whose only gone to college but with 8months working experience in face-to-face customer service, previously worked The Cobra Group, he's just 19 & currently works for RBS(royal bank of scotland), of course!!! without a degree, even in naija, most banks still use OND holders at the counters, , so what are you talking about?

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@rosquare.

i'm not saying that, i was just answering the question asked by the topic poster,

my sister also once worj\ked in a bank, (she's worked in different places), yet she used to complain about the womanizing habits she saw in most male staff in the bank, why didnt she complain about the guys at other places where she has worked?

besides.she's d kinda person who doesnt talk much, but instead silently observes, so for her to have complained about it , it MUST HAV BN REALLY BAD.

I'M NOT SAYING guys in other professions do not flirt, no, just think there is this ' virus' that eats into guys once they get employed at banks, it's like an unspoken rule, u must b a womanizer, lol hahahahha

jokes aside, bank staff, dia own too much ABEG!

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@sabak

God bless you a thousand and one times.

its the first time its coming to my notice that

people have this wrong impression of bankers.

if we are complaining about the way bankers dress,

then they should tell doctors not to wear their labcoats,

and lawyers not to put on their wigs,

wher on earth did nigerians get this mentality of

not minding their own business and negativity.

cant we be positive for once and c the good in peole?

@ladies in the house

its your choice to think whatever you want about bankers

just save us the justification.

@2gd

are you saying that no other married man has asked you out except this

banker guy?

@f6

"u don't even need a university degree to work in a bank, all you need is experience in which ever role you apply for and thats all", where the hell did you get this from?

do you have to tell lies in order to prove your point?

you that give us a break plsssss

big ups to the bankers in the house,

we'll keep moving forward and upwards

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bankers and bank wokers seem to have become endangered species in Nigeria. the negative passion with which people talk about the industry and its employees, professional or not is frightening. i begin to get this feeling that theres a lot of envy that is mixed in the whole stuff. i wonder what banking or working in a bank has got to do with flirting.

you need to know what the disposition of the average Nigerian lady or girl is to people who can pay there bills. i guess its just because banks are all comers zone, and so its easy to build an impression that is baseless.

people who earn money in Nigeria and appear to be comfortable , not even rich are in incredible demand by the the female folk. and aside from employees in the oil industry which actually dwarfs all others, no other industry pays as much as the banking industry, not even the telecoms industry that a few people have suggested .

so the tendency is for a security man in a bank , to be at advantage over a security man in a cement factory to ladies.

with due apologies to the few decent ladies who still exist, we must all agree that the activities of your hopeless sisters has put the rest of you in unenviable positions.

as a youth corper, i saw Nigerian university graduates having sex on the bare field with recruits of the Nigerian army for a promise to influence their postings for primary assignments. so when next a security man or a cashier in a bank tries to make a pass at you in spite of your status, understand that its because someone like you had fallen for him because of his pay package so he is emboldened to try again

if you go to portharcourt or ever lived there, you will agree with me that the average portharcourt girl is considered silly if she is dating a bank employee. this is because there is a preponderance of oil workers whose earning capacity dwarfs that of the banker.

so please banking is not the issue the issue is purchasing power, which women in Nigeria have reduced the relationship or sex factor to. enough of the banker/bankworker-battery, lets face facts

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@luka

Lawyers are liars!!!!!! you sound very ignorant. Did you go to school at all. You share the same view wih illitrates in the market.

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@topic:BECAUSE they are,

One annoying guy at my bank was always stressing me out, I always tried to be polite yet firm, In my mind I was always like, 'when will this one get d hint?'one day , I jokingly asked him: 'How is ur wife? ' ,he said she was fine,

I was so irritated, maybe he thinks that all girls should fall head over heels, cos he's a banker in an ugly suit, abegiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiii,

In fact I find d guy very annoying and, sorry to say, unattractive;yet,with the way he carries himself ,it's obvious he thinks he's so fine and he's god's gift to all the women in the world,

May God forgive me for saying this: but he doesnt even speak good English.

@topic poster: I hope I have been able to convince you and not confuse you!

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If u understand the write-up, answer it and stop all this English wahala. No be our language. Bankers, what do u have to say?

Are u guys no not flirter?

Why collect number?

Hw do u do ur marketing?

Why not dress like a banker when go for marketing?

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Why not?In place where so many people are jobless and suffering,having a good and secured job is a tremendous advantage,not in comparison with the real world,but the standard of the country,it is like a one eye king in the country of the blind and you f6 or what,i don't get you.

Women are becoming independent in nigeria,with education and relatively good income,thus more security,more confidence and more daring,that is the way it is,freedom,the more independent you are,the more choices you have,it is no longer the days of full time house wife or girlfriend depending on the man for even a bar of soap

Knowledge is power.

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@redsun, you can testify to this .but we don't accord them the title of 'bankers' here, ,i just see them as cashiers man, besides u don't even need a university degree to work in a bank, all you need is experience in which ever role you apply for and thats all, the banking halls are not even that extravagant , more or less like shops, these banks here are not meant for all forms of transactions hence ther loadsa cash machines every where, i reckon i havn't seen anywer pple blagg so much about working in a bank except in naija, well it's the enviroment that allows it because of the huge diffrenc in income, whereas alot of the menial jobs still eventually pay a lot more here,

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What actually made us diffrent from bonobo chimps?we think we are refined,but still, nature prevails.Be truthful.

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Flirting is part and parcel of human nature,it is a way of showing ones beauty,confidence,conquest and enthusiasm for life,but be careful and sincere.That is one good thing about polygamy,openess,take or leave it,but for the offsprings.Even prostitutes have loved ones.Love is trust and truth.

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From what i have seen, most of these bankers earn the equivalent of what cashiers at a restaurant in the USA earns. Why would i want to work in a place that gives me no other life other than work from su-up to sun-set. Even restaurant workers here don't work that long and they make the same.

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to be frank most nigerian men are flirts so this is not an issue of being a banker or not.at least am a banker and i dont think i am a flirt.why dont u also look at it from the angle that this girls are cheap themselves.

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And Akatarians na dem flirt pass,

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@kamlawal:

hmmmmmmmmm , u honestly blv all ladies are flirted wit cos 'dy asked for it?'

, u sound like a male chauvunist,

i think u are.

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@bluntpis,

what a name? what does it mean if u don't mind? I kind of like it sha!

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Doctors flirt, Politicians flirt so why not bankers?! After all they earn the mega bucks!

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you guys dat are not in 9ja cant seem to undastand whats up. planning to work in a bank. In a nigerian i'm sure it takes xtra care not to flirt. the gals sef no de help matters. these day gals coming into the banking halls hve bank dresses leki one once told me. so when i start my bank job, since   i know i cant beat them ,

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