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why do guys beat ladies?for respect or what?

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Ladies are also human and flip when men say a lot of hurtful words. You don't see them going about slapping or beating men. In fact our society frowns deeply at a woman that slaps or beats a man because he provoked her.

If you like beat a lady from now till thou kingdom come; if she doesn't want to respect you nothing you do would make her.

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Its wrong to beat a lady. But guys beware the kind of girls u beat if you try dat with an army's man daughter, 'life go tire u' speaking from xperience...

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I wouldn't hit a woman. Unless of course she turns into a raging bull that's gone wild. I would have to do whatever it takes to subdue her for my own safety.

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The reason is when a lady ask you guys to helps us clean and do things around the house your eye turn red like you never see and you want us to be your slave. A guy that beat up a lady is not a man and the kids will do the same thing to them. The learn it from there parents. I hope lots of guys will change and stop with the beating.

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Real men don't hit women.

However, ladies don't un-necessarily provoke a guy

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Thank you! I am so glad that I am out of that situation too. I won't ever be that dumb again.

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Good thing u left him! the man is an animal!!! WHAT!!!! A man should NEVER EVER HIT a woman whether it comes in form of a slap, punch whatever its a BIG NO! NO!

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I tink d question shuld be, Why do girls, wives, remain wit guys, huby, that beat them?

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Girls can be very insulting, sometimes I ll start thinking may be they enjoy the beating; because, if you don't beat a woman she will continue to grow wings untill it gets out of hand. I will never beat a woman but I will slap, so that; that particular devil will not come back again.

are u a comedian? what is d diference btwin slap and beating?

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Apologies, I meant the girl, that's if that's the best way she believes she can be controlled.

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i never said he agreed.

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My bf says that a guy whom beats up a girl is a bloody gay!

One of our housemate once beat up his gf and my bf kicked him out of the house and told him to stay somewhere else.

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i was in a violent situation with a guy I used to date. The first time it happened, it totally caught me off guard. We were arguing in his house and he wanted me to leave. When I refused, he knocked me to the ground and straight up dragged me by my feet out of the house. I ended up with many bruises from the struggle and from being on the concrete. The second time it happened I was trying to talk to him outside of his house and when I tried to get him to stay outside and finish talking with me, he snapped and started fighting me outside. That left me with bruises. Once we were arguing and he squeezed my arm so hard that it left his fingerprints around my wrist in the form of a bruise. The last time it happened which resulted in the final end of our relationship, I fought back. He was really hurt me and throwing me around. And then I started to fight back which further pissed him off. But he really really hurt me and went so far as to grab me by the neck and bite my arm so hard that I was bleeding.

I am out of that situation now, thank God. It was my fault for taking the abuse and going back over and over and over again. Love really blinds you and you can't see reality and you ignore what everybody else is telling you. He was never sorry for the abuse and felt that I deserved it. But I am happy now that I don't have to deal with that anymore and I am free from that person. Fighting in relationships on both sides is not right. I believe that women have the right to fight back if someone is hurting them physically. Men should not let women get them so angry that they feel that they need to resort to physical violence.

Things like that could end in very sad and serious tragedies as we see all the time on the news. Noone should be in that situation. It is not right in God's eyes.

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i have beaten my girl friend several times and each time i look back, i always feel sorry for myself even though what she did warranted the beatings. but now, i think i am more mature and i will not even lay my finger on my gurl again

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a guy who beat a lady is not a man

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I am dating a calaba girl since 8yrs ago now. Any time misbehave i slap her.apart from dat i cant lay my hand on woman. But at times d ladies are d cos

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not all men dose that, most of the men that dose it are not normal as far as am consine

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u re a true yoruba guy 4 real

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it is called CRAZINESS, and such MAN lack HOME TRAINING 'cos knowing how to treat your lady is part of training given by parents.

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@topic, this is a topic that my grand parents discussed nowadays i dont believe a lot of guys hit ladies, first of all the constitution, is against it, and secondly how about ladies that hit men,

you get to see women hitting men more than men hitting them.

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hey, wetin concern u? was i talkin to you?

and what has my looks got to do with anything?

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hw many guys u don fight for ur whole life pretty?

