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Why Do Guys Love Dating Unintelligent Girls, Who Aren't That Exposed?

I tend to come across a lot of naija guys who always appreciate my looks, but once i start talking they always go like she's so intelligent and then they feel like you've bruised their ego one way or the other, i sat a couple of my male friends down and i asked them what they think about this issue, some were like naija guys appreciate daft, submissive girls, others said it's not really acceptable for a lady to be widely read, i tire for naija guys, when will they ever let go of all this ancient stuffs?

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please what do you say that makes you sound so intelligent? wow. I guess those guys are not the one for you, probably not intelligent themselves or intimidated by your intelligence.

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Personally, i generally enjoy the company of highly intelligent girls cos it keeps me mentally active.

Now, dating someone unintelligent to me is dead boring. However we are all unique in our own ways. I once dated a girl just because of her stupidity! it made me laugh. & even when she is not being silly i just find a reason to laugh cos she was real fun to be wiv. she made happy for a while, but later i wanted more challenge mentally from my partner so i had to move on. But that is me, some other guy might see her & wanna spend the rest of his life with her just for that reason.

It depends on what the individual wants in his/her partner, and not a syndrome like some people see it!

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me cant date unintelligent women sha o

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Yall r talking bulloks!

D naija guy wey me no wil date/shag nytin wit an extra openin.if its mary den difrent story

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I wouldn't say Nigerian guys love to date 'unintelligent' grils.

I would rather say there are alot of factors guys consider when dating girls

The 'so-called intelligent' Nigerian girls may have serious issues that turn guys off. For example, they could be proud, unnecessarily competitive with the guys, trying to prove they are better, not willing to be submissive, demand impossibly high standards from guys, etc. In fact, because they are educated and think they are intelligent, they might subsconciously think guys do not measure up to them and this subsconcious belief shows in their attitude which begins to turn guys off.

The 'so-called uuintelligent' girls may be more womanly, submissive, respectful, teachable and not always trying to prove they are better than their men. It is this type of girls who are actually intelligent but know how to treat their men so the men don't inferior or have their egos bruised

If Nigerian men are refusing to date you because you are 'intelligent' you need to look inwards and find out what you are not doing right. It is not because you are 'intelligent and exposed'. It might rather be because they can't see the 'African Woman' in you.

Please do all you can to be smart, intelligent, educated,learned but learn to use these qualities without pride or in unwarranted competition with your man.

You can have a man eating out of your hands if you only know how to treat him well.

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That Fact is definitely far from the truth ,Guys love to go out with intelligent ladies whom they can boast of anytime anywhere especially among their friends, Somebody like me i love intelligent girls who will always share ideas with me and ready to help when there is problem, For instance my ex-girl friend is so intelligent that i love her so much and do commend her at all times.But no matter how much a lady is brilliant it has been ordained by God that she must be submissive even if he's daft.

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That Fact is definitely far from the truth ,Guys love to go out with intelligent ladies whom they can boast of anytime anywhere especially among their friends, Somebody like me i love intelligent girls who will always share ideas with me and ready to help when there is problem, For instance my ex-girl friend is so intelligent that i love her so much and do commend her at all times.But no matter how much a lady is brilliant it has been ordained by God that she must be submissive even if he's daft.

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@poster

where are you, abi u don run. come ansa them guys here abeg.

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I think u r wrong 2 think dat guys hate 2 date unintelligent girls. There may b something else u r doing wrong

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maybe becos they are good teachers

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naall naija guys 4 london dey do like that

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Brilliantly Said. I Think There Is Nothing Mo 2 Add. What Mo I Can I Add?

Some Girls Suffer From Delusions Grandeur. Thats The Common Mistake They Make. "Over Inflated "Ego" Denies Them True Love.

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@ Poster

How do you define Intelligence ? does high level of education make one intelligent- intelligence is a matter of perspective and context someone who is intelligent in a context may be deem unintelligent in another context

How do you define Exposure ? This same goes for exposure

I utterly dislike ur assumption about guys, and i believe people that make such assumptions make it to feel better than others and the only way they make up for the own failings is to let others feel inferior- quite common amongst Nigerians.

There are many factors that affects the choice of girls that a guy chooses to date e.g Physique, Circumstance, Convenience, wealth, health, education e.t.c and these factors have different degree of importance to different guys.

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@poster

seeking attention. Try more hada u will get it.

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Alright, I'm pretty fed up of this nonsense.

Why do people keep generalising mindlessly? It doesn't make sense!

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@ saucekid, i ain't got tribal marks at all, am just a beautiful naija chic, u can relax

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@ phoomie,

dis is the first time i am hearing that name in this forum,

i hope you dont have tribal marks oooooooooo?

because that will really discourage me

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n gauge,

thanks for keeping it real!

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siena,

am bored man! i just got so bothered there was an argument between a couple of naija guys in my office over lunch so i just thot this topic again?

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I like girls like this

http://youtube.com/watch/v/lj3iNxZ8Dww

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well in most cases it could be a disease to her emotional health.

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