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Why Do I Always Have To Call Her?

I know one nice girl from Nigeria, but always I have to call her cos she never calls me.

She says in her tradition its up to the man to call.

Is that true or is she just playing games on me

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I won't accept she loves you; because if she does, she wouldn't have any problems in calling you.

Any girl who can't pick up a phone to call her lover simply means she has little or no feelings for him. If you love someone, your heart would be wherever that person is regardless of how expensive it is to make a phone call.

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My guy forget the babe and look for another one, i live in d uk & my babe is in nija still in school, she calls me every second, at times i dont even bother return d call, but that does not mean i dont love her, i do, if a woman loves u she will call you. You cannot hide or fake affection, all these bull-poo about woman does not do this or that is all crap pure and simple.

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What bill are you paying if she only recives calls

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It seems she is old schooled or playing hard to get.

so u mean if you dont call her for one week she will not call u back to find how you are.

me sha i would tell her dont u want to find out how i am, what if Im sick, you wouldnt call me, try and call me it would let me know you want to speak to me. have u thought maybe she is not interested in you??

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bebe2007

You are spot on. I lived in Nigeria for about a year. There is nothing you cant do if you have money and this goes in every third world country. Relationship is no different. I hate to say this but I dont think there is any such thing as love these days. Money controls everything.

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@ ruescho

Dont you have a mouth, are you a baby? you are enabling her to ask for things. its not by force to pay her telephone bill. if it bothers you to pay it TELL HER, or MOVE ON. Next week you will come and post that she is making you pay her electicity bill, i hate to be harsh but open your mouth and talk, you have given her the impression that you like to pay her bills, do you want her to say "no o please ruescho dont pay my phone bill." That will not happen in this lifetime.

As for your comment about everything in naija ends up about money, bros its not just naija its EVERYWHERE. Capitalism makes the world go round!

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I really do not know.

But as long as there are men out there to impress girls, there are girls out there waiting to be impressed.

A young girl cannot afford anything for herself from a "jobbing " job,

Its not like in Europe.

my daughter that goes to school can make about 400€ a month on a mini job just working .

She is not paying rent or anyother thing. expect she is a greedy pig that wants a jaguar not a Beetle she can afford every thing for herself

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I think there might be some tradion in it, because I used to have a guy friend in canada and we were always on the phone and i remember calling him like twice in one week and one day like that my mom pulled me aside and told me to stop calling him so much, that i should let the guy do the calling.

In your case if you really like the woman and want to see where you peoples relationship can go, i dont think you should let petty things like calling disturb you. Calling here once or twice wont put a big dent in your wallet.

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IF IT IS NOT ABOUT SPENDING MONEY FOR MAKING CALLS OR NOT AFFORDING TO MAKE A CALL WHAT IS THEN? WHO WOULD BELIEVE SOMEONE TELLING THEM THAT THERE IS SUCH A TRADITION OF A WOMAN NOT CALLING A MAN WHEREEVER?

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Guy stop calling her,international calls from Nigeria is just 90kobo per sec.She`s fooling u.

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Na bread she they sell?, that's a crazy lie, international calls aint that expensive from 9ja, Mr man, you be Maga? No fall mugu, 9ja babes eye dey shook

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In my experience it comes down to money. I can understand if a woman is telling me that she cant afford to call from Nigeria but I would be a fool if I believe her telling me something about such a tradition in this day of the world.

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Oga,if it bothers you then why dont you just try to stop callingher.You cant be addicted to her

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I one way she has a point. women do not spend money men.

Phone calls cost alot

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