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Why Do Lecturers Victimize Innocent Poor Students So Much!?!

Its alarming how students fail despite their sufficient effort to pass?

Like a friend of mine who sat wit me during an exam failed a course only because prior to d exam,d lecturer asked her to see him which she never did.On d exam day he told her that she'l fail which happened only because she didnt see! I actually passed the course wit a B.

This is our final year and d worst thing is extra year.What can my friend do to avoid failing the course again this final year?

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You're welcome, Hunk A

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Thanks alot George-D,i appreciate every.

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@amaechijay,

You're among the few lucky ones. These lecturers will surely meet their bitter end sooner

than latter.

@Hunk A,

Tell her to stand her ground. She will overcome if she remains resolute.

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Thank you all for all your advice!

My friend wrote the exam on tuesday 28,may,2009,after the exam,d lecturer told her to see him in his office that evening which she did not do.I just dont know wat it'l take to get rid of d man's interest in her.Its horrible.

I tell her to visit one good female lecturer i know but the problem is that she's fresh in the system!

I just hope things work out fine for her.

Pls NL help me pray for her too

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@ George D, thanks for concoring to my position

It is sad to see that these lecturers go skot-free for these assaults and abuse.

You need to see how I was shivering in his presence, weeping and begging for pardon and for my original grades to be recorded because I got wind of my grades on the 2 courses from our senior colleagues that helped him mark our papers. He ordered me out of his office not minding my hysterical state.

People were so sorry for me because they all know who Imo Essiet is and what he can do in UniCal.

I thank God he was able to collect money in exchange thoh

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Nobody should be allowed to get away with molest under any guise.

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@amechijay,

That's exactly what we're talking about here. Those lecturers belong

in jail.

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@ vivinette

I am not sure you kow what this thread is talking about.

- victimization - This is being pressured to do something bad against your will or get purnishment for disobeying.

@ hassymo5

Please, read and comprehend the thread before commenting. We are not talking about female students that go about asking ffor sex but htose who are decent but still fall prey to this randy lecturers.

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heheheeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee nigeria my lovely country, you guys will never learn. all males have this natural affectionh for anything under skirt, apart from the fact that this lecturers are sexually starved by their disfigured housewives, men will only do what they are good at "do girls"

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@ ferdiii

It happened to me too and it wasn't because of outrageous dressing , far from it. A lecturer can pick interest in girl just like any other man would when they see a pretty face or cute body. They are human beings too.

The first ttime,I ran to DVC of my Uni who saved the situation but the second time, was one notorious lecturer who is known for doing unprintable things with female students inside his office and nobody (not even the authorities) has been able to stop him because he belonged to a cult. I had to resort to begging.

I sort the help of his girlfriends in my class, and at the end of the day, he asked them to tell me to bring money (sorting) which I swore never to engage in till I graduate, but had to do because he was bent on having me spend an extra year in school.

According to him "she tink say her own thing na gold" Yes, she said that to the girls in my presence.

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dress to kill who? those you're refering to are already dead in lust anyway.

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i have a question:

who is harrassing who?, as some guys have posted above,girls [b]"dress TO KILL", [/b]if we guys ,their classmates can feel the heat, how much more lecturers who have got "power"

ladies should try to lay low, at least you have something to offer, if na guy lecturer mean , the guy is finished

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yes more money to spend on thier concubines!

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I dont know oooooooooooooooo.

But some ladies do show-off to be victimized, indiscent dressing etc.

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All we need to do is make a scapegoat of one of the useless lecturers.

Get him making advances and/or threats on record, and prosecute his Bottom.

All the idiots ever do is go on strike asking for more money

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Who are the poor students? Leave that mater, a lot of them are criminal minded with no educational ability.

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The blames should not just go to d lecturers alone, some of these girls,go seducing & sleeping wit lecturer 4 marks. Y becos they don't want to read. If u dress decent i don't think any lecturer would look at you, but if u dress half Unclad u a selling ur self & definately a customer wil buy.

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find out where your friend went wrong. sometimes the girls bring such upon themselves

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These universities are not worth the paper thier names are written on.

They should be closed down.

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This is a very sad commentary on our educational system. Is it any wonder then that

none of our higher institutions rank among the first 2000 universities in the world?

Only God can save us from these rapists masquerading as lecturers!

My advice, say no and stick to your guns!

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The answers to this critical question lies in the hands of both the female students and the lecturers.To me the answers are indecent dressing by female students;laziness resulting in dullness on the part of female student;and the last one is the one portray by the evil minded lecturers.This last answer is the one that make me so frighten and the only way a lady can get through this; is to turn to GOD through fasting and prayer to guide her through this temptation.