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@ jasmine

wow yawns what a long sermon

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i believe it is an act of cowardice in most cases, the guy wants to show the lady dat he's boss,though me being a girl and knowing our specie i know we culd be rather annoying and though most girls deserve a beating it really tell on the upbringing of the guy and the kind of environment he grew up his ability to control himself and if he even sees what he's doin as being wrong. then again some men have a really short fuse n are used to hitting as a way of earning respect while some other guys feel intimidated by by d lady,either she's more intelligent or something and they feel the way of making her submit or pass across a point is by hitting her.

@ruby_pearl

i feel u jere cos d damage the guy does to d gal is not only physical,it affects are mentally and demoralizes her,leading to very low self-esteem and lack of self-confidence which can lead to suicide.

@gamine

i trust u,but na hell d guy go c no be heaven,u know heaven is a beautiful place can't afford having their likes there

ur chic u set strt must v been stupidly in love,daft,ugly,had a reaally low selfeteem or smtn else,mayb u jazzed her.after ur"setting her straight" are u guys still 2geda?

plus u dey vex me sef wetin u don do for d gal u don pay her dowry or u buy her motor.u mean u culdnt do anything to earn her respect but beat her,damn dats really low u'd better get off ur high horse and adjust ur attitude before u get married,i mean imagine it was ur dad that was saying he set ur mom strt dont u know it even has a psychological effect on children hearing their parents fight,u need a major relook into ur attitude,women need respect just as men do and are as important because u r d head doesnt mean u should beat up every oda memberr of ur family.

why should men be feared by women u be God abi no be woman born u,respect is reciprocal u can only instill fear n create a polite robot who does as expected/programmed,dat is not respect.

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to me nothing ll justify your beating ur spouse.men that do that wont even fight outside,they only want to justify thier strength on them wife.shame

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Does not necessarily mean your sis.

I'm not getting emotional either, just my opinion

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just one word for a guy who beats a lady

"coward"

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I can't believe this topic is still on

with some crazy people trying to defend this attitude.

it just tells you the kind of person they are.

Beat?

you will see heaven that day.

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What the hell is that is suppose to mean?? does are children who know no discipline that need to be taught it. I'm a grown Bottom woman and i have my own parents to discipline me. so you are a woman beater is see. so you would advise your son to beat his wife? you would allow a man to "discipline" your daughter? you would allow a man to "discipline" your sister?

I dont need no one to have authority over me. I have my parents for that. I am tough and independent you just can't stand that. You feel that women should walk two steps behind her man, well i walk behind no one. I walk beside. Laying down what law? law of you should beat me? i would wear you behind out.

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So you consider your woman a kid?

rotflmao, thanks for the laugh this morn, babe.

So what will you do if any of your female family members comes home, crying that her husband beat the sh*t out of her?

What do we do with men that disrespect their women? Scratch the tip of their P.enis with a knife?

I mean, it's fair, is it not?

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na u know oh, onyinye!

u always come here acting tough and independent but i knw deep down in you, you are soft as hell. u just need someone strong and authoritarian. i used to have a gfriend that acted like. needless to say, after standing my round and laying down the law, she became a different person.

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@ RUBY_PEARL

call it what u want to call it, i just feel a stubborn woman needs a little discipline at times and a little beating goes a long way in instilling discipline in a woman.

afterall, we beat kids so that they'll behave themselves and respect us dnt we?

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No because the only people i have fear for is, my parents, My God

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COWARDS, My dear.

Why not try to beat a man so he can fear you?

You fear his strength or what?

For me, I respect those that deserve it, not those that bawl for it just because of age diff.

If a woman respect her man before marrying him, there's only two ways she can lose respect for him. If he loses respect for himself and if he loses respect for her.

But are men God? Why should women fear them?

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beacause u dey study martial arts abi??

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I have no fear of any man.

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Fear in a woman's heart?

Was that the purpose?

Do you know what they call those type of men?

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maybe

i must confess, ive done it and it felt good. it instilled discipline and fear in the womans heart. a very good remedy for stubborn and arrogant women

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@GABE

You're not serious. still thinking of beating a woman?

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if you have the strenght and wherewithall, the go ahed. you definately have every right

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A woman being stubborn is band while a man being stubborn is good? Or do I have the same right to beat a man if he proves too obstinate?

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