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Why Do Ladies Take Quiet Guys For Granted?

My people why do ladies take quiet guys for granted? Why did they treat them anyhow?

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Quite and maybe silly,that's when a lady will treat you like thrash,you can be quite and still earn earn the respect of a lady if u are very principled,u don't just stay quiet and act like a zombie,you talk when you have something to say and keep your mouth shut when u don't have anything meaningful to say.Being quite doesn't mean you are silly it just means you don't feel the pressure of saying something silly to impress a girl.

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Totallly DISAGREE!!!! I have a lotta garrulous friends, and i can tell ya, dey always hav a lot to say wheneva we with chics, who also seem to dig them, never have i noticed where d quiet dudes gets any, i mean, u havta keep the gist floooowwwwwwwwwwwing!

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hey i tink u;re going banana or sometin,well d boring part is tru but d can also keep good company

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No, quiet guys are not boring; they speak when necessary and they speak reasonably. You might want to do a little research on them, my findings the last time I checked is that, they seem to attract the curiosity and attention of girls more than the lousy guys. After all the noise and baseless jokes of all these lousy guys, a quiet guys most of the times wins the day and the girl with few sensible words. Somehow many girls tends to think they are more serious than the lousy guys.

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As a guy, i must have to say this; Being quiet is boring and girls want guys who can keep good interesting company. I'm quite when everyone wants to give their opinions at the same time, but talk funny and sensibly when i feel the enviroment need not be dull,, (guys, thats my secret for drawing your girls attention + my handsoeness= GAMEOVER)

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girlz,we've been talking about seeing doctorz for public holderz now i think,most of u need one too.becos how any sane person no go sane for quiet guyz still baffles me.

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Am a gentle & a quiet guy but that doesnt make me a mumu. I talk when it's time to talk & no girl dares take me for granted, dem never born them. I have a 'low tolerance' for girls that think they can ride on guys.

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im a quiet guy. And women take me 4 granted, till they know me

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man letz just say most ladies are whacked menatally,cos i just cant see why d should alwayz go down for d bad guyz anyday and will see dis quiet onez as foolz or poo.

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[b][/b][i][/i] Ladies believe they will alway 've the way with them.

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Another wrong perspective. You need to be close to them to know them.

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You scored 50%.

Just because they are unpredictable doesnt make them evil. It's a virtue.

Yes they are deep. That also should be a virtue.

Dont be scared of them baby, they are also very totful and considerate.

they would rather judge your intentions/motives than actions.

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am amazed at the number of guys that claimed to be quiet guys here, more amazed at the number of ladies who show preference for quiet guys. But how many ladies presently are going out with one?

Quiet guys are not easily noticed, don’t seek limelight, speak only when necessary and they are only noticed by ladies who have eyes for something deep….just my tots.

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Quiet guy!

Hmmmm! How do you define a quiet guy?

Reticent?

Gullible?

Green snake in a green lawn?

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The gentleness of a Tiger is not the symbol of been a coward my dear.

l"m personally calm,b/c that"s the only way l can be FOCUS and be reasonable while talking few words.

for ladies taken me granted?,l ill personaly respect myself by stayed off.

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@ poster, i don't know wot u mean. but i can be sometimes silent to some girls due to various reasons. i read a girl characters before entering her. but if the fact that i 'm silent does not mean a girl can take advantage of me. i am 9ice to girls generally.

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@poster, NO! Ladies do not take quiet guys for granted. Instead they adore them cos they are more sensitive cos they have listening ears, they talk less and use more of their thinking faculty. They make the best of lovers, but I must also add that they are cunning. They warm their way so easily into a woman's heart and also into their pants; this is were their cunning nature comes in. Because women tend to fall easily in love with them, they sleep with girl friends best friend. Sleep with friends girl friends, sleep with even female friends. FEAR QUIET GUYS but RESPECT them. However, note that quiet and timid ain't the same though may have 1 or 2 things in common. You better know which side of the divide you are at if your girls are taking u for granted. I also will acknowledge that some ladies mistake being quiet for being foolish or timid. I remember my days as a single guy, it paid off for me real good. UP quiet guys that their game is tight. Peace and one love.

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I don't know wat U re talking abt,I am not a very quite guy but I make it a habit to talk very little when am around the ladies especially when i am interested in one.Infact my current Gf fell for me bcoz of my attitude of talking only when it was neccessary,when we got to know eachother better,she was wowed by the fact that I was a very interesting person,who knew just abt every gist and still doesn't blab.She says am mature and sexy for my reticence,same wif her,besidez her looks,one of the reasons i fell for her was bcoz she was always aware and in control of her thoughts,she doesn't get carried away in the heat of a discussion,this is a test many of my exs ve failed.I like it when a person knows how to strike a balance btw saying too much and saying very little.So poster,U re mistaking a timid guy for a mature guy that choose his words clearly showing he is in control of his thought that way he saves himself the embarassment of silly uncontrolled outburst or idiosyncrasies.