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my advice for you is to turn to GOD.[/b]He is the only one that knows the unknown and him alone can do the undo.Pray more.with [b]GOD all things are possible

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i was once in this trap , i had no choice but to pray, couldn't go thru the stress cos i knew a girl that hadn't graduated for 3yrs after her mates did

i just couldn't imagine myself in that state and i thank God for the opportunity to have an option

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the lecturer lacks discipline.most girls that lecturers sleep with are of the same age range with their daughters or niece.it's just like sleeping with your own.

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many at times girls fall for sex ploys because they don't know how to say NO  and remain firm on that decission to sexual advances.after the experience the hate themselves for the weakness.

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many at times girls fall for sex ploys because they don't know to say NO and remain firm to sexual advances.after the experience the hate themselves for the weakness.

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Is your Dad a lecturer?

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@okito i dont know hw gals ask 4 it Oh n dis tin is widespread.i had a friend in sch who was a vice president in one of campus fellowship n a lecturer in my dept asked to c her,she tried to avoid cinin him until he finally cornered her,asked her to meet him in a hotel.she told him she was a christian and all.the lecturer said he liked dat fact cos she must likely will be clean of STD!can u imagine dat?

personally d lesson i learnt in school,is dat u must be extraordinary gud as a gal rite from ur first year,if any lecturers fails u,questions will be asked from other lecturers who know hw brillant u are.

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some ladies go asking for it o but its not as widespread as you will make it be.

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What these ladies wear always worries the lecturers ( the high-bloodied ones), so the ladies pay for their antics. They know what they are doing but sometimes cry blue murder. Some ladies ask to be fukced for grades (some never wrote the exams) but when a lecturer doesn't comply, the ladies complain of harassment. People are bad oh! Then who to prosecute the taped evidence is another problem.Even HOD are worse. A prof. was hoping to have it with my sister last year before an admission could be secure. I told my sister not to give in.We don't want everlasting regrets.[b]The system is bad and the heads of department and Universities' VCs are bad or insensitive.[/b]

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its rather unfortunate this is happening, i happen to be a lecturer in one of the tertiary institutions in niger state, i saved a student once by claiming to be dating her when one of my colleagues was hell bent on having her, even though students do get harrased, they should find ways of sorting this out, if there is a female lecturer you are close with, talk to her in wisdom and confidentiality and she can help out, always find a decent female staff or a decent male lecturer and explain things to him, it might just help

again i want to say here that i have been harrased by female students and even stalked, waht do i do?, who do i report to? people only see what is said about lecturers, i will soon drop my own experiences with female student

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topic--who's d lecturer? let me remove him from d office.i don't like oppressors.

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Some times in life we undergo very serious temtpations that are meant to be challenges.

Tell the girl to pray and leave the rest to The Big One Upstairs. The devil will be paid his dues in due time.

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Murder-rator!

Where's ma post on dis topic? Tek ya time, oh!

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I say hire someone to beat him up and expose him to his wife. or she should find out when he worships (if he is a christian) go to his church, report him to his pastor and expose him in from of his church members, that should teach him a lesson

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These lecturers are just Randy bastards.I had a friend who had a problem in a lecturers course and he told her to go and pay for a hotel room, Saying why can't he sleep with her since he is going to add value to her life by giving her good grades and the school boyfriend he assumes she sleeps with is of no value to her.IMAGINE!!!

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~ Two lecturaz lost their jobs/wives afta they got exposed just last year. ~

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hey Dear,

my Advice to u is go and pray.Nothing's Impossible with GOD almighty.

The Heart of Kings is in th Hand of the CReator.

He"ll Handle him Right.

thanks

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Equip yourself with a Video pen (www.mycompuflash.com), then send the evidence to your HOD.

Too sad such idiots get away with it due to lack of proof.

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A friend of mine had d same problem & we were able 2 get evidence on a tape recorder. We then approached a very principled prof with copies ofcourse. The matter was settled inhouse & d gal was let go. The truth is we still have some very decent 1s among them who will not stand 4 such. All we need is irefutable pröof

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How many men would slam these ladies? Lecturers, Fiance, Boss, Boyfriend, sex @ first sighters, smart friends et al. Damn! Ladies get problem

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She should get a tape recorder/camera and see the lecturer. . . . . .

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Na waa for our education system,

If it were my wife/fiancee, I won't only burst his bubble.I will make sure he curse the very day he chose to be a lecturer, I don't give a damn whether she graduates or not. . . . . .Nonsense.

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frame him up how?

every other person in power is doing the exact same thing

who will persecute it?

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~ She shld frame the d*ck bastard up! A video will be perfect. ~

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@post

datz how d Mr lecturer thing goes!

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well this is hard, since she is a gul, she knws probably wat he wants. she shld pray abt it,afterall there is nothing god cant do.

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Lecturers don't do this intentionally.

It happens naturally.

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