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Why Do Many Nigerian 'slim' Girls Get Fat Soon As They Marry?

I am a great supporter of the lady-folks BUT there is one thing i really do not support.When a young woman is unmarried ,she does anything to keep her shape[not all of them though but majority] but will throw cution to the wind soon as she marries and become another big 'screen' in the house.Does it mean they dont wana be attractive to thier husbands again?We aint talking of the health implecation of growing too fat yet,

We want ladies to help us here,

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pregnancy

hormones

sedantary lifestyle

culture etc

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@Sissy,

U are very right Honey.

Truth is good but not so many can admit,

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LOL, people who have never had Eba have post pregnancy stretch marks , how do you explain that one?

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@oxone.i am not talking about mysef here.i am talking generally.no girl fit snatch my husband from me cs i am hotter than fire.

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@whitesturd

it shouldnt be natural for both parties cos then all the hot girls wuld take your husband from you.

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wel wel wel.its natural cos,normally when u are married and given birth,u feel relaxed

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it is a Nigerian thing - very unattractive and unheallthy

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I hate to say this but a bunch of guys add weight after marriage too. Especially in the mid section and love handles. My suggestion is that the married couple keep motivating each other. Go to the gym together and monitor and encourage each other. Your spouse is also like or supposed to be your partner. Your spouse is supposed to be your number one cheer leader, so I say live a healthy life together and watch how you eat.

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The health effect of having less fat is even more reason to try and be a little be on the shapy side[both men and women]

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They let themselves go.

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most ladies keep themselves in check when they are single as to attractive 'em guys and once they have them they can eat all the midnight chocolate cakes they want without having to worry whether their thighs are too fat to enter their lucky brand jeans

while for most women it is a shift of personal responsibility. taking care of family adds to stress which adds to the stomach

while for most ladies it is just pure laziness no excuse

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wat is dis wiv naija girls first it was protuding belly now its fat plz leave us naija girls alone

anywayz @topic-

i think its because of food and because they become lazy and tired and also if their husband dont say anything like omg u getting fat

wat do u want them to do cuz they will fink dat their husband like them the way they are so it is not their fault blame the husband.

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Jack tweed, you are the only one making sense in

this thread. great examples to go with your points

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Its because they are generally indisciplined and believe with their marriage they can do whatever they want by becoming fat, obese, rotund shapeless amoebas hiding under the guise of cooking and having kids. Shey Michelle Obama no de cook and born pikin for her husband? Is turai Yaradua not cooking and having kids for her husband that she still looks slim and sexy even in her old age?

All these fat f***ks just know how to wear their tight jeans and hide their protuding shapeless bellies for men before they marry and after marriage, they remove their girdle instead of G-strings to expose that mass of disgusting and irritating fat to flaunt into our faces. Honestly, no matter what, if i get married and my wife exceeds a particular weight scale,Its over.

i cant mule over a shapeless amoeba as my wife and feel sexually attracted to that revolting thing. Its good there is always a back up to do aristo to follow young, sexy and slim campus girls who can take my mind off that revolting blub before i divorce her!

Before you marry them, they will be forming that they only eat low fat foods, drink skimmed milk and claim to watch their weights so as to attract the man to marry them. The moment you marry them, fufu, amala, akpu, starch and every concievable fatty food becomes their staple meal and even midnight afters and you start to wonder where you went wrong to marry this fat revolting shrek like ogre!

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It's the husband & wife who let go once married! Opportunity to eat at least 3 times daily, cooking for kids & husband and having to eat sometimes just to encourage kids to eat, changed diet/recipes as a result of husband, practically no time to work out, no encouragement from spouse to keep fit rather wife gets negative comments. In fact I'd commend any woman who managed to retain her dress size after marriage and at least 2 kids-it is a tough task!

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@60 = 6packs

hmmmmmmmm

okay nah!

lol

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I second that one too!

But it doesnt apply to everyone lol . My dad is close to 60 with a 6 pack no lie.

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lol, yeah heard that one too.!

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yh, i've noticed that. but i also noticed that same happens wid men. they call it happiness or a sign of good living

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@lady bam,

i never say all the women, i said most and if you look around its just the truth.I actually raised this issue because most women doesnt know that the best time to be sexxy, in the real designated manner is when married and you will be that more appealling to your hubby if you take a little effort in keeping shape, am i right?, Tease himonce more with you figure, he will long to be there,

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it dose'nt apply to everyone!

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I figure they get stuffed up with regular sex and now that there's no need of condoms and withdrawal methods, the male sperm over-nourishes them.

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O yeah and I do agree with Platinum , My mum had three kids and we shared the same size in clothing well into herlate fifties , and then mama nature caught up with her and she has a potbelly now .

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my bf said something like that, its just the responsiblities shifts from being sexy to taking care of the kids, cooking, etc. its common and ppl get over it lol

But my mom is slim with 5 children so it doesnt apply to everyone.

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