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I don't know wat U re talking abt,I am not a very quite guy but I make it a habit to talk very little when am around the ladies especially when i am interested in one.Infact my current Gf fell for me bcoz of my attitude of talking only when it was neccessary,when we got to know eachother better,she was wowed by the fact that I was a very interesting person,who knew just abt every gist and still doesn't blab.She says am mature and sexy for my reticence,same wif her,besidez her looks,one of the reasons i fell for her was bcoz she was always aware and in control of her thoughts,she doesn't get carried away in the heat of a discussion,this is a test many of my exs ve failed.I like it when a person knows how to strike a balance btw saying too much and saying very little.So poster,U re mistaking a timid guy for a mature guy that choose his words clearly showing he is in control of his thought that way he saves himself the embarassment of silly uncontrolled outburst or idiosyncrasies.

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Whatever. Such people tend to keep their rage inside. Na people like una dey go postal and shoot up places

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this highlighted, my friend, is the undoing of many a "quiet" guy!

the broads will tell u they luv em "quiet" guys, but when push comes to shove and they have to choose. . . .  you'll be hearing s**t like "the devil u know is better than. . . . ", "I don't know you. . . . .", "I can't tell what is on ur mind. . . "!

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2 me it's not right for a ladies take quiet guyz 4 granted, b'cos i'm so quiet i 'll not tolerate that

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They are evil. Still waters run deep

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but, in the first place, why would a lady think she can take a guy for granted, why that tendency? why would they think of themselves as better and more logical in arriving at decisions?Or is it peculiar to naija girls?

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The slowness of the cat; the skill, not a lack of will.

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Quietness is a virtue everyone should aspire to have.

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I simply love quiet guys, my Guy is a very quiet one but very assertive.

May be you are talkin about timidity and I tell you ladies would take such guys for a ride.

If you are quiet, let it be a trait not that you are doing it to please a lady; thats foolishness.

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Being quiet doesn't pay one bit.Talking out of experience and sure know what i'm saying.

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bein quiet doesn't mean u shud b cold,

i'm cool but not cold, dat's real me.

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Greetings ! I love a quiet man more than any other type. I think the women who do take them for granted are not looking for love but something else, maybe for "things" they can get from the man.

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FOR EXAMPLE

Is a 50:50 thing. if you are working as a Customer service manager you"re bound to talk.

That life. Here in the Uk if you are too quite it can really affect you because people around you

may think you are hiding something and not really engross in the conversation e.g. at work

as you know people like you to talk and keep them engrossed especially ladies

If a girl don't like it because I talk too much then I better choose her or my career

Beside who is she to decide for me.

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i personally wouldunt dare to take a quiet guy 4 granted cuz u dont know whats gon come ur way next.i fear quiet people wether male or female

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well ur 1st impression wen u c me is, what a quiet guy, but by no means weak.

me been quiet is for observation purpose, but wen i settle in, am like a loin out of his cageeeeeeeeeeeeee, dat cant be tamed

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I dont kno why everyone is suddenly sayin dey like quiet guys, way i see it, loud guys RULE their environment, they dominate, they lead, so quit this "i love quiet guys crap!"

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guy wetin the guy do u? Or was your babe one of the "kokolets" that he "kokoed" in his koko mansion?

still hate the whole idea of that show till today.

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I can be quiet, but not weak. Quietness doesn't make a girl to ride on a guy, but weakness and a low self-esteem does.

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I dont think respect comes from been quiet or not, it is earned from character.

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its a pity every radical now claim to be quiet.whats special in being a quiet guy? i am a quiet guy.infact,the general notion that pple have of quiet pple is dat they are weak.being a quiet guy,i have not had any experience of a girl trying to take me for granted.i may be quiet but not weak or silly.

most guys (those days in sch) have tried to intimidate me.yeah.sometimes u let d devil have his way.i once reacted and the result was dat the guy was hospitalised and i was arrested by the school security and suspended.no one believed dat i was the one who did what i did.

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My silence is my weapon.

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Most girls dont like quiet guys,just very few of them do.I was once like that but i had to change when i lost two good girls to some yori-yori guys.Girls like nasty things,they enjoy it.I started a relationship being a quiet guy but later change and my gal confessed that she love my later disposition.

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there is a vast difference between quiet confidence and quiet dumbness

i know a number of quiet guys who can ride 10 girls at a time and none of them would even know.

with quiet guys, u never know what they think per time and if you are invited to share their thots, its a priviledge

u can never fully say u kno wot a quiet guy can or cant do.moreover, they complement extroverted chics.

i have a boyfriend who's cool n being an extrovert myself, i think dats the attraction.

i prefer a cool guy to a loud one anytime.

i'ld rather do all the talking, since its natural for me anyway,

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Well am also Quiet and unpredictably dangerous as a result of my past experience with ladies who tend to mistake my quietness for timidity.I think Guys should leave the talking for Girls .

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wel, i like quiet guys

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LOL @ every dude claiming to be a Quiet person

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well am a quiet guy but i dont think any lady born of another lady would dare ride or even try to take me for granted?

cos if she does it to her own perils.

hahaaahhaha

 

quiet but sharp bad niggar.

i no be tuface  oooooooooo

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blow ur own trumpet!

how do u tell u'r quiet?

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