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Why Do I Keep Comparing My Girlfriend To Other Girls?

Whenever i see a fine chick, i start thinking, hmmm what does my G/F not have that this babe has got? Is she too fat? Too little a$$? And i wonder if its normal. Somebody speak up

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well for one looks is not everything, so far u only notice other girls appearance but u dont notice thier habits or thier personalities. your girl is your girl for a reason which is not looks so u r obviously trying to see how u can make her better. you cant do dat by comparing, just look for her good characteristics and improve on that.

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u dont think ya girlf is so musch beautiful than the other girls

u think the other girls are so beautiful than ya girlfriend

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well, it's only natural. same way no guy would feel comfortable if his chic started comparing or wishing upon a star for a "better" guy.

by the way grid, could you put a pic of your girl up so that a brother like me can give more tips on how to keep you relationship steady without flipping.

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my guy, stop tormenting this girl and just free her.actually no girl likes to be compared with someone else and any guy in his right sense wont do dt to his chick if he really likes her .

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If she did, i'd be glad if i never get to know. Somewhere deep inside of everybody, theres a selfish little fellow that cries "surely theres a beeter option", or "the grass is greener somewhere". What we crave is now what differs from person to person.

I admire my girlfriend and i dont regret being with her - i mean, she's got a great bod, guys trip over themselves for her, she's got a lovely character and she's in love with me - and we have similar life goals, but i wont pretend that i dont get these thoughts sometimes. I just wanted to know if it was normal.

For instance, how many of u guys will say they have seen a movie/pic of a very lovely chic and thoughts like "if that chick were mine, " or "if my girlfiend liooked like that, " NEVER came to their heads?

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What if your girlfriend did that to you as well? How would it make you feel? What would you think of her? Do to others as you would like to be treated. Put yourself in her shoes for a minute and stop this already.

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you cant get 100% of everything you want in a relationship

if its up to 60% manage it and make up to the rest by yourself

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there r also girls dat compare their guys n get lost in fantasies. let's not cari d blame alone, men.

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i'd like to cosign WEEV's comment. looking is normal. unfavorable comparisons are NOT a good sign. perhaps, you are nervous about being in love and your mental dissing of your GF is the only way you know how to act out, or perhaps this love is not forever

but, at least your conscious of it and evaluate your actions! good job. whatever you do, dont cheat on her. it'll only ruin what you have. breaking up would be better.

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your name says it all. your greed is locked n that's y your girl remains #1 for you. as my guy, i'l jus put it 2 u lyk this. if there r things u kno u can uz 2 upgrade her 2 standard n r within your capacity, get it done fast 2. 1 thin remains 4 sure, fyn girls no dey finish 4 this lyf. jus focus on your baby.

so if u go look, no VAT. but when u proceed, u mus pay full price!!

*whisper* (e b lyk say gridlock dey vex as im babe no gather enough amenities)

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I don't ever want to have to ask this "when your spouse starts getting fat" question. I dread it the way i dread heights.

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*calls pastor* please pray for this young man!!

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lol kinda funny Disney

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if i were ur galfriend, i'd be very mad if i found out datz what u're doing

i want 2 have ma guy's undivided attention

me,myself n i is al he's got

